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#1540355 - 07/31/08 11:29 AM Re: Aiming for a new me 9 [Re: MissH]
kissak Offline
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Good luck Dar...and MrsH is right....no expectations.
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#1540368 - 07/31/08 11:32 AM Re: Aiming for a new me 9 [Re: kissak]
Maya44 Offline
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Oh, definately. I'm going over all avenues in my mind now even. It's 10:30 here and I'd have normally emailed him by now, but I haven't really even thought about that until just now. So I must be doing pretty darn good! \:\)

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#1540370 - 07/31/08 11:33 AM Re: Aiming for a new me 9 [Re: kissak]
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I love those dates!!

Yep-zero expectations.
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#1540560 - 07/31/08 01:37 PM Re: Aiming for a new me 9 [Re: MidwesternGirl]
Maya44 Offline
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H just emailed me while I was at lunch letting me know how his back is feeling, asked how my car issues are coming along and then also asked what time I get lunch since he couldn't remember what I said when I first started here. Since he's asking about lunch times, maybe he's really going to keep this lunch date tomorrow. No expectations, but woah! \:\)


Edited by darboyd5 (07/31/08 01:41 PM)

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#1540610 - 07/31/08 02:01 PM Re: Aiming for a new me 9 [Re: Maya44]
Maya44 Offline
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Okay, so now H emailed me letting me now that as of this minute he will be at my place at 11:30 and will let me decide where to go for lunch. Yikes! Breathe, breathe, breathe.....faint! \:\) Just kidding, but I do have to relax the excitement a bit!

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#1540613 - 07/31/08 02:02 PM Re: Aiming for a new me 9 [Re: Maya44]
Jack_Three_Beans Offline
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And what has history taught you so far?
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#1540620 - 07/31/08 02:09 PM Re: Aiming for a new me 9 [Re: Jack_Three_Beans]
Maya44 Offline
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Way to bring me down man! \:\) Nah, I'm kidding you.

I know what history has given me so far, that's why I'm trying to bring my excitement down a bit.....okay, a lot! \:\)

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#1540633 - 07/31/08 02:14 PM Re: Aiming for a new me 9 [Re: Maya44]
Jack_Three_Beans Offline
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How about:

If he goes to lunch with you then great!

Otherwise, nothing out of the ordinary.
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Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

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#1540636 - 07/31/08 02:15 PM Re: Aiming for a new me 9 [Re: Jack_Three_Beans]
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And personally, I'd rather bing you down a few pegs than try and pick you up after all this time.
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Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

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#1540639 - 07/31/08 02:17 PM Re: Aiming for a new me 9 [Re: Jack_Three_Beans]
Maya44 Offline
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Works for me.....for both of your posts! \:\)

I guess I didn't let go as much as I'd like to have either if I get this excited about the word "date" and that he may actually meet up with me.

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