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#2245425 05/15/12 08:20 PM
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Where can I learn about detatchment? Any adivce appreciated.

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I would start with the going dark link.
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=50956#Post50956

Also try googling detachment and lance armstrong.


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Detachment is a hard skill. Put a lot of effort into it. Make it an automatic response when you see/feel hurt coming your way. I actually say to myself: "Detach, Detach, Detach" Kind of like the robot on Lost in space saying: "Danger Will Robinson, Danger!"


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