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Jump to new posts Re: Vanilla Fudged 16 by gan @ 05/25/15 11:57 AM

V, just back from Uganda. I can see it will take me a bit to catch up on what's been going on with you. For now I just wanted to issue some ((((Vanilla)))). You will be alright, lady.
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Jump to new posts Re: So many conflicting messages by Matt777 @ 05/25/15 11:56 AM

Originally Posted By: DifRentHi Matt... I know nothing she says really means anything. If it takes losing the OW for her to turn back to me, though, am I not just a placeholder until the next one comes along? It's the sense I'm getting - she wants ev
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Jump to new posts Re: May your fantasies come true by gan @ 05/25/15 11:53 AM

You're sounding good, Gg. Things seem very real, very scary, and very exciting for you at the moment. I say go with the flow!
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Jump to new posts Re: Raliced - The Magnificent Seventh by gan @ 05/25/15 11:48 AM

Hello, raliced. I was interested to read your diagnosis of the problems in your M. I could relate to many - particularly your perspectives on porn (I too thought I was being liberal by not making a big deal of it), the introvert side of things (thoug
Midlife Crisis
Jump to new posts Re: MLC W Dates, Part 9 by job @ 05/25/15 11:19 AM

I'm glad your son is okay. Sounds like your son has recovered nicely and enjoyed his time w/you yesterday.
Midlife Crisis
Jump to new posts Re: Coming Home by job @ 05/25/15 11:17 AM

You don't sound mean at all. You and your son are living your life and continuing to move forward. Your h chose