Divorcebusting.com
Posted By: sgctxok Successful Men - 04/06/05 11:55 PM
I will try to posts links later.......or try to get JJ to do it because he is the IT bomb!!!!


Feel free to post links yourselves!!!



Men:


Jamesjohn
Progress, not Perfection!! Some of JJ's stuff

KentS

Committed2Him

gbon
My marriage is still going strong

David



Also see the forum: Another Divorce Busted
Posted By: sage Re: Successful men, - 04/07/05 11:51 AM
KAW (read to the END! This guy knows how to DB!)

Get out of jail FREE!

Emerald City is Great!, but its still not Kansas..

Look out for the landmines ... KABOOM!

Dancing in a minefield...

Are the Pieces Really Coming Together?

The Thread w/o a Title

Moving into the neighborhood - Hi neighbors

JUST WHEN I THINK I'M OK,...

**************************************************

jethro

W is Reading DB and it seems "premature"

Subatomic Steps are Better Than None at All!

Atomic Bomb Exploded...R Fragments Everywhere!

Vacillations of a WAW Come Home

Vacillations of a WAW Come Home II

Vacillations of a WAW Come Home III

Vacillations of a WAW Come Home IV

I Think I Have Officially DB'd Guys!!!

I think it's time to say farewell...for now...

*******************************************************

Sage


(fixed links)
Posted By: sgctxok Re: Successful men, - 04/20/05 12:50 PM
^

btw--didya notice, sage is now a moderator!
Posted By: sage Re: Successful men, - 05/10/05 11:56 AM
bump

Sage
Posted By: KentS Re: Successful men, - 05/17/05 12:05 AM
KentS

Not all are mine. I think it tells part of the story. Some has been lost in various crashes and the great purge.

JJ, Edit as appropriate.

My Nightmare

A Glimmer of Light, I Think!

Kent is Happy Now!

Greg & Cliff What About The New Me ?

Greg, Daisy is right, I'm really tired

Wow! Came home to a letter from W

Action Speaks Much Louder Than Words

180's that work, 180's that don't ????

Got My Autographed Copy of DB Today

Let's build this topic into a real dynamo!

Final C session I think

My Autopilot is Broken

Don't Get Lost In The Process!

A Slow Road To A Happy Ending

Resentment and Brick Walls vs Reconcilliation and Boundaries

Pray for our Daughter Tonight

Expectations!

PLanning our 10th Anniversary

(updated links)
Posted By: sage Re: Successful men, - 05/18/05 05:19 PM
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful men, - 07/16/05 07:46 PM
Here's some threads from Nathan that are definitely worth taking a look through!!

I want to get her back!

She wants ME to move out?

Getting numb or just used to it?

Affair, Seperation.. Is there anyone whos recovered?

I blew it- called OM's place. Need support

Continuing the effort, it's working

yes, Yes, YES!!

How to approach 1st 'date'

PAY DIRT, BABY!!!

She's set a date - to come home!!!

Well, here I am in Piecing - not sure if I belong

I think we're gonna make it!!!

Nathan's Story

updated links
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful men, - 08/23/05 03:21 AM
Here's some threads from Questioning that will be great for you to look through!

Helping Wife decide between me and OM, and spying!

My W can't decide between me and OM.

Do I confront or not , and tell or not?

Success - it is possible.
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful men, - 08/24/05 06:01 PM
Looks like Optimust has done pretty well, and in a short amount of time, too!!

Oh,,,,, the pain!

Separated 03/15, want your thots, so I won't slip
(Lots of great input from DB Coach Laurie on this thread!)

W doesn't know I know about A? Do I ask?

Lets get psycho,,,,define your MLC and/or WAS

We're getting back together!
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful men - 08/24/05 07:48 PM
Here's the story of a gent who was formerly "Frustrated"!

Questions:

I need help/love/support/advice.....

Oh my god!

What to Say to Show Support?

How do you deal with feelings of "unfulfillment"?

She told me she loved me!
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 08/26/05 02:36 AM
Here's the tale of MrMom! (Wasn't that a movie?!)

Allow me to introduce myself...

Quick DB question...

Please help me to stop backsliding

Wife is moving out...

Remember me??? A DB Success story!
Posted By: Nevanna Re: Successful Men - 09/09/05 07:52 PM
Mak_ was also a success.

