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Wow, that's uncomfortable. I say you need to do a little more validating. It seems to be the DB thing to do every time the WAS complains about something. Validating is not agreeing. So for the first email, you could have written "I can see why
Thanks Cadet for reposting to where this should be. When you say DB'ing is counter intuitive does that mean everything I think I should be doing for her and the relationship (like explaining thing in the past, trying to look after her broken heart e
Starting on my day now. I really want today, Day #4, to be a great and productive day. I'm still having trouble, though, with my W contacting me... I sent S11 out to her as she picked him up this morning to take him to school. I did not go out.
Why not ccall it a birthday party? My birthday was a couple of weeks ago and I have some friends who have been with me through the good and bad of life. Just a few. I said I want to get together to celebrate my birthday, no gifts just us being toge
Thanks for that Gg Well my admiration for your handling of your sitch just went up about 200% thats some serious chit you've had there. Be proud of how you are going forward (not that you need the compliments of a random - and boy am I random - blok
Originally Posted By: rppflOriginally Posted By: labugWhy are you offering? For the sole purpose of playing nice and moving a little closer towards 50/50. No other reason. H originally suggested 50/50 in the form of one week mom, one week dad. I
Originally Posted By: jim0987I suppose the thing is I'm not really taking a beating - I'm treated like I'm nothing to her. Like the creepy guy in the office who you're polite to just because he might make a complaint. But afterward you just want a sh
Things are fairly quiet here as we prepare for Christmas. The tree is up and decorated. The girls are having the usual spats that ten sisters have. My middle one is trying to through things at me to see if she can get a rise out of me, basically test
Let me see if I can explain readers digest version of what happened and why I just dropped the whole thing. For while I had hope. The whole thing was h fighting with me non stop since about may13. H made threats to leave me in os country when my na
I can say mate, in that you are not alone but I'd put back to you what you said to me, concentrate on what you can affect and what you can do for you and the kids. You cannot change her, if it were possible all of us here would be doing it in our sit
Thx again Pete . As usual you are a source of positive feedback and good feelings . You are right . Detachment is still key . I struggle with her ill feelings towards me . Thats the worst . Worse than the affair . To think that shes the one who has c
I just said I was sorry the first conversation wasn't more successful, that is found it difficult to focus with the kids interrupting. He had also criticized my Christmas preparations so I said that I was doing the best I could considering I was tran
I suppose the thing is I'm not really taking a beating - I'm treated like I'm nothing to her. Like the creepy guy in the office who you're polite to just because he might make a complaint. But afterward you just want a shower. There is no boundary t
I got a text this morning from one of my closest friends, who was originally one of BF's friends. I got her in the "divorce". It's not that she picked sides, really, more like she was willing to support us both, separately, as a neutral par
Originally Posted By: raliced I'm always a little worried that STBX will turn jerk-y. I worry a little about this sometimes. H and I have been nothing but civil to each other, and since he moved out he's been downright nice. But I'm always aware
Put on your spew jacket amiright? That suxx. Sorry. (((Maybell))) Validate. "I know how hard it is to miss the kids on holidays. It seems like there was a misunderstanding about how we would divide the kids time over christmas? Something
I am very sorry that things are on a rollercoaster right now and your S17 is having some issues. Do you think he may need some counseling or medication or is it just being a teenager is the reason for the behavior? It sounds like he's got a lot of
Good morning! Nothing more to journal today. H and I exchanged a couple Christmas gift related texts, and later he told me that a mutual friend said "hi", they were out to dinner together. This morning he sent an email clarifying a calen
Wrote the recommended email. Got HUGE spew back and a demand to keep D11 on Christmas Eve and to have the boys come play video games at his place on Christmas day. Answered that he got Thanksgiving, I get Christmas, and asked him to NOT expect to
Originally Posted By: NAJ1964For example, when we go to Disney World for out D6, how should I act? Distant, uninterested? I certainly don't want to post for any family photos with Mickey Mouse, that feels totally false and wrong to me. A lot of E
Wonka, I have been in touch w/Heather since the moderation went into effect. She's okay. I am not going into the details of the hearing as they are not mine to share, however, the hearing went just about how she thought it would. She didn't mentio