Don't change your location, change yourself - 06/08/15 01:38 PM
Haven't done an update in a long time but a dynamic has changed and thought I would share hoping it will help out the early stagers.
Bomb day was I think 6 + yrs ago. It doesn't take up much headroom.
The reason I am writing this is I met a woman out of the blue. I had relegated myself that I would be single for the remainder of my life. I was OK with that because.
I am at peace with me and those around me.
The journey through my own MLC taught me much.
The journey through her MLC taught me much.
I have learned pain, inner turmoil, disappointment, contentment, joy, friendship. etc, etc.
My relationship with ours kids(adults) is fantastic.
My friendships here invaluable.
The GAL was 100% and loving it.
People ask many times why are you so happy, so positive.
Being positive is better than the alternative.
I am at a place where forgiving is achieved. Where I am honest with myself and those around me. Where healthy boudaries are set. Where life just kind of flows....and that's whether tough things or good things are happening.
We talk about success here, whether with our spouse or not. It such an intangible thing to describe. I think it comes from inside ourselves. You just know when your there.
I wouldn't trade my journey through it all for anything. I have tears coming to my eyes now just thinking about it. This life is a mystery to be lived. Our roads not paved all the time.
I don't know if this new relationship will work, but I have the tools now, And I realized that I was ready to at least give it a try....Too risk getting hurt again and it was OK.
This website is a gift. Please keep your eyes open so you see those gifts when they are right in front of you.
Mirage
Bomb day was I think 6 + yrs ago. It doesn't take up much headroom.
The reason I am writing this is I met a woman out of the blue. I had relegated myself that I would be single for the remainder of my life. I was OK with that because.
I am at peace with me and those around me.
The journey through my own MLC taught me much.
The journey through her MLC taught me much.
I have learned pain, inner turmoil, disappointment, contentment, joy, friendship. etc, etc.
My relationship with ours kids(adults) is fantastic.
My friendships here invaluable.
The GAL was 100% and loving it.
People ask many times why are you so happy, so positive.
Being positive is better than the alternative.
I am at a place where forgiving is achieved. Where I am honest with myself and those around me. Where healthy boudaries are set. Where life just kind of flows....and that's whether tough things or good things are happening.
We talk about success here, whether with our spouse or not. It such an intangible thing to describe. I think it comes from inside ourselves. You just know when your there.
I wouldn't trade my journey through it all for anything. I have tears coming to my eyes now just thinking about it. This life is a mystery to be lived. Our roads not paved all the time.
I don't know if this new relationship will work, but I have the tools now, And I realized that I was ready to at least give it a try....Too risk getting hurt again and it was OK.
This website is a gift. Please keep your eyes open so you see those gifts when they are right in front of you.
Mirage