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#1520443 - 07/16/08 04:01 AM Re: SIGNS OF DEPRESSION 3 cont..... [Re: TRUSTING]
ACJ Member Registered: 12/28/05 Posts: 5369 Loc: England	Which is why it is so sad that they won't seek help and more frustratingly won't allow the LBS to show love and give help/support. Myabe I'm just a delusional fixer. I really don't know who my H is anymore and I'm not sure I recognise me either. _________________________ Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15
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#1520624 - 07/16/08 09:20 AM Re: SIGNS OF DEPRESSION 3 cont..... [Re: ACJ]
TRUSTING Member Registered: 11/03/07 Posts: 2549	ACJ, It sounds like you are struggling more than usual. What is going on in your sitch? _________________________ Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
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#1521582 - 07/16/08 07:38 PM Re: SIGNS OF DEPRESSION 3 cont..... [Re: TRUSTING]
cagzmom Member Registered: 08/21/07 Posts: 1666 Loc: NC	I thought the same the ACJ- whats going on? And if it makes you feel any better I too was a fixer. And my stbx doesn't want me to fix him either... Trusting that was a great post about Depression in MLC. Where are you getting your stuff? _________________________ M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06 Moved out 3/12/07 D final 7/30/2008 finding myself again
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#1521639 - 07/16/08 08:31 PM Re: SIGNS OF DEPRESSION 3 cont..... [Re: cagzmom]
TRUSTING Member Registered: 11/03/07 Posts: 2549	Cagz, Much research, experience with my Ml'er, and colleages in the mental health field. Oh yeah, and everyone on this board... Edited by TRUSTING (07/16/08 08:32 PM) _________________________ Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
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#1521643 - 07/16/08 08:36 PM Re: SIGNS OF DEPRESSION 3 cont..... [Re: TRUSTING]
MissH Member Registered: 10/09/06 Posts: 5375 Loc: NY	Trusting, Back when my H's MLC started he was having trouble "getting it up." I kept urging him to go to the Dr. since I didn't think an otherwise healthy 30 year old should be having trouble in that department. Even when we were having sex he couldn't finish. Now I don't know if that was because of depression or his heart was already somewhere else (ow) or if he already started the PA with her. Maybe all 3? It's also hard not to take it personally. _________________________ Me:35, ex: 36 Sons: 9 & 7 Bomb: July, 2006 Divorced 2009
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#1521712 - 07/16/08 10:08 PM Re: SIGNS OF DEPRESSION 3 cont..... [Re: MissH]
TRUSTING Member Registered: 11/03/07 Posts: 2549	Mrs. H, Many have this problem. Your H and my ex sound so much like twins... _________________________ Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
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#1521723 - 07/16/08 10:22 PM Re: SIGNS OF DEPRESSION 3 cont..... [Re: TRUSTING]
MissH Member Registered: 10/09/06 Posts: 5375 Loc: NY	Quote: Your H and my ex sound so much like twins... GULP! Gee, for your sake I hope not! _________________________ Me:35, ex: 36 Sons: 9 & 7 Bomb: July, 2006 Divorced 2009
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#1521731 - 07/16/08 10:28 PM Re: SIGNS OF DEPRESSION 3 cont..... [Re: MissH]
TRUSTING Member Registered: 11/03/07 Posts: 2549	How are your sons Mrs. H.... _________________________ Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
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#1521756 - 07/16/08 10:45 PM Re: SIGNS OF DEPRESSION 3 cont..... [Re: TRUSTING]
MissH Member Registered: 10/09/06 Posts: 5375 Loc: NY	There good, thanks for asking. They love when Wednesdays come because that means they get to see their father. As much as he is a jerk to me, he is good to the kids. He may act like a Disney Dad, but nevertheless he is good to them. The county fair is in town so tomorrow evening I will probably take them to that. How are your children? _________________________ Me:35, ex: 36 Sons: 9 & 7 Bomb: July, 2006 Divorced 2009
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#1521883 - 07/17/08 12:26 AM Re: SIGNS OF DEPRESSION 3 cont..... [Re: MissH]
MidwesternGirl Member Registered: 01/16/06 Posts: 7939 Loc: SW USA	Trusting: I also think the heavy drinking they resort to while in the midst of this does a pretty good job of this type of dysfunction as well. _________________________ The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
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