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#1540355 - 07/31/08 11:29 AM Re: Aiming for a new me 9 [Re: MissH]
kissak Member Registered: 12/31/06 Posts: 3525 Loc: USA	Good luck Dar...and MrsH is right....no expectations. _________________________ Kissak "What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
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#1540368 - 07/31/08 11:32 AM Re: Aiming for a new me 9 [Re: kissak]
Maya44 Member Registered: 08/01/07 Posts: 4521 Loc: Midwest, US	Oh, definately. I'm going over all avenues in my mind now even. It's 10:30 here and I'd have normally emailed him by now, but I haven't really even thought about that until just now. So I must be doing pretty darn good! $\:\)$
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#1540370 - 07/31/08 11:33 AM Re: Aiming for a new me 9 [Re: kissak]
MidwesternGirl Member Registered: 01/16/06 Posts: 7938 Loc: SW USA	I love those dates!! Yep-zero expectations. _________________________ The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
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#1540560 - 07/31/08 01:37 PM Re: Aiming for a new me 9 [Re: MidwesternGirl]
Maya44 Member Registered: 08/01/07 Posts: 4521 Loc: Midwest, US	H just emailed me while I was at lunch letting me know how his back is feeling, asked how my car issues are coming along and then also asked what time I get lunch since he couldn't remember what I said when I first started here. Since he's asking about lunch times, maybe he's really going to keep this lunch date tomorrow. No expectations, but woah! $\:\)$ Edited by darboyd5 (07/31/08 01:41 PM)
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#1540610 - 07/31/08 02:01 PM Re: Aiming for a new me 9 [Re: Maya44]
Maya44 Member Registered: 08/01/07 Posts: 4521 Loc: Midwest, US	Okay, so now H emailed me letting me now that as of this minute he will be at my place at 11:30 and will let me decide where to go for lunch. Yikes! Breathe, breathe, breathe.....faint! $\:\)$ Just kidding, but I do have to relax the excitement a bit!
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#1540613 - 07/31/08 02:02 PM Re: Aiming for a new me 9 [Re: Maya44]
Jack_Three_Beans Moderator Registered: 01/25/06 Posts: 11285	And what has history taught you so far? _________________________ Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet
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#1540620 - 07/31/08 02:09 PM Re: Aiming for a new me 9 [Re: Jack_Three_Beans]
Maya44 Member Registered: 08/01/07 Posts: 4521 Loc: Midwest, US	Way to bring me down man! $\:\)$ Nah, I'm kidding you. I know what history has given me so far, that's why I'm trying to bring my excitement down a bit.....okay, a lot! $\:\)$
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#1540633 - 07/31/08 02:14 PM Re: Aiming for a new me 9 [Re: Maya44]
Jack_Three_Beans Moderator Registered: 01/25/06 Posts: 11285	How about: If he goes to lunch with you then great! Otherwise, nothing out of the ordinary. _________________________ Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet
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#1540636 - 07/31/08 02:15 PM Re: Aiming for a new me 9 [Re: Jack_Three_Beans]
Jack_Three_Beans Moderator Registered: 01/25/06 Posts: 11285	And personally, I'd rather bing you down a few pegs than try and pick you up after all this time. _________________________ Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet
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#1540639 - 07/31/08 02:17 PM Re: Aiming for a new me 9 [Re: Jack_Three_Beans]
Maya44 Member Registered: 08/01/07 Posts: 4521 Loc: Midwest, US	Works for me.....for both of your posts! $\:\)$ I guess I didn't let go as much as I'd like to have either if I get this excited about the word "date" and that he may actually meet up with me.
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