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#2251269 06/05/12 01:51 AM
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If you're a newbie...which of the DB/DR/KLA etc techniques have you tried?

If you're an oldtimer...what HAVEN'T you tried? You've found some success, some comfort...where can you improve?


Every time I get on the board, every time I do a KLA post or start them over, every time I hit an 'issue' ... (and by that I do not mean, my favorite issues or sore spots)....I am challenged to BEGIN AGAIN....like a BEGINNER.

And so....someone (zig) has challenged me about 'Power Packaging' and I will admit....I haven't looked at this in awhile, so I will. And then...I will update.



What do YOU have to report that is NEW (maybe again) FOR YOU???


The more skills you have for building love, the more love your partner will feel....and I have seen......more love will return to you...


(btw...building your skillset is part of REAL GIVING)


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Originally Posted By: sgctxok
I am challenged to BEGIN AGAIN....like a BEGINNER.

Going back and re-learning all the great things I have found out since being here.

For each time I look at it with a new set of eyes and a new perspective.

"Beginners Mind" is great advice.


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The more skills you have for building love, the more love your partner will feel....and I have seen......more love will return to you...

is this where power packaging starts?

glad you started this thread - can't wait until you get back.

in spite of my own LBS roller coaster, one thought that has stayed at the back of my mind is that whenever i act, or do something form a place of love, towards h, i always feel better about myself.

thanks

zig


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zig --


I added the Power Packaging info....

Now..YOU do the work related to your situation.....what do YOU come up with?


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thanks sgctxok.

i'm really struggling today - and then see your post, and my first thought is, maybe the universe is sending me something that will help me through this right now


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T his is a grat thread. NC seemed to help my sitch quite a bit, especially me. Much easier to GAL when you don't have to interact with your spose every day.


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