Yes indeed! And here it is!!!!.....

180 or LRT?

Focusing on positives

Focusing on positives - Part II

Focusing on positives - Part III

Still focusing on positives
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 09/15/05 09:14 PM
Be sure to check out what cliff has to say!

Help! Who knows what to do?

Walkaway warming up fast!!

Help! My spouse is acting terribly weird!! Alien abductions. . .

What a lift!

To those of you whose hearts are breaking on Valentine's Day

Cliff's questions and answers

Cliff's Sanity Bay

More of Cliff's Questions and Answers

Cliffy's little thoughts on affairs . . .

updated links
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 09/27/05 03:53 PM
Here's some of BASIL's story!!

Does this make any sense?

Don't know what to expect

Doin' Great!!

MARRIAGE IS WONDERFUL!!!

updated links
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 09/27/05 04:25 PM
Here's some of ChrisJ's tale!

Need advice ****FAST****

End of Speration ... a few thoughts

Time to move to hopefulness

Hopeful but concerned

Change in the climate

I can see the head

Onwards and Upwards

My Last Post....

My first post.........

Breaking Through???

We have broken through!

Have faith in yourself

My first to my Last

Newcomers Beware

updated links
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 09/27/05 04:53 PM
Here's Chop's story....

Partial succes - very early

Prepared Speech

I need a slap!!!!

I think I'm turning into a WAH

She goes out to forget.

Looming vacation - how to handle?

Self Fullfilling prophecy
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 09/27/05 05:27 PM
Here are some threads from mg460!

Help! Should we change counselors?

I NEED SOME WORDS OF WISDOM.

Luck w/ contolled separation- part 2

Luck w/ controlled separation part 3

DB + controlled separation success!
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 10/02/05 11:35 PM
Here's BillM's great story!

1st time poster looking for feedback

My snazzy new thread

Visions of the future

Positive Mental Attitude

There Are Parts Left Over

DBing as a lifestyle
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 10/10/05 04:37 PM
Here's a couple of threads from csbell!

A broken Heart, a defeated soul

This Stuff Works....It just takes time (and patience)
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 10/13/05 09:12 PM
Here's TLR!

WAW need some advise

WAW is home!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 10/21/05 02:45 AM
Here's the story of Mountie!

Open the pod bay doors Hal...

One Last Gasp

She's back.
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 10/21/05 03:00 AM
Heeeerrrrre's Johnny R!!!!

New to this Heartbreak

Going to the Mattresses

Hanging on in Quiet Desparation is the English Way

End of the Beginning or Beginning of the End?

Time to call a halt??

Desparate for advice - Reconciliation blowing up

Is there such a thing as "Loving Detachment?"

My Wife has come Home!!!
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 11/05/05 08:02 PM
Here's a thread from ByMyself!

Trying this again, She's gone I need help
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 11/12/05 09:30 PM
Here's WAWfighter's threads so far!

Unfaithful wife

Unfaithful Wife-II
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 03/22/06 04:32 PM
Looks like it's time to add COG to the list here!!

To eavesdrop or not to eavesdrop?

My 180 found some success!

I could use a little encouragement!

Input please!

Running out of steam!

Separated Three Years but NOT Counting

Separated Three Years But Not Counting2

Separated 3 Years - Divorce Busted!
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 04/11/06 03:43 PM
From OneCanChange!

Confused--Separated Sex

The Serious Talk

Am I Crazy? Is this Normal?

EA: When should I stop accepting OM in my life??

Einstein, Aria and Timeowt

WAW Comes Home--Update

HELP! DO I BECOME A WAH?? WAW BRINGS OM BACK TO LIFE!

OneCanChange--but it takes TwoToTango in the dance of reconciliation--NEW THREAD

OneCanChange with Patience, Love, Respect and Determination.

OneCanChange, but Mrs. OneCanChange Cannot--about to become a WAH

Return of OM, Part IV. How to handle???

OneCanChange: Success Report from the Trenches
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 04/11/06 05:43 PM
And novix!

Is there hope for me

Is it friendship or a start
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 05/30/06 01:43 AM
53John

Classic WAW - Seeing some positive reaction to Dbing

Shoud I talk to her about it or should I wait?

Hugs

Is it time for LRT?

