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Re: Foot out the door, 2 years, different programs by 25yearsmlc @ 05/14/13 07:08 AM

Have not followed your whole thread so forgive me if I'm off base here. I saw a few statements I had to comment upon... Originally Posted By: Rook7I am afraid I can't beat a fantasy. My wife's PA was in full fling when the OM moves. She knew he w

Infidelity/Extramarital Affairs/Jealousy

Re: There is hope for you. My success story :) by willbwell @ 05/14/13 07:01 AM

Thank you hopeful. Its been one year now since BD,but I am not giving up!

For Newcomers

Re: WAW / ILUBINILWY / CONFUSED! by Fartiltre @ 05/14/13 06:57 AM

W has seemed quite withdrawn the last two days and at this point I am in fact more calm than ever about this. She is extremely busy at the moment with working a lot and trying to get things set up for moving out. We have had a very nice weekend and

For Newcomers

Re: WAW having affair, still living in separate rooms by kenva @ 05/14/13 06:56 AM

W tells me yesterday morning that she and s are going to dinner. When they came home, s sais that was cool. She took him to dinner and a movie. The movie that he and I had planned on going to later this week. She knew it, but she got jealous of s and

For Newcomers

Re: DBing European Style, part 2 by 25yearsmlc @ 05/14/13 06:55 AM

Originally Posted By: Papa4LifeI could use some help from you kind folks. W wants to go ahead with telling the kids as early as next week. Does anybody have some experiences to share on how to make this as painless as possible? you cannot make it

For Newcomers

Re: DBing European Style, part 2 by mrtwopointfour @ 05/14/13 06:40 AM

Quote:I'm hurting a bit today, not because of feelings for W -- I'd say I'm very well detached now and I feel confident about the future -- but more about the breakup of our family. I love these kids so much it hurts and I hate having to do this to t

For Newcomers

Re: WAW / ILUBINILWY / CONFUSED! by Fartiltre @ 05/14/13 06:12 AM

Hi T Thanks for commenting! My head is a mess! I will think about the temp-checking and possibly go with it. I do not know if I dare and I have to feel good about it, if I do it! - Perhaps this is really just a part of sitch and perhaps all I need

For Newcomers

Re: DBing European Style, part 2 by T1000 @ 05/14/13 05:57 AM

I do think there is some significance to her noticing. She most likely had expectations on how you were going to act and you didn't. Maybe theres more to Papa4Life than she thought...

For Newcomers

Re: New to this ... by mrtwopointfour @ 05/14/13 05:20 AM

Quote:I sleep an hour at a time mostly waking up still hoping the nightmare is over This will stop. I had the same, sure many others did too. I would wake up in the morning forgetting, and then remembering what i was going through. I also had dreams

For Newcomers

Re: New to this ... by mrtwopointfour @ 05/14/13 05:15 AM

Hi Steve, I need to read your whole sitch before I comment too much, but what i have read so far looks to be very much like mine. My W accused me of being over controlling, un-affectionate, taking her for granted. The more the sitch pans out the more

Midlife Crisis

Re: More questions and confusion for this LBS by Papa4Life @ 05/14/13 05:11 AM

You're right, BRNR, we all have to get there if we're to have the best chance of having a fulfiling life and the best possible chance of having our S be there to share it with us. Negeil isn't quite there yet -- the gut is still overriding the head

For Newcomers

Re: I Have Self Worth by Papa4Life @ 05/14/13 04:49 AM

As long as you dont't have to carry that hibachi thing with the dragons on your arms!! But seeiously, I really like the positive vibes swirling around on this new thread. I'm going to have to stop by more often. As for the "never really had t

For Newcomers

Re: Newbie needing Advice by Mimi30 @ 05/14/13 03:19 AM

H called back, we had a friendly chat again... he asked how I've been... I said fine, working on various projects, reading etc... and asked how he's been h said he's good and trying to figure out when to take his vacation time he's supposed to have n

For Newcomers

Re: Almost two years and still stuck in limbo by newman7977 @ 05/14/13 03:12 AM

Hey Leo, Thanks for getting back to me and sharing your sitch. Well I couldn't agree with you more. Even with the kids growing up and not seeing any affections from mom and dad, i don't want them to think this is how married life is. Everything yo

For Newcomers

(NA) Re: confussed and hurt by lilly25 @ 05/14/13 03:03 AM

been to see a L today it was quite helpful and helped me see what my options are and what my rights are if H ever decides he wants to talk.... it has now been 6 days with no contact and im pretty sure there is ow now as he hasnt been at home since la

Midlife Crisis

Re: Crazy little thing called MLC by Raine @ 05/14/13 03:03 AM

Thanks rH & wfm! I feel so angry too. I think that's the main feeling I've had towards him the last two weeks. In fact the Dixie Chick's "Not Ready To Make Nice" has been going through my head when I think of him. I went from total c

For Newcomers

Re: Foot out the door, 2 years, different programs by Rook7 @ 05/14/13 02:59 AM

I am afraid I can't beat a fantasy. My wife's PA was in full fling when the OM moves. She knew he was moving when the started it. He was unobtainable. He wouldn't leave his wife. She wants what she couldn't have and probably always will. Since

For Newcomers

Re: post-D with WAW by Papa4Life @ 05/14/13 02:49 AM

Well good for you, AZ. It's still pretty early on after the D, so you'll probably want to take it nice and slow and keep it casual while you continue to work on you. But I think it's good that you've decided to do some dating. You might also want to

For Newcomers

Re: post-D with WAW by azguy @ 05/14/13 01:26 AM

Journal: So, I decided last week that I am at the point after my divorce where I'd like to try meeting other women. I still don't think I'm over my XW. If she showed any indication of reconsidering at this point, I'd take me about two seconds to de

For Newcomers

Re: I Have Self Worth by jp787 @ 05/14/13 12:21 AM

Originally Posted By: uRworthyAh, grasshopper, keep this going. are you going to ask me to snatch a pebble from you hand?

For Newcomers

Re: Good Old England by Big Bruce @ 05/14/13 12:15 AM

Hello, To put things in context I will first copy here the e-mail I sent that has not been replied to after two weeks! Quote: Hi W, I had a busy week-end :), hope yours was good as well. Ok, below are some observations. Can you provide me with a

For Newcomers

Re: I am at a loss on what to do anymore. by stungBT @ 05/14/13 12:13 AM

Originally Posted By: Jamkel4stungBT, I know it's a hard road that you're walking but keep going. Take encouragement that others are walking your same road. I can't offer any advice but can offer my prayers and encouragement. d. Thank you. I appr

For Newcomers

Re: Unlearning conflict avoidance 4 by LuckyLuke @ 05/13/13 11:46 PM

Oh, I forgot, she does not like mother's or father's day, and did not call or write her mom. I called mine (and made dinner last night for my MIL). Extending this, my W's life is defined a good deal by what she does not like (various countries, for

For Newcomers

Re: Unlearning conflict avoidance 4 by LuckyLuke @ 05/13/13 11:40 PM

No, I did nothing. She specifically requested that I not send any more flowers. I've been sending the occasional friendly email, but here is her answer in response to my saying that my trip to Germany on the 27-29th would hopefully not be a problem:

Midlife Crisis

Re: Not confused...trying to keep hope alive!!! by golf mom @ 05/13/13 11:39 PM

B, doing nothing or taking action will not change your M at this point. I absolutely regret not following the advice I was given here and by my attorney a year ago regarding finances. I was paralyzed with grief and fearful that any action I took woul

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