Divorced - Reconciliation Desired-ex not interest - 04/24/17 10:44 AM
Hi,
I have been divorced for less than a year and was married 6 years, together 8 years. My ex-husband says there is no chance for reconciliation and seemed to have come to this decision abruptly and without a real explanation, other than the usual (that his son will come first who is a drug addict) after we had spent nearly 2 years (while separated) trying to reconcile. My story is long and complicated, as I am sure many are as well. I can explain further later, but for now I want to know which book of Michelle's, if any, would be best for me to read as I am already divorced. He said he was disappointed and did not want the divorce, but would no longer do anything to work on reconciliation and I was told that if I could not live with his son, that it's over. I had went above and beyond with his son, pretty much doing the brunt of the work that is involved with addicts, until I had enough. We went to therapy for 3 years because of his son in which he was advised enough was enough, but still in the end told me to leave for his son. So, just curious where to start with reading to see if I should just move on or keep trying. Thank you. BTW, I am the one who filed for divorce after he abruptly stopped communicating with me and would not respond to my attempt to communicate.
I have been divorced for less than a year and was married 6 years, together 8 years. My ex-husband says there is no chance for reconciliation and seemed to have come to this decision abruptly and without a real explanation, other than the usual (that his son will come first who is a drug addict) after we had spent nearly 2 years (while separated) trying to reconcile. My story is long and complicated, as I am sure many are as well. I can explain further later, but for now I want to know which book of Michelle's, if any, would be best for me to read as I am already divorced. He said he was disappointed and did not want the divorce, but would no longer do anything to work on reconciliation and I was told that if I could not live with his son, that it's over. I had went above and beyond with his son, pretty much doing the brunt of the work that is involved with addicts, until I had enough. We went to therapy for 3 years because of his son in which he was advised enough was enough, but still in the end told me to leave for his son. So, just curious where to start with reading to see if I should just move on or keep trying. Thank you. BTW, I am the one who filed for divorce after he abruptly stopped communicating with me and would not respond to my attempt to communicate.