She left me. Want her back. - 08/03/15 12:23 AM
My partner of 6 years left me for a man who is married and has kids.
I know it at least was an emotional affair. I was struggling with family health issues (my side) and I wanted us to move closer. I wasn't as supportive as I should have been with her job. I can see how I made her feel unsupported and alone. I didn't mean to, but I could see how my actions contributed to her behavior.
She just went home to visit family for a few weeks. Before that, she discovered the other man. She was mad and accuse me of violating her privacy and trust. I do believe she made the worst violation of trust.
We we sent a few emails back-and-forth. Mine was the last, calling her out for her lack of care about how she treated me.
She's away for another couple weeks and she wants me moved out by the time she arrives.
I know she's still seeing this married guy, As crazy as it sounds, I do want her back. Or at least I'd like to try again. (If she does it again, it's on me).
I'm not sure what to do. Do I send her another email trying to ease back from blaming her? Do I tell the other man's wife in the hopes she keep it anonymous and ends the affair?
Do I just ride it out?
I can provide more info if needed. Already read divorce remedy.
I know it at least was an emotional affair. I was struggling with family health issues (my side) and I wanted us to move closer. I wasn't as supportive as I should have been with her job. I can see how I made her feel unsupported and alone. I didn't mean to, but I could see how my actions contributed to her behavior.
She just went home to visit family for a few weeks. Before that, she discovered the other man. She was mad and accuse me of violating her privacy and trust. I do believe she made the worst violation of trust.
We we sent a few emails back-and-forth. Mine was the last, calling her out for her lack of care about how she treated me.
She's away for another couple weeks and she wants me moved out by the time she arrives.
I know she's still seeing this married guy, As crazy as it sounds, I do want her back. Or at least I'd like to try again. (If she does it again, it's on me).
I'm not sure what to do. Do I send her another email trying to ease back from blaming her? Do I tell the other man's wife in the hopes she keep it anonymous and ends the affair?
Do I just ride it out?
I can provide more info if needed. Already read divorce remedy.