Growing stronger with a MLC wife. - 09/23/18 11:22 AM
Time to start a new thread
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2798802&page=1
Been away for a while - trying to grow stronger.
Wife is moving out within a few weeks; usual MLC behaviour and mixed messages. Chatting away like a happily married couple one minute and doing the 'separation' paperwork the next.
Apparently living with me is unbearable but then she is never here; working or out with friends or avoiding me in other parts of the house. I don't know what is unbearable. I'm just me.
Leaving and moving out will make her happy. She never looks happy....thoroughly miserable in fact. I barely see her these days; I'm not sure how she apportions her unhappiness to me or what she is going to do when she is living alone to actually make herself happy; she is in deep emotional turmoil and nothing I say or do to her makes the slightest difference. Equally, nothing I don't do doesn't make a difference either.
I have one lost, confused, unhappy, miserable, mixed up, self indulgent MLCer who doesn't know what she wants and is doing nothing to help herself.
Not initiating contact, concentrating on my kids and doing things for me. I do miss my wife very much; I wish I could help her but I know I cant.
Life is tough. I want my wife back as I once knew her and my family together.
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Been away for a while - trying to grow stronger.
Wife is moving out within a few weeks; usual MLC behaviour and mixed messages. Chatting away like a happily married couple one minute and doing the 'separation' paperwork the next.
Apparently living with me is unbearable but then she is never here; working or out with friends or avoiding me in other parts of the house. I don't know what is unbearable. I'm just me.
Leaving and moving out will make her happy. She never looks happy....thoroughly miserable in fact. I barely see her these days; I'm not sure how she apportions her unhappiness to me or what she is going to do when she is living alone to actually make herself happy; she is in deep emotional turmoil and nothing I say or do to her makes the slightest difference. Equally, nothing I don't do doesn't make a difference either.
I have one lost, confused, unhappy, miserable, mixed up, self indulgent MLCer who doesn't know what she wants and is doing nothing to help herself.
Not initiating contact, concentrating on my kids and doing things for me. I do miss my wife very much; I wish I could help her but I know I cant.
Life is tough. I want my wife back as I once knew her and my family together.