Starting to slowly reconcile

OM shows his ugly face again
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 05/30/06 01:50 AM
BC34

Potential WAW - Need help fast
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 05/30/06 11:18 PM
JohnK

Where to go from here???

Results tooooo soon!?!?!

Going in the right direction... hopefully
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 05/30/06 11:41 PM
TonyOde

Here we (I) go again....

BUSTED!!
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 06/01/06 03:30 PM
Indy36

New Here - Where to start?

Success!!! After the bust......
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 06/03/06 07:40 PM
Zebra

Bring affair to light of day?

She's hired a lawyer, says I need on too.

WAW agreed to try to reconcile....

She said she'll try to work on the marriage...

Zebra's old thread... thoughts and reflections about detachment...

It's time to start dating again....
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 06/03/06 08:11 PM
KAW

Get out of jail FREE!

Emerald City is Great!, but its still not Kansas..

Look out for the landmines ... KABOOM!

Dancing in a minefield...

Are the Pieces Really Coming Together?

The Thread w/o a Title

Back to Basics

JUST WHEN I THINK I'M OK,...
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 08/08/06 04:32 PM
caldrake

Wife of 7 years -- Gone 7 weeks now...

Separated 2 months, help!!

Turnaround, or just keeping a string tied???

Patience pays off! WAW is back; Love in the air!
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 08/18/06 04:57 PM
Lars

(The first threads from Lars are missing, but there's still some great inspiration here!!

Slowly Progressing, but Being Patient

Praise God, thanks to Michelle and You!!!!!!!!

updated links
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 08/21/06 09:25 PM
Bryan

Progress, Real or Imagined??

Entering A New Phase

Staying Mentally Fit When Physically Failing

Back On Course

The Mountain Has Moved!!!!!!!!

updated links
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 08/22/06 05:32 PM
jeff122000

a letter from the wife

letter from wife... please help understand

giving her space

Fed Up with the BS

need someone to help....WAW

last resort technique

HOT LRT results fast - need advice!

Cheers!!...but......

Judgement Day

YES!! AND IT COUNTS!!!!!

We are making strides....DBing works......

updated links
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 08/23/06 03:54 PM
hey_chrisw

Help! she's moving faster than I can read...

Basics? or am I missing the boat.....

180/"as if" doing harm?

So what's w/ all the anger?

any help in this area will be greatly appreciated

Success Story, not so sure yet?
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 08/28/06 05:22 PM
mike101

Am I doing the right thing?

Words of Support

Hopefully On The Right Track

A Different State of Mind

Why Did It Take Me So Long--I Hope Its Not To Late

Help I need some input quick!!!!!!

Am I Ready For This Place Yet??

A Very Big Thanks To All
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 08/29/06 03:58 PM
ByteEnable

Mine is almost a walkaway

How do u really overcome jealousy/trustworthy

Going forward with new relationship
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 08/29/06 09:58 PM
cruiserrg

New and in need of support

When WAs Come Home (Where do we go from here?)

Things starting in right direction, NEED TIPS!
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 08/30/06 04:28 PM
euanjames

Is this piecing?? Questions need answering!

Anyone elses WAW exhibited this behaviour?

Piecing cranks up a BIG notch...

Evan screams IVE DONE IT!!! She's coming back!!
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 08/30/06 05:02 PM
farfromhome

The Confusion Continues

The End Is Close

Always Look On The Bright Side Of Life

Stuk In Limbo but still looking at the bright side

Life Must Move On

Truth is stranger then fiction

Second Chance

Advice Please

Hello and Update
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 09/01/06 08:05 PM
hurtinbad1

Any help or advice, can this be saved ????

Anyone got some good advice for me ...Plz

Update on old post..any help here????

Hell and back or still there...

Cant even think straight any more...

How would you take this if W or H said this???

Now what do I do , any advice?

Got W back (sorta) , Dont know if want W anymore

UHH OHH I THINK I DROPPED THE BALL

Once in a life time , hopefully

Got wife back , not sure if want it any more =[

Happy day's seem to be near..... =]

One year after , Db'ing started...=]

This stuff really works. Update on old post...

Just stoppin in to say hi , and update...
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 09/03/06 05:24 AM
Hurting Jim (now Happy Jim!!!!!)

