Wife has filed for divorce - 01/30/16 07:25 AM
My wife has filed for divorce after 10 years of marriage.
She has been preparing herself for this for a year now and I finally understood that I needed to change when she said that she had had enough. I had a problem with porn online which I have stopped viewing and have started attending therapy. I have improved my parenting skills and act happier every time I am with my wife.
She wants me to move out as she wants to heal and move on with her life. She says she fell out of love with me and I was a bad husband. She doesn't want to work on the marriage or attend counselling but we at least talk about the kids and are ok in each other's company and I compliment her about what she is wearing and that I appreciate her. I feel that underneath she is resenting me being around but I cannot leave until I have more money put aside.
I feel that she has developed an action plan with the divorce papers being point 1 and me leaving point 2. She says she just wants to be happy and has no intention of dating anyone short term. I know she is hurting for what I have done and compares herself to the women in the videos but she won't accept any reassurances that it was not about her and that she is beautiful.
I feel that this situation is steam rolling towards her resolve but would love to know if there is away to slow this down and get her to look at me differently and eventually trust me again.
She has been preparing herself for this for a year now and I finally understood that I needed to change when she said that she had had enough. I had a problem with porn online which I have stopped viewing and have started attending therapy. I have improved my parenting skills and act happier every time I am with my wife.
She wants me to move out as she wants to heal and move on with her life. She says she fell out of love with me and I was a bad husband. She doesn't want to work on the marriage or attend counselling but we at least talk about the kids and are ok in each other's company and I compliment her about what she is wearing and that I appreciate her. I feel that underneath she is resenting me being around but I cannot leave until I have more money put aside.
I feel that she has developed an action plan with the divorce papers being point 1 and me leaving point 2. She says she just wants to be happy and has no intention of dating anyone short term. I know she is hurting for what I have done and compares herself to the women in the videos but she won't accept any reassurances that it was not about her and that she is beautiful.
I feel that this situation is steam rolling towards her resolve but would love to know if there is away to slow this down and get her to look at me differently and eventually trust me again.