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#1541405 - 07/31/08 11:42 PM Re: Letting God Take Control Part 14 [Re: glamgirl]
plentyhope Offline
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Hi glam,
Yes, did you read today's Charlyne Cares about unbelief and doubt? It's awesome and I love it. It came at the right time for me.

Those dreams I had do help remind me of God's promise to restore my M. Everytime I felt sad about my M this week, I reminded myself of the dreams.

I cried driving home today, asking God why I had to go through this pain for so long.

Good luck for the garage cleaning. I like IKEA designs. I have bought stuff but have not been happy with them, e.g. my chest of drawers fall apart.
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#1541409 - 07/31/08 11:49 PM Re: Letting God Take Control Part 14 [Re: plentyhope]
glamgirl Offline
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I like to go there for the childcare for the kids. They get to have fun and then we will have lunch there. You are right the quality is not the best.

I got kids bedroom stuff there, but not for the rest of the house. I like getting the Sparkling juice and some of the pillows and kitchen gadgets.

It so sad, I have to hear my 4 yr old say I want daddy to come here. My h just doesn't know what he is missing. I am sad! I will have to sign up for the newsletter.
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Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

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#1541425 - 08/01/08 12:09 AM Re: Letting God Take Control Part 14 [Re: glamgirl]
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PH,

Just checking in on you! I'm glad the raindrop therapy is working. I went for my massage today, it was so nice! I'm sore from it but I think it really helped with the stress.

(((HUGS)))

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#1541488 - 08/01/08 01:33 AM Re: Letting God Take Control Part 14 [Re: happynow]
sooners7xchamps Offline
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Registered: 05/28/08
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Hi PH,

Today I got a call from a coach from pathpartners. They give you 30min. I did most of the talking, she didn't have a whole lot of input for my sitch. After she heard how dire my sitch sounded she said that if it stayed the same, she would give it till Oct. and if things aren't better to get a divorce. I'm thinking I'm already down I don't need to be kicked anymore. She was a complete waist of my time. I would not recommend pathpartners to anyone.

PH I can identify with you, tonight when I was praying I did plenty of crying myself asking the same thing, why I had to go through this pain for so long. Did a lot of praying for myself tonight for what God wants me to be and then prayed for my W. Always pray for our marriage to be restored and for it to be protected by the blood of Jesus Christ.

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#1541567 - 08/01/08 07:17 AM Re: Letting God Take Control Part 14 [Re: sooners7xchamps]
MidwesternGirl Offline
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Registered: 01/16/06
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I think this has been a frustrating week for many of us. Even me!

My son is up to some shenanigans again, H has not contacted me or spoken to me since Sunday...............and yes, I am angry.
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The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
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#1541572 - 08/01/08 07:27 AM Re: Letting God Take Control Part 14 [Re: happynow]
plentyhope Offline
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nlt, So glad that you liked the massage, and that it helped. Happy BD!
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#1541576 - 08/01/08 07:30 AM Re: Letting God Take Control Part 14 [Re: sooners7xchamps]
plentyhope Offline
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Originally Posted By: sooners7xchamps
Hi PH,

After she heard how dire my sitch sounded she said that if it stayed the same, she would give it till Oct. and if things aren't better to get a divorce. I'm thinking I'm already down I don't need to be kicked anymore. She was a complete waist of my time. I would not recommend pathpartners to anyone.
Sooners,
Same happened to me early on in the S. It was an IC. I stopped seeing her after 5 sessions, and started DB coaching instead.

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PH I can identify with you, tonight when I was praying I did plenty of crying myself asking the same thing, why I had to go through this pain for so long. Did a lot of praying for myself tonight for what God wants me to be and then prayed for my W. Always pray for our marriage to be restored and for it to be protected by the blood of Jesus Christ.
Yes, the only and best thing to do is to pray and pray and pray. The suffering and difficulty are used to test us and try to snare us to give up.
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#1541578 - 08/01/08 07:33 AM Re: Letting God Take Control Part 14 [Re: MidwesternGirl]
plentyhope Offline
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Registered: 07/29/06
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Originally Posted By: steelersfan
I think this has been a frustrating week for many of us. Even me!

My son is up to some shenanigans again, H has not contacted me or spoken to me since Sunday...............and yes, I am angry.
Steelers,
Yep, I wonder if the Charlyne Cares newsletters and how they have touched many of us has anything to do with this. I.e. the Enemy feels more threatened than ever and wants us to stop praying.

Do you think your H is OK? I know how upsetting it can be. Try to not let it get to you.
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#1541641 - 08/01/08 08:43 AM Re: Letting God Take Control Part 14 [Re: plentyhope]
MidwesternGirl Offline
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Registered: 01/16/06
Posts: 7941
Loc: SW USA
Yes, he is just fine.

How do I know? S had him on speakerphone yesterday afternoon and he sounded fine to me. I did not stay long enough to listen to conversation but I let my emotions be heard big time.

I told S to stop bs'ing his dad and that his dad had better get his behind home to take care of his kids. I then slammed the bedroom door shut.

Yep, the enemy does want us all to give up. It would be the easiest thing to do==issue ultimatums, give up, etc.
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The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19

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#1542086 - 08/01/08 12:46 PM Re: Letting God Take Control Part 14 [Re: MidwesternGirl]
glamgirl Offline
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Registered: 04/28/07
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Wow, it sounds like the enemy was really on the attack this week. We will all just have to get busy and pray even more.

Steelers you are so right. It is so easy to give up that is why the D rate is so high. It's hard though when you are with someone that it seems like it is taking forever to come home.

Sooners don't listen to that coach. It' easy to say well if your sitch doesn't change get a D or your sitch looks bleak get a D. Those are the words of the world.

Get deep in prayer and stay there and listen to what God is telling you.
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Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"

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