DYING INSIDE

Still Dying Inside

Still Dying Inside and now even more confusion

Almost dead inside....Still dying inside continued

Confused again......I've returned

Someone please clarify this for me

Another Success Story thanks to Michele
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 09/04/06 04:32 AM
LoneStarFree

I need advice

Last night was a good night.

Did I do this right?

My heart is beating about a mile a minute

Something big happened last night, I think.

I should be here, not piecing.

Second chance at love and life.

Taking it slow, but making steady progress.

Gettin it done, enjoying our NEW marriage.
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 09/04/06 06:17 AM
Lumpy

Newcommer w/WAW

One doing the work for two - will it work?????

Back to Step 1 - Unfortunately

Headed in the right direction!

Both focused on the same goals!
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 09/04/06 07:06 AM
matt strasser

not knowing what to do

soooo scared

need help on LRT

W not leaving wants to work it out!!!!!!

W started C, thought she wanted to work on R, now not sure.

Some hopeful words

New kid on the piecing our M bb

YEEHAW!!!!!!!!!!!!!

DBing, after saving my M

Marriage Saved!!!! How to make it better???
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 09/06/06 08:36 PM
pbrown

HELP!!!!! wife filed monday nothings working

falling apart need help quick tonight please help!

Worried about my wife

ON MY WAY TO PIECING????????

GOD saved my marriage,anothe M DB'd
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 09/07/06 11:22 PM
schythe

new to DB'ing and thought id post a bit

ummm odd situation occurring

How to get out of the vicious fighting cycle

Possible good news, may end up back together
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 09/12/06 08:47 PM
billk

Trying to d.b./happy days are here again
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 09/14/06 05:50 AM
camidaddy

Should I Stay or Should I Go? (long...)

how to handle anniversary

how can you guys stand it?

let the games begin

REALLY need HELP NOW before doing something stupid!!!

am i turning the corner?

for all you snoopers out there...

For every door that closes...

new start today

Patience..is it working?

patience...it does work!

updated links
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 11/22/06 11:30 PM
va-andy

I could really use some advice please

New DB'r...some advise please

I've got all the time in the world for you...love

I've got all the time in the world for you love (part 2)

I've got all the time in the world for you love...third verse

Improving Your Oats...Or How DBing is All About Working on You
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 11/25/06 08:19 PM
tony b

Done something real dumb! any advice

Very confused can any one help

Did the release thing today

had enough and giving up

Hi I am back need a little advice

May have a breakthough, not sure?, need advice

Good News, I am back home and the W is wanting to work things out
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 11/25/06 08:45 PM
Todd

Advice needed desperately

She is coming around(I think)

Breakthrough
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 11/29/06 11:29 PM
Success

This site worked for me!
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 11/30/06 02:08 PM
stace

I was blindsided, and I need help

WAW admits to EA - it's hard
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 12/03/06 01:07 AM
Hang on for RandyH!!

She doesn't know what she wants

valentines day

Should I

Almost done

when do the baby steps start

I want to ask ?

BIG BACKSLIDE

Warming up

emotional affairs?

XW wants me to wait

getting back together

How to piece it back together

Is she using me or just confused

piecing after D

Piecing after divorce II

Piecing after Divorce III

updated links
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 12/08/06 04:15 AM
KLS

Separation has started, what do I do?

Not sure what to do, is this too much pressure?

I think I want to give up??, PLEASE HELP

Good news, maybe?

Great news! Had to share!
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 12/09/06 05:22 PM
kcox

moving out today

moving out or moving on

Wife seems to be responding to changes

Back Again
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 12/09/06 06:04 PM
K22

Seperated, Filed, but not by choice!?!

Please HELP Time is Running OUT!!!

Need response from WOMEN PLEASE!!!

Need some WOMEN'S opinions PLEASE!!!

Need help with WAW in MLC!

some changes to report -- GOOD OR BAD?
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 03/21/07 08:38 AM
jeffrey26

Emotional Affair
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 03/25/07 04:49 AM
SPITFIRE

two and a half months in

I'm from earth I come in peace

Alien or Angel would the real W please stand up!

Alien finally recalled to mothership?
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 03/25/07 05:32 AM
sam908

Can I successfully DB while MLW is living at home?

Confrontation yesterday: W and I, OM and W

W goes into mourning every weekend

W still contacting OM while piecing
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 03/25/07 08:17 AM
euanjames

Is this piecing?? Questions need answering!

