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Hiya v,
Just checking in, how goes it?


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M 13 years, T 15
BD:23/7/2014
W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014
My new place: 21/11/2014
W/S back to flat 22/11/2014
W coming closer, talking 4/2015
Piecing 5/2015
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Hey, V. I am guessing that you know how hard it is with in-house separation more than me. I could not continue it and it is much easier now, (for me) without H in the house. He and I both own this house that S and I are living in, and while I am currently paying the bills here, he and I will still have to work all the financial aspects out at some point. Hang in there with whatever you are dealing with. Your H's ignorance is disgusting, though.


Serenity NOW, Serenity NOW!!! LOL...

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Hi Vanillia, hope all is ok ? Just thinking of you and when your ready you might drop a quick post to let us all know your ok.

Take care, Rd

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Thinking of you, V.

I'll admit to having a little fantasy where V drives up in her little red car, looking happy and just generally rocking it...smiling at H, and saying, "Peace, I'm outta here. Good luck to you, I certainly tried, but I intend to live my life with someone who values me. Or at least not like this."


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You can't DR your way out of abuse.



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Stay strong V!


M 53
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D25 D20 S22
PA 10/95
BD abt 2k EA
BD 9/2004 PA D'd 1/05/05
DB'd 9/2004-08 PA ends 02/2005
XW rehab 03/2005 piecing until OM3 June?/2005
Remarried 12/28/07
BD 12/18/14
Sep living together
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Still nothing lady V, you ok? Can you ping us so we know you're doing allright?


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M 13 years, T 15
BD:23/7/2014
W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014
My new place: 21/11/2014
W/S back to flat 22/11/2014
W coming closer, talking 4/2015
Piecing 5/2015
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Hi Vanilla, hope your ok. Rd

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V, you've gone awfully quiet, and I'm missing your lovely presence on this forum....do stop by and let us know how you're doing......x


T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
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Yes v I've stopped biting my nails now and moved onto bfts and I know what she does with those paws....ewwwww


Seriously v just an ok all fine will do for us smile

Last edited by edz; 03/03/15 02:03 PM.

M:44, W:46, S:10
M 13 years, T 15
BD:23/7/2014
W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014
My new place: 21/11/2014
W/S back to flat 22/11/2014
W coming closer, talking 4/2015
Piecing 5/2015
Moving in again 6/2015
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((((Vanilla))))

I am rooting for you, V. I miss your sweet, charming, funny posts, but I think of you often. Hang in there!


Me 52, H53
Bomb drop 9/29/2014
Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014
Marriage #2 12/31/2019
5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships)
6 grandkids
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