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Feels like a long time since I have posted an update so I am glad to be back to posting. It was actually kind of interesting how yesterday played out.
I am talking to friends who are familiar with the sitch and I was telling them how it is rare that i go 6 days of no contact. One friend suggested to break the silence while others said to be patient.
At around 3PM the silence was broken..........she called
W: Hey you have an appt for D at 4:30PM?
M: yeah why?
W: they just called Dr will be out so you need to reschedule they just called me
M: Oh ok. Sorry about that.I did not realize they had your number instead of mine. She has an ear infection I am kind of tired of going to the Dr every few weeks for this
W: Take her to an ENT. You should take her to that place in NY.
M: yeah that was a good place. Haven't spoken to you in awhile you doing ok
W: yeah I am good I gotta get back to work just wanted to pass on the message. Please give them your number so they can call you next time.
M: sure no problem
The whole thing lasted about 2 Min and it was distant and cold she sounded almost annoyed at the fact that the Dr called her. She was off, but I let it go.
Later on that night I was thinking about the exchange and I had to reach her regarding taxes anyway but was unsure if I should or not. However, some things take priority over feelings and fear and the IRS is one. So I reached out to her and there was no answer. No worries on my part a few minutes later I get a text from her
W: At work till 8PM will call back when I get out
M: No prob.
W: Everything Ok?
No response from me I was busy. She called as promised and this is how that exchange went
W: Wats up
M: Wanted to let you know about this tax stuff blah blah
W: Hmmmmm OK
M: You sound skeptical
W: I am
M: I can give you the number for the IRS and you can call them yourself to verify if you like
W: I have the number is just finding the time to call
M: you sounded a little annoyed today when I spoke to you. I wanted to let you know I changed your info with the Dr so they will not be contacting you again.
W: Thats ok I know that is going to happen until everybody knows whats going on.
M: yeah I guess so. Sorry you were irritated about it
W: yeah its because my job stinks I was not irritated with you just my job.
She went on to tell me about her job and what she plans on doing to get a new job and where to look. She is still holding out for the INS job and is hopeful she will get it.
W: I'm sick of being broke and in debt.
M: You mentioned the Ice Cream company and said they pay good. Why don't you look into that
W: Because I want to be able to hold my head up H. I've had to swallow a lot of pride already. Moving back home working where I work living in a garage apt
M: I don't think you have anything to be ashamed of
W: Yeah well most days I feel the same way
M: I am sure you'll be fine
W: Oh i got a another song for you. You want to hear it?
M: Sure
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jG3kjoDfYswReally curious what the board thinks of this?
M: Nice. Is that you speaking to me?
W: No that is you speaking to me
M: Oh hope you get what you deserve sounds a little mean
W: You can look at it that way I see it as you hope I find happiness because that is what I deserve
I was stewing over the song but kept my cool
M: Well I have some songs also but I don't know how I feel about sharing them with you
W: You say that but you never let me hear them. You don't like to share
M: No I do. I am tied up right now if you want call me later and I will share one with you
W: OK going to moms and then a friends house I will call you later
M: Sounds good
So the song was interesting to me on many levels but I kept moving forward. Around midnight she calls back
W: Hey what are you up to
M: On the computer
W: Lets hear it
M: Ok I will send you the song you can call me back after
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7aYxMuLb3h8She calls back
W: Nice song
M: See my songs have a different meaning they are nice
W: My songs aren't mean
M: No they aren't I actually like some of them. So what are you doing?
W: eating a frozen pizza
We made small talk for a little bit and then started talking about a vacation we took to the Keys and lauged around for a little bit. Her mood became a little somber then we talked about an apartment we lived in
W: we should of stayed in that apt or just should have gotten an a two bedroom apt
M: Oh I agree
W: You know why I say two bedroom right?
M: Of course
W: we started having problems when we moved to the big house.
M: yep but at the end of the day no one really caused our M to break down
W: no it was all us
M: yep we did the best with what we knew
W: yep all we need to do is learn from the past and move forward and not make those mistakes again
M: I agree moving forward is key can't live in the past
We talked a few more minutes
M: Would you be interested in talking to Jody again?
W: I would think about it.
The entire convo lasted about 2hrs
Second update is from today when W calls again
W: hey what are you doing
M: Not much just in the office
W: Does the house computer still have my resume
M: Should
W: Can you email it to me
M: Sure can't till tonight though
W: That's fine. Oh I ran into old emails from when you were deployed
M: Wow that is going back a few years
W: Yeah we were soo in love back then. How things change. We have changed. Its almost like reading someone elses email. They don't even seem real.
M: Yep. I still have them also I am sure just never looked at them
W: I was looking for my resume and came across them. oh well just thought it was funny. I think I will go to the library to do my resume cause the laptop you gave me stinks and does not work
M: Just turn it on tonight and by the time you get out of work tomorrow it should be ready to go
W: yep prob piece of crap. that is why you gave it to me cause you knew it s@cks. I should of taken the house PC but you did not want me to.
M: It is not that bad once it gets going
W: If it is so freaking good then why did you not keep it?
M: Because all my school work is on the PC
W: yeah its because you knew it did not work.
M: don't you have a best buy account now?
W: yeah that I used to buy my mom a tv and I can't afford to buy a new PC. Smart a$$
M: Not meant as a smart a$$ comment. You want the house PC I will send it to you I can get a new one
W: I don't need it. I am back at work I gotta go
Hung up as I was in mid sentence. sigh and a smile on my part. Life su@ks for you babe and I am sorry but nothing I can do about it.
I was thinking of sending the PC cause i really do need a new one and I can easily go buy one. One less thing I have to hear about and that will really shut her up.
It's funny how one day we go from talking about another DB session and the next she is irritated about the PC
Her job s@cks=my fault
No PC=My fault
No money=My fault
Life is unfair=My fault
She is in debt=My fault
It is snowing=My fault
Tsunami in Japan=My fault
I got it