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#2216502 01/28/12 01:26 AM
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I just want to take a moment to thank those of you who self-moderate....starting a new thread when your thread is large Some notify us and some just move forward. (e.g. jbnati)

I want to thank some of the vets who are incessantly faithful to newcomers, in no particular order (eg, sandi2, 25yrsmlc, mrbond...)

I want to thanks the really great newcomers who are becoming 'vets'


I want to thank some Piecers and folks from other forums (MLC, etc) who are helping newcomers



'Vets' has become a term that means several things: any oldtimer, any oldtimer who has saved their marriage, a certain group of oldtimers...and it can be hard to tell who is in this group.



All Newbies--without your willingness to be honest and share your journey, there would be no board.




I mentioned a few folks by name and I mean to exclude no one. So PLEASE, feel FREE to add your thanks to the names I didn't mention. This was really a 1-3 minute snapshot, but a yearlong gratitude.


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Some of you have become prolific posters/helpers--no particular order--mixing it up as I add.


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Indeed, they have been life savers - thanks!


Me: 44
Bomb: 11/27/11
Divorced:6/12
Life goes on: 6/13


Dogs still like bacon...a lot.
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W Filed for D 7/21/11
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Rick1963 #2216523 01/28/12 02:42 AM
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Thanks all of you, this forum has been very therapeutic for me. I believe it saved my marriage and continues to keep me sane. I definitely feel I get more than I give.

Accuray


Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015
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I want to thank dbmod, and the other moderators and the staff at DB for putting up with all of us! smile and of course MWD, for whom which I think we can all certainly say "saved us" from ourselves. cool

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I agree with all of the above. One of the things I've learned is that even if you don't get direct feedback from the vets or prolific posters, there is always something to be gained from their posts to others on the forums.

Seek and you shall find!

I would be remiss if I didn't acknowledge a forum member who successfully busted his D and seems to have taken an interest in me and my sitch.

He doesn't post often but seems to have a knack for poping in at just the right time to rescue me from my own misery and point me in the right direction.

Thank you Bustorama!!


Me51 W53 S17 S14
M22 T25
Bomb-9/11; A-11/11; I move out 11/11

It's easy to find our bottom, it is our top that requires cultivation.

Every rough spot adds to our emotional constitution. -Barney Fife
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I also want to thank the moderators and every single person who has taken the time (and have had the patience) to read my very, very long posts.

I appreciate everyone's help, listen carefully and keep the advice close to my heart.

Thank you. I don't know what I would do without the support I find here.


Me & H: 44
D7, D6, S3
Together: 20y, M: 17y
EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10
EA becomes PA: Spring 2011
H filed for D: 09/06/12
D Negotiating began 2/15
OW seemingly gone on 3/15
Still negotiating D






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Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

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John Wooden





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I have to say, this community is easily among the most active and supportive I've ever seen. "Best worst place" indeed...

THANK YOU!


Me: 31
W: 28
M: almost 6
T: 10.5
S2
Bomb#1: 05/11
Bomb#2: 11/11
S'd: 11/28/11
Moved back in: 12/28/11
MC: 06/28/12

...what is it about the 28th day of the month?
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