Kate Winslet on divorce - 08/31/15 02:49 PM
Yesterday, the actress Kate Winslet posted on her Facebook page a photo and a little note about how her two divorces has benefited her children...
"Kate Winslet
The media keeps asking me “Kate, you’ve been divorced twice. Are you not scared that those bad experiences are going to negatively impact your children?” People go, 'Oh, my God! Those poor children! They must have gone through so much,’
I just have one thing to say to all of them.My divorces have actually taught my children about struggle.They’ve always been with me. They don’t go from pillar to post; they’re not flown here and there with nannies.That’s never happened. My children live with me; that is it.
I would honestly say that I wouldn’t change a thing. Even all the bad bits. They all matter, because those things shape who you are. Life is just too short to be spending time focusing on useless things. I want to keep my health and my sanity and be well-fed and happy.
We've all got our health and we all laugh a lot. In my personal life, I really can't say why, but I've never felt more confident and happy. And all the credit goes to my little kids and my Husband.
My personal advice to each and every Parent out there is that the best way to raise Positive children in a negative world is to have positive parents who love them unconditionally and serve as excellent role models. We both are really positive and we teach the same to our kids. And it really helps in their upbringing. It feels so great when your Kids see you as their role model. Nothing can beat that feeling.
Share this message as much as you can so that it reaches every parent out there."
There are just so many things wrong with this! And there's a bunch of women who are posting, "Yay, I left and my children live with me! They are so much happier now!"
(If this is the wrong forum, please move - but I didn't find a 'Divorce & Society' forum or another place that seemed to fit...)
"Kate Winslet
The media keeps asking me “Kate, you’ve been divorced twice. Are you not scared that those bad experiences are going to negatively impact your children?” People go, 'Oh, my God! Those poor children! They must have gone through so much,’
I just have one thing to say to all of them.My divorces have actually taught my children about struggle.They’ve always been with me. They don’t go from pillar to post; they’re not flown here and there with nannies.That’s never happened. My children live with me; that is it.
I would honestly say that I wouldn’t change a thing. Even all the bad bits. They all matter, because those things shape who you are. Life is just too short to be spending time focusing on useless things. I want to keep my health and my sanity and be well-fed and happy.
We've all got our health and we all laugh a lot. In my personal life, I really can't say why, but I've never felt more confident and happy. And all the credit goes to my little kids and my Husband.
My personal advice to each and every Parent out there is that the best way to raise Positive children in a negative world is to have positive parents who love them unconditionally and serve as excellent role models. We both are really positive and we teach the same to our kids. And it really helps in their upbringing. It feels so great when your Kids see you as their role model. Nothing can beat that feeling.
Share this message as much as you can so that it reaches every parent out there."
There are just so many things wrong with this! And there's a bunch of women who are posting, "Yay, I left and my children live with me! They are so much happier now!"
(If this is the wrong forum, please move - but I didn't find a 'Divorce & Society' forum or another place that seemed to fit...)