She just had to see one more time if she could wind you around her finger. If you had shown any interest in reconciliation, she would have back peddled.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
The biggest admonition of guilt I got from her through this entire process is that was that she was "a bit reckless"
Either way, I'm long over playing her games. She still does the selective communication with texts, the push pull. I just keep it business like around the care of S9 and move on with my life.
Me: 35 Her: 33 D : 16 S : 9 Together: 14 years Married: 12 She left 4/14/2014 Separated: 5/25/2014 OM Confirmed 7/2014 She filed 8/7/2014 I Filed 10/21/2014 Divorce final 2/12/2015
