Twice!?! - 03/02/15 01:11 AM
Hi. Kind of new here. H up and left me about 2years ago. To hear him tell it we separated BC I was not attentive. I think he left for another woman. He did eventually have a short relationship with this woman but he swears he only pursued her after deciding to leave. We reconciled after about 4months. Now, he confessed to having a one night stand a couple months ago. Says its someone he met randomly and hasn't had contact with since. Right off the bat I want out, done. But I find myself wavering bad. I am not a very good wife. I have definitely thrown myself into my work and children, mostly so he couldnt do more damage, however, i never would have left him or done anything like cheat and I have tried to connect with him onlynto be turned down. We dont have a lot in common but we both want the same things in life and want to do the right thing. The actual act barely even hurts. I'm just having a hard time deciding to stay or go. I want to stay BC I see our potential and of course for our children but this was his second offense and if he can't control himself from a random woman who walked in to his workplace what's to say he won't continue? What do I do?