Summertime....and the living is easy... - 06/16/05 02:47 PM
Hello Friends! Ye Olde Locke Monster got my thread, time to start a new one.
This summer will be the last time I will be living with both of my kids...D is off to college in the Fall, and S is determined to move out by October. Currently he is talking about moving to Rhode Island to live with a buddy. I am not sure how "Easy" my summer is going to be! I am working and going to school, S is doing summer school and D will be very busy with her job as well as trying to squeeze in as much fun as possible with her friends before they all scatter to the winds in the fall.
I taught 4 workshops already this week, I had yesterday off and am off again today. Tomorrow 2 more workshops. They went well, my evaluations were basically great for the most part! I am really happy to do these...I make as much $$ in a week of workshops as I do in a month at my regular job. So this is the direction I hope to be going... once I finish my masters in Dec. I have 4 days off next week and then school starts up again for me until the second week of August. But at least I won't be working at the same time! So just doing school will be a little bit of a break.
One of the people in my workshop was a Mom I have known for years, her D and my D have the exact same b-day and were in Kindergarten together. She was also my S's English teacher in 10th grade. (4 years ago) That year was probably the nadir for my S and my H, S was miserable in school and H and I were in major disagreement as to how to handle it. We eventually decided to let S take the equivilancy test and then take classes at the JC. S has been doing that and I think it was an excellent decision to get him out of that environment where he was SO miserable. It took him about a year to get the negative attitude about school out of his system, and now he is doing just fine...
Flash forward to Tuesday's class and S's former English teacher is there. She shared with me that she ran into him at the store just the previous week. As she put it, "He could have easily snuck by and not even said anything, but he hailed me and gave me a big hug!" I was stunned. S?! I said. She said, "Yeah! He seemed very centered and mature. We had a conversation, and I had heard you and H were seperated and I asked him how that was. S said that it was a good thing for everyone." Hmmm. I told her that I thought so too, but it was quite rough in the beginning and it had taken me quite a while to get to this place. She was full of positive comments about my S, and it meant so much coming from a former teacher of his! Really it made my day.
On a different note, I have a small grove (3) of birch trees in front of my house, and it appears that they have died! They were fine last year, dropped their leaves like any other tree, but now in the spring, they haven't leafed out like the rest of the trees. Yesterday a friend and her landscaper boyfriend came over, and the first thing he said to me was, "Your birch trees are goners!"
I am really sad about this because, A) I really liked the trees, B) now I will have to come up with some $$ to get them removed, and C) I will also have to decide what to plant to replace them! Oh well.
Well that is about all for now. I have the day off and I think I am going to spend it cleaning!
Talk to everyone later, have a great day, week or month! LOL
SG
This summer will be the last time I will be living with both of my kids...D is off to college in the Fall, and S is determined to move out by October. Currently he is talking about moving to Rhode Island to live with a buddy. I am not sure how "Easy" my summer is going to be! I am working and going to school, S is doing summer school and D will be very busy with her job as well as trying to squeeze in as much fun as possible with her friends before they all scatter to the winds in the fall.
I taught 4 workshops already this week, I had yesterday off and am off again today. Tomorrow 2 more workshops. They went well, my evaluations were basically great for the most part! I am really happy to do these...I make as much $$ in a week of workshops as I do in a month at my regular job. So this is the direction I hope to be going... once I finish my masters in Dec. I have 4 days off next week and then school starts up again for me until the second week of August. But at least I won't be working at the same time! So just doing school will be a little bit of a break.
One of the people in my workshop was a Mom I have known for years, her D and my D have the exact same b-day and were in Kindergarten together. She was also my S's English teacher in 10th grade. (4 years ago) That year was probably the nadir for my S and my H, S was miserable in school and H and I were in major disagreement as to how to handle it. We eventually decided to let S take the equivilancy test and then take classes at the JC. S has been doing that and I think it was an excellent decision to get him out of that environment where he was SO miserable. It took him about a year to get the negative attitude about school out of his system, and now he is doing just fine...
Flash forward to Tuesday's class and S's former English teacher is there. She shared with me that she ran into him at the store just the previous week. As she put it, "He could have easily snuck by and not even said anything, but he hailed me and gave me a big hug!" I was stunned. S?! I said. She said, "Yeah! He seemed very centered and mature. We had a conversation, and I had heard you and H were seperated and I asked him how that was. S said that it was a good thing for everyone." Hmmm. I told her that I thought so too, but it was quite rough in the beginning and it had taken me quite a while to get to this place. She was full of positive comments about my S, and it meant so much coming from a former teacher of his! Really it made my day.
On a different note, I have a small grove (3) of birch trees in front of my house, and it appears that they have died! They were fine last year, dropped their leaves like any other tree, but now in the spring, they haven't leafed out like the rest of the trees. Yesterday a friend and her landscaper boyfriend came over, and the first thing he said to me was, "Your birch trees are goners!"
I am really sad about this because, A) I really liked the trees, B) now I will have to come up with some $$ to get them removed, and C) I will also have to decide what to plant to replace them! Oh well.
Well that is about all for now. I have the day off and I think I am going to spend it cleaning!
Talk to everyone later, have a great day, week or month! LOL
SG