so confused - 08/01/14 04:20 PM
H and I have been married for 1.5 yr, Together for almost 3 yrs. have a 5mth old now. He dropped the D bomb out of nowhere 06/20/14. wanted a divorce asap but I cant because of some visa status prob. Since then, I started a new job, got my mum to take care of the baby. He had been avoiding his family and me around 4th july and didnt come home. after all the drama, he came home a few weeks ago and told me those weeks were the worst and he felt so lonely. He also tells me I am the only person he can open up to. We were being cordial the past few weeks, had been intimate and even went out on a date (all while constantly reminding me not to be hopeful, that we were going to separate till i figure out my next steps).
I really want to kick him out or leave but i am unable to financially. His family wants me to move to their state but I'm so worried that I wont get another job as quick. Also, I wanted to see if he really meant that he wants to spend time with the baby.
I don't know what to do anymore. One day, I think I have a great solution to this, and another day, I feel like I'm not thinking logically.
I really want to kick him out or leave but i am unable to financially. His family wants me to move to their state but I'm so worried that I wont get another job as quick. Also, I wanted to see if he really meant that he wants to spend time with the baby.
I don't know what to do anymore. One day, I think I have a great solution to this, and another day, I feel like I'm not thinking logically.