Yes RD know, where has this come from? Has it always been H?
His views on gay people are unprintable. And as for members of the cloth and God squad'?
It starts to get more personal these days, the man in the post office queue, people with tattoos, criminals, the driver in the car in front, his mother, his sister, his son's partner (the mother of his grandchildren) and V staff and more importantly V. Above all V, who is the cause of all his ills, sorrows and lack of funds.
These views are the absolute opposite of V views. H has views, values, morals or ethics that make him happy or give him quality of life. H fails to have views that energise, that give his strength.
H when he states his views is aggressive, angry man. Especially last night when H was drunk, H was clearly drunk. I am going to avoid H when he has been drinking, but it is often hard to tell.
V
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
Good lord V, H is really putting you through the wringer this month. What is going on there? So are these views all new or are they extreme versions of what's always been the case (I noted you saying its getting more personal)?
By now anyone who's read anything of mine knows my views on abuse, its just not acceptable. Since I'll start ranting on that if I go on (and boy can I go on!) I'll just say I think you enforcing your boundry, calmly is absolutely best just be careful ok? we care about our v.
On happier notes how's the car working? I think you need to go grab a copy of red corvette by the-artist-who-was-a-squiggle-because-he-had-some-kind-of-argument-with-his-record-company-but-was-and-is-confusingly-now-known-again-as-prince (or something like that)
Any news on BFT and indeed will it be a bft (b could be big not brown) a gft (ginger furry thing) or some other combination.
Sending hugs ((((Vanilla))))
Edz
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M:44, W:46, S:10 M 13 years, T 15 BD:23/7/2014 W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014 My new place: 21/11/2014 W/S back to flat 22/11/2014 W coming closer, talking 4/2015 Piecing 5/2015 Moving in again 6/2015
Hi Vanillia, listening to those views must be very hard to hear and take. Is this a new H or was he always like this ?
Not sure what to say, he doesn't sound well balanced to say the least. I have heard that people with drink problems take no responsibilty and everthing is soneone elses fault but still, all that in one night.
As Edz said, please take care, the Lady we know as Vanillia needs to be away from dhat sort of cra@p.
Right now I'd like an emoticon that shows a properly dropped jaw.
RD got it right ---- wow!!
I suppose we could praise the honesty....
I find that outward judgement like that is usually reflective of someone who simply won't take responsibility. The more that victimhood is challenged the more aggressive abd widely spread the judgement gets.
I would say your GALg and DBg are really getting to him.
Hope your OK V
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress
Gosh V! That's all pretty offensive. Does H only go down these 'avenues' when he has been drinking? Even if he does, it's still pretty worrying as the drink may be just lowering any inhibitions about saying what he really feels.
V - you seem so accepting and tolerant of all kinds of people, that this must be pretty hard to hear - from anyone, but particularly your H.
I don't have that is useful to say - other than (((V)))
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
