Hi again - 05/01/17 05:57 AM
Hi all, haven't posted here for a while and completely lost all my log ins so have to sign in as new.
Briefly my story. H and I together for 20 years, he got unhappy, said he didn't love anymore. Moved out 3 months later in August 2015.
October 2015 introduces our sons O his work friend. I fin proof of loads of texts and phone calls between them for months. He denies anything.
November 2015 tells our kids he is seeing her.
February 2016 moves in with her and her kid still saying nothing had been going on.
I've had 18 months of hell with being passively aggressively mean towards me but I've managed to slowly pull myself back up mostly.
But now, 4 weeks ago he has filed for divorce blaming me, and now goes on about a parenting agreement.
I have done no contact, I've not used the kids ( I never would), I've not let him see that I am affected in recent months but still this carries on.
He is done and carries on with ow and filing for divorce. I can not comprehend how all this has happened and that a once happy secure family unit has been destroyed. Any advice and support or words of encouragement would be appreciated. Thanks.
Briefly my story. H and I together for 20 years, he got unhappy, said he didn't love anymore. Moved out 3 months later in August 2015.
October 2015 introduces our sons O his work friend. I fin proof of loads of texts and phone calls between them for months. He denies anything.
November 2015 tells our kids he is seeing her.
February 2016 moves in with her and her kid still saying nothing had been going on.
I've had 18 months of hell with being passively aggressively mean towards me but I've managed to slowly pull myself back up mostly.
But now, 4 weeks ago he has filed for divorce blaming me, and now goes on about a parenting agreement.
I have done no contact, I've not used the kids ( I never would), I've not let him see that I am affected in recent months but still this carries on.
He is done and carries on with ow and filing for divorce. I can not comprehend how all this has happened and that a once happy secure family unit has been destroyed. Any advice and support or words of encouragement would be appreciated. Thanks.