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#1535108 - 07/28/08 05:44 AM Re: Patience is a virtue..... [Re: pisces9]
JCJ Member Registered: 05/27/08 Posts: 3197 Loc: London, UK	Hi Pisces Sorry you had a rough weekend, hope NY was ok though. I found Saturday really hard too, must have been something going on in the cosmos somewhere $;\)$ Personally I would wait a few days into the week to see what happens, after all you made a few strides last week. He may be in his man cave! I don't know though, perhaps some of the men may be able to give you better insight. (((Pisces))) _________________________ M- May 2006 D - Aug 2010 Now travelling the world
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#1535159 - 07/28/08 07:45 AM Re: Patience is a virtue..... [Re: pisces9]
Neilh23 Member Registered: 06/02/08 Posts: 1834 Loc: Western New York	Originally Posted By: pisces9 so do i wait for him to contact me this week? yes. betcha he does. _________________________ ME:32 WAW:31 D #1: 3.5 D #2: 2 Together: 13 M:6 Bomb Dropped: 2/15/08 Sep legally: 6/18/08 "Tommorrow there'll be sunshine, and all this darkness past..." -Bruce Springsteen Land of Hope and Dreams
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#1535260 - 07/28/08 09:18 AM Re: Patience is a virtue..... [Re: Neilh23]
pisces9 Member Registered: 05/12/08 Posts: 1068 Loc: Nor Cal	thanks Neil $\:\)$ i think that was another moment of weakness...i bet he will too .... he proabably needed time to think things through and process everything..afterall he has gone from the D word to admitting fault to ...i hope.... reconciliation. this will not happen overnight. thanks Julia- yes- it was a freaky weekend...im happy i got to meet some relatives and really get a chance to see where they live, etc. but i was a little off...so were a lot of people here... thank goodness its monday...thats sounds funny but it was a long weekend...:) _________________________ Pisces M 31 H 32 M 7 yrs S 5/10 Beginning Contact! Vibes Hot Tub Cheese
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#1535262 - 07/28/08 09:19 AM Re: Patience is a virtue..... [Re: pisces9]
pisces9 Member Registered: 05/12/08 Posts: 1068 Loc: Nor Cal	ps. what is the deal with the man cave? why do they need to retreat? i know my H has dont this and i think its a god thing- im just curious why.... _________________________ Pisces M 31 H 32 M 7 yrs S 5/10 Beginning Contact! Vibes Hot Tub Cheese
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#1535352 - 07/28/08 10:27 AM Re: Patience is a virtue..... [Re: pisces9]
Neilh23 Member Registered: 06/02/08 Posts: 1834 Loc: Western New York	Originally Posted By: pisces9 ps. what is the deal with the man cave? think about it...when you decorate your apt/house with your H......most of the time, it's all stuff YOU wanted. guys need a place where they can put up their trophies, posters, and watch sports. It's just how we roll. _________________________ ME:32 WAW:31 D #1: 3.5 D #2: 2 Together: 13 M:6 Bomb Dropped: 2/15/08 Sep legally: 6/18/08 "Tommorrow there'll be sunshine, and all this darkness past..." -Bruce Springsteen Land of Hope and Dreams
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#1535407 - 07/28/08 11:04 AM Re: Patience is a virtue..... [Re: pisces9]
TwinDad Member Registered: 04/21/08 Posts: 1194	Hey Pisces, It is really up to you. Your H hasn't seemed to shy away from youre contact as long as it is not over the top. He went on vacation as well while you were gone right? You could always make a quick friendly call to see how his vacation was and share how yours was. Very low key, just a friends talk. _________________________ TwinDad Me 39, W 36, M 11 W - MLC, WAW???? 2 Kids B/G 3 YRS Old Start of the Long and Bumpy Road..... On the verge of piecing.....a new beginning
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#1535609 - 07/28/08 01:44 PM Re: Patience is a virtue..... [Re: pisces9]
iamlost Member Registered: 05/09/08 Posts: 563	Originally Posted By: pisces9 thank goodness its monday P, I think it's the first time in my life I've ever heard anyone say that. But it's so true, there was some wierd mojo happening this weekend... _________________________ It is in the shelter of each other that people live.--Irish proverb Current
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#1536008 - 07/28/08 05:14 PM Re: Patience is a virtue..... [Re: iamlost]
Neilh23 Member Registered: 06/02/08 Posts: 1834 Loc: Western New York	yer damn right there was some weird mojo....i even GALed all weekend...LOL.... _________________________ ME:32 WAW:31 D #1: 3.5 D #2: 2 Together: 13 M:6 Bomb Dropped: 2/15/08 Sep legally: 6/18/08 "Tommorrow there'll be sunshine, and all this darkness past..." -Bruce Springsteen Land of Hope and Dreams
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#1536124 - 07/28/08 06:12 PM Re: Patience is a virtue..... [Re: Neilh23]
JenInVen Member Registered: 02/12/08 Posts: 3921 Loc: Venezuela	I don't think you should contact him today but maybe tomorrow. I think if you contact him the first night after returning you're not giving him the chance to contact you first. _________________________ Jen The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present The end of the DB road
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#1536150 - 07/28/08 06:22 PM Re: Patience is a virtue..... [Re: JenInVen]
Tink Member Registered: 06/12/07 Posts: 471	Pisces! I think I finally found you! Please update me so I can respond. Tink _________________________ Change the policy; allow PM's.
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