Anyone elses WAW exhibited this behaviour?

Piecing cranks up a BIG notch...

Evan screams IVE DONE IT!!! She's coming back!!
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 03/25/07 09:49 AM
dk

Re: ...recently became a member of the WAW club, part2

...recently became a member of the WAW club, part3

soon to be a member of the divorcee club...maybe not!
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 03/26/07 08:42 AM
kistell

hi all need some advise.

going dark has worked and im so happy.
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 04/05/07 05:55 PM
mdmiller

What can I do?

Newbie would like some advice please.

Newbie would like some advice please part 2

WAW wants to try

Nwlap 3, not so new anymore
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 04/05/07 09:17 PM
xalelle

First Post by Newcomer

X starts DBing From The Beginning

X's DB Journey pt 3

X's DBing Journey pt 4 - Turning Point

X's DBing Journey pt 5 - waiting and watching

X's DBing Journey pt 6 - Getting On With Life

X's DBing Journey pt 7 - Finding a Place of My Own

X is trying to find the horse

X is still DBing

X is still DBing, maby Counseling?

X Still DBing.. and Piecing?

X's DBing On The Move
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 04/07/07 08:50 PM
jstx

She's Gone but Says She Doesn't Want a Divorce

Better and Stronger in the Long Run

Better and Stronger in the Long Run...II

Better and Stronger in the Long Run...III

Better and Stronger in the Long Run...IV

Better and Stronger in the Long Run...V

Better and Stronger in the Long Run...VI

Better and Stronger in the Long Run...VII

Better and Stronger in the Long Run VIII

Better and Stronger in the Long Run IX

Better and Stronger in the Long Run X

Better and Stronger in the Long Run XI

Better and Stronger in the Long Run XII

Better and Stronger in the Long Run??? XIII

A BETTER FRAME OF MIND??????

Don't You Feel Better?

You are Piecing and That's the Important Thing!!!
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 04/17/07 07:03 AM
SvenTheRed

Give me the strength!

How you deal with it!

Give me the strenght - Part II

Give me the strength - Part 3

Give me the Strength - Part 4

Give me the strength - Part 5

Give me the Strength - Part 6 - A New Hope

Give me the Strength - Part 7

Trying to Build it Better and Stronger

Finding the Right Zone
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 05/03/07 01:03 AM
CHRISG

I AM AS LOST AS ANYONE CAN BE

NOT AS LOST AS I WAS

I WAS LOST BUT NOW I CAN SEE THE ROAD

I AM ON THE ROAD AND LIFE IS GOOD
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 05/04/07 12:01 AM
Optimust

Oh,,,,, the pain!

Separated 03/15, want your thots, so I won't slip

W doesn't know I know about A? Do I ask?

Lets get psycho,,,,define your MLC and/or WAS

We're getting back together!
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 05/04/07 12:41 AM
HeartFeltOne

Fighting the Good Fight

Starting Over

Doing it right, this time
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 05/06/07 05:38 PM
MrMom

Allow me to introduce myself...

Quick DB question...

Please help me to stop backsliding

Wife is moving out...

Remember me??? A DB Success story!
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 06/02/07 08:19 PM
Chris_in_VA

New here, hello.

Reconciliation in Richmond
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 10/15/07 07:17 AM
JAG_06

Admiring My W and Evolving

My Odyssy Continues

The Road Goes On Forever and The Party Never Ends

My almost 1yr Annivesary (Success!)
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 12/29/07 05:21 PM
stlslim

Wife walked out 2 Weeks ago........Need help!!
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 12/31/07 05:15 PM
marinheiro

I don't know what to make of this, please help.

Is the pain ever going go away?

Need advise

Need more advice please

I hurt bad

What does this mean?

More Drama

Worst day of my life

Friendly W.

what a great day

I give up

Don't assume?

ANother Divorce busted? Maybe

Confirmed : Another Divorce Busted

happy happy happy

Another Divorce busted part 2
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 12/31/07 10:07 PM
ezoliver

Need help bringing my wife back...
Posted By: strange Re: Successful Men - 01/06/08 10:43 PM
I'm bumping this because, did'nt this thread used to be a sticky?
Posted By: jstx Re: Successful Men - 03/09/08 05:33 PM
I'm on this list? Must be a mistake. Lord knows I kind of sucked at the whole process. The only think I could really take to heart out of Michele's books was that if you fell off the horse, get back on and try it again. Persistence does pay off.

Well, if it can help anyone else, feel free to read this mess. I will say that the people on here helped me through a very bad time in my life.

Good Luck!
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 04/13/08 01:57 AM
Tigerbuck

Do I ask W what I want
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 04/27/08 03:27 PM
AllByMyself

New to DB and need someone to tell

What to do, what to do???

ABM tries to GAL!

ABM - Realizes W May Be Gone For Good

ABM - New Thread - I have succeeded and failed
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 04/27/08 03:37 PM
nativeImage

Seperated and hurting need answers
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 06/21/08 12:39 PM
Yo2003

Confusing
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 07/05/08 04:27 PM
Indy36

New Here - Where to start?

Success!!! After the bust......
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 01/04/09 08:05 PM
jamespb75

need some advice new to site

at my wits end...

need a swift kick ..........

did the LRT and it's working!!

got the news she wants to be with OM

starting the long journey

LIST OF POSITIVES

holding on to whatever I can

I'm back just to say all is well so far
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 01/04/09 08:22 PM
blueMan

My Story... yes i am in the middle of battlefield

Middle of battelfield No. It's peace time. Thanks!
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 01/04/09 08:43 PM
renegade

If this is progress, why do I feel like crap?!?

A question for you experienced DB'ers

Staying positive for my marriage

Detaching, but optimistic about the future

A Fairytale Ending

Advice sought from experienced "Piecers"
Posted By: Jamesjohn Re: Successful Men - 01/05/09 03:28 AM
Diehard

well here I go first post

Its all over but the crying

Spending lots of time while separated.

Diehard's divorce is busted!
Posted By: Cadet Re: Successful Men - 02/05/13 10:02 PM
There have been some people complaining that not all the links work on these threads

You may be able to find some of the ones that do not work with the following method.

It is what I use to find people here on DB.

How to find a user on DB

Go up to
MY STUFF
Click on Watch List
Click on Watched Users
Click on Edit Watched Users
Click on Add a user to list
Type in user - "Never Give UP"
Select her as a watched user.
Click on her name
Click on show all posts.
Click on Topics


If someone would like to take the time to redo all of these stories like I did on the MLC board I am sure it would be appreciated.

Hope that helps.
Posted By: Cadet Re: Successful Men - 08/21/14 01:42 PM
I will add this link into this list too.

MLC Successs/Cinders list - restored
Posted By: shreeve Re: Successful Men - 01/21/16 01:10 PM
Anymore of these success stories from men with WAW / Affairs?
Posted By: iwad Re: Successful men - 03/28/16 11:54 AM
These are great! Any from successful women out there?
Posted By: Cadet Re: Successful men - 03/28/16 12:14 PM
Originally Posted By: iwad
These are great! Any from successful women out there?

Look in the MLC forum their is a success list that I redid a while ago pinned to the top.

Also Mozza's threads have success stories linked to them in his first post.
Look through the Newbies resources thread to find a link.
Posted By: Cadet Re: Successful men - 03/30/16 06:25 AM
Originally Posted By: iwad
These are great! Any from successful women out there?


Here is the Link for this thread, it is locked and many of the thread links no longer work.

Successful Women
Posted By: GH31 Re: Successful men - 06/19/16 08:38 AM
I fit the DB definition of "successful" although I would never utter that out loud for fear of getting complacent.

Bomb in January 2008

Back together 5 months later followed by two years of absolute hell.

Two children born in the middle of all this (confirmed mine with paternity test).

Still married, together and sleeping the same bed as of 2016.

Married 14 years and counting. Together since July 1999.

Still taking it one day at a time.
Posted By: Cadet Re: Successful men - 06/21/16 04:53 AM
Originally Posted By: GH31
I fit the DB definition of "successful" although I would never utter that out loud for fear of getting complacent.

Bomb in January 2008

Back together 5 months later followed by two years of absolute hell.

Two children born in the middle of all this (confirmed mine with paternity test).

Still married, together and sleeping the same bed as of 2016.

Married 14 years and counting. Together since July 1999.

Still taking it one day at a time.


GH1 threads
Posted By: GH31 Re: Successful men - 02/19/17 09:19 AM
Another thing I would add to this:

Third child expected April 2017

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