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Jump to new posts Re: Letting go by Starsky309 @ 09/12/14 09:10 AM

Originally Posted By: Cnfused Asked for access to cell phone records and haven't received a response. So I'm GALing and looking forward. Should I bring it up again or just assume it hasn't stopped? Hasn't stopped is where I'm at now. Your i
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Jump to new posts Re: To Pursue or Not by Starsky309 @ 09/12/14 09:07 AM

My wife pulled the same thing. Said she "wouldn't be late," and then came home at 1:15am. I had all of the lights out, the front door locked and the security system armed. Told her calmly the next morning that our family's home was not a
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So here is GUBU's response to the fundraiser invitation: (This is a place where we worked with them for years on our hospice dogs, everybody there loves us, thinks we're so great for taking these old decrepit dogs, and they have no idea I'm mostly d
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Jump to new posts Re: MLC W Dates Lotsa Men, Part III by kat727 @ 09/12/14 09:06 AM

Can he come live with you? She doesn't have her priorities straight it seems. This is his crying out for help. Please listen. kat
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^^^^ Shakspr, If not their choice, whose? It's a bizarre way of thinking. And GUBU's response to my invite to attend the SPCA fundraiser is more of that same way of thinking. (See below) No matter how they FEEL, they can make other "choices&
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Jump to new posts Re: Post-Deployment Heartbreak by Starsky309 @ 09/12/14 09:04 AM

There are three books that I would recommend for BOTH of you, after you've read (and re-read!) either Divorce Busting or Divorce Remedy (the latter is more current). The first is "Co-Dependent No More," the second is "No More Mr. Nice
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Jump to new posts Re: Blindsided but finding my way (3) by rppfl @ 09/12/14 09:02 AM

Originally Posted By: FunDad Btw - that ring on your finger is not just a covenant between you and your H, it's between you and God too. You know, it's interesting you say that. Before our wedding, we had required sessions with the priest, a
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Pilot - He is a recruiter at the "startup" that the W went to work for. He was the guy, in the party town showing her all the fun things. He embodied the culture of the startup and "rescued her" helping her through the process t
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Jump to new posts Re: Feels like an eternity (Mindsin - part. 3) by mindsin @ 09/12/14 08:56 AM

Originally Posted By: 25yearsmlcwhat happened when you were with your OWs? I know about the time she tried to reach you when she was pregnant and you were with an escort ( and that hurt her etc) but what about these types of things? Did you just
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Jump to new posts Re: Blindsided but finding my way (3) by FunDad @ 09/12/14 08:55 AM

You may want to check out Dr. Dobson's book "Love Must Be Tough". It's along the same lines as DB/DR and it's geared towards spouses dealing with affairs. Btw - that ring on your finger is not just a covenant between you and your H, it
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Jump to new posts Re: Flingin' That Otter Across Two States! by StubbornDyke @ 09/12/14 08:53 AM

Hi Heather, I've been in lurk mode for a while, but have been silently cheering you on. I'm from the Finger Lakes area of NY. What brings me out of the woodwork is the mention of house prep for the winter (good idea) and space heaters (yikes!). Redu
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Jump to new posts Re: newbie need help needs help part 4 by rppfl @ 09/12/14 08:53 AM

Originally Posted By: nmwb123Originally Posted By: igitIt is crazy. My w was dropping kids off at christian school on way to other m house. Nice huh Taking the kids to learn about the 10 Commandments while she goes off to break them. My H is in
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Jump to new posts Re: Feels like an eternity (Mindsin - part. 3) by mindsin @ 09/12/14 08:50 AM

25 - I will answer your questions, but first let me give you a bit of back story. My "hobby" started in 2006 and I remember the 1st time I got caught. It was a simple text message that I sent asking for a girl's hourly rate. She saw it on
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Jump to new posts Re: newbie need help needs help part 4 by nmwb123 @ 09/12/14 08:48 AM

Originally Posted By: igitIt is crazy. My w was dropping kids off at christian school on way to other m house. Nice huh Taking the kids to learn about the 10 Commandments while she goes off to break them.
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Jump to new posts Re: newbie need help needs help part 4 by nmwb123 @ 09/12/14 08:48 AM

Originally Posted By: CnfusedIf they decide not to return as long as we've done the work we can move forward with dignity, respect and love for ourselves. But we must do the work to get there. I know I don't want the woman my w has become. So I
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Jump to new posts Re: Blindsided but finding my way (3) by rppfl @ 09/12/14 08:42 AM

Originally Posted By: MaybellJust because it hurts doesn't mean there isn't some good in it. Like disinfecting a wound before you stitch it up. I hope you get a lot out of the MC today and come away from it with some clarity. I'll be thinking of you.
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Jump to new posts Re: Can I get her back??.. by LoveMyW @ 09/12/14 08:41 AM

I've really got to start realising that this journey is going to be a marathon, not a sprint to get my wife back.. Twice now I've felt the attitude from her getting warmer toward me, and twice I have said not so much stupid things, but have jumped t
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Jump to new posts Re: to wait or not to wait by Ahoy @ 09/12/14 08:39 AM

Thank you, Edz!
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Jump to new posts Re: H's MLC #4 by job @ 09/12/14 08:38 AM

I'm sorry the discussion came up so soon, but the door opened and you were allow to have some time to say what was on your mind. Now, step back and see what he does. He may have to mull it over for a while and then again, he may want another discus
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Jump to new posts Re: Wife having emotional affair part 2 by bdub @ 09/12/14 08:37 AM

Someone needs to make that last post from sandi a "sticky" and put it in the DB hall of fame!!
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Jump to new posts Re: Blindsided but finding my way (3) by Maybell @ 09/12/14 08:37 AM

Just because it hurts doesn't mean there isn't some good in it. Like disinfecting a wound before you stitch it up. I hope you get a lot out of the MC today and come away from it with some clarity. I'll be thinking of you.
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Jump to new posts Re: Flingin' That Otter Across Two States! by job @ 09/12/14 08:35 AM

IF you don't hear from HR today, you'll need to ask your father for a loan so that you can pay the security deposit on the spot if you find what you are looking for. Don't let another one slip through your fingers because you didn't have the money a
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Jump to new posts Re: Blindsided but finding my way (3) by rppfl @ 09/12/14 08:20 AM

Yesterday I made a list of about 50 GAL things that I could possibly do. I have to say I'm not really interested in some of them, but I was just brainstorming and wrote everything down. Still, there are plenty of interesting things on the list. I n
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Jump to new posts Re: Post-Deployment Heartbreak by Rev @ 09/12/14 08:14 AM

Arcola, just got done reading your thread, I think you and I are very similar personality types; easy-going most of the time, I would ask if people have ever described you as passive or a pushover, because I have been described that way in the past.
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Jump to new posts Re: Wife Still in MLC but has now left #4 by mirage @ 09/12/14 08:12 AM

Matt, There is a light at the end of your tunnel. You don't happen to see it at this point because it's covered up by the anger, by the disdain you have for your wife. AJM has laid it out for you. Take the high road, do what is necessary for your k
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