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#1543255 - 08/02/08 12:23 AM Re: SteelerFan New Thread 07/17/08 [Re: happynow]
MidwesternGirl Offline
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nlt:

I am holding my own. S is trying to be intimidating and thinks he rules the roost.

H has not communicated with me since I last saw him on Sunday.
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The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
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#1543260 - 08/02/08 12:30 AM Re: SteelerFan New Thread 07/17/08 [Re: MidwesternGirl]
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Not sure what your post means intimidating and ruling, but you sound like you are doing great!

Don't let him get to you. I won't see my h until Sunday. No contact since Wed.
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Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"

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#1543264 - 08/02/08 12:31 AM Re: SteelerFan New Thread 07/17/08 [Re: MidwesternGirl]
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SF,

I'm so sorry!!! What a week this has been for everyone!

You have been so faithful, you can do this. I am surprised about your H not contacting you but I think you are doing great by staying dark. Hopefully he is thinking about you, which I'm sure he is.

Hang in there!!!!

((((HUGS))))

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#1543266 - 08/02/08 12:33 AM Re: SteelerFan New Thread 07/17/08 [Re: MidwesternGirl]
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Steelers,
Have you thought of the possibility that your H is finding it increasingly hard to resist you so he wants to stay away?
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#1543267 - 08/02/08 12:34 AM Re: SteelerFan New Thread 07/17/08 [Re: glamgirl]
MidwesternGirl Offline
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Registered: 01/16/06
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Originally Posted By: glamgirl
Not sure what your post means intimidating and ruling, but you sound like you are doing great!

Don't let him get to you. I won't see my h until Sunday. No contact since Wed.


He is very rude to me and and tries to insult and belittle me.

If I dare discipline, I am called names, and he always says his dad is never coming home because who would want to be with me.

H never treated me the way S treats me.
_________________________
The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19

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#1543268 - 08/02/08 12:34 AM Re: SteelerFan New Thread 07/17/08 [Re: plentyhope]
MidwesternGirl Offline
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Registered: 01/16/06
Posts: 7941
Loc: SW USA
Originally Posted By: plentyhope
Steelers,
Have you thought of the possibility that your H is finding it increasingly hard to resist you so he wants to stay away?


No, but wouldn't he text me? Afterall, the texts do get a little wild.
_________________________
The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19

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#1543269 - 08/02/08 12:35 AM Re: SteelerFan New Thread 07/17/08 [Re: happynow]
MidwesternGirl Offline
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Registered: 01/16/06
Posts: 7941
Loc: SW USA
Originally Posted By: nlt
SF,

I'm so sorry!!! What a week this has been for everyone!

You have been so faithful, you can do this. I am surprised about your H not contacting you but I think you are doing great by staying dark. Hopefully he is thinking about you, which I'm sure he is.

Hang in there!!!!

((((HUGS))))


Thanks, nlt. It has been a tough week for me.
_________________________
The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19

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#1543281 - 08/02/08 12:42 AM Re: SteelerFan New Thread 07/17/08 [Re: MidwesternGirl]
glamgirl Offline
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Registered: 04/28/07
Posts: 3481
I understand SF. My 19 year old was a handful, but now he has grown much and is my rock. He is so mature and has been there for me through all of this.

I am sure he knows how hurt I have been and this may be a life lesson for him and what not to do in a M.

It has been a tough week for me too. S6 is really acting up and I am the only one to discipline tonight.
_________________________
Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"

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#1543285 - 08/02/08 12:48 AM Re: SteelerFan New Thread 07/17/08 [Re: glamgirl]
MidwesternGirl Offline
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Posts: 7941
Loc: SW USA
Glam:

It is so hard. Since it is just us, the kids are going to hate us for the time being.

My daughters have been pretty good thru this. The one child I always clashed with when she was younger, is the one I can relate to the best. We have become close but I do not play favorites.

I used to be able to get along really well with S17 but right now, he is doing things that get me angry like putting some boom box sound system in the car. I opened the trunk yesterday to find this huge thing fitted in there, etc. He did not ask for permission, just did it. The car is in H's name and of course, he never asked his dad about it either.

It sounds like an earthquake when he comes and goes in the car.

I get along with D14 but she is very moody and she is at that age where we don't always get along but for the most part, we do.
_________________________
The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19

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#1543289 - 08/02/08 12:53 AM Re: SteelerFan New Thread 07/17/08 [Re: MidwesternGirl]
plentyhope Offline
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Registered: 07/29/06
Posts: 3455
Steelers,
Quote:
No, but wouldn't he text me? Afterall, the texts do get a little wild.
That's my point - he might be finding it harder to text you about the wild stuff when you're not there in person to be intimate with... My H is avoiding me because he hasn't change dhis mind about our R and so being intimate just makes it harder for him to deal with. He would remember the intimacy and miss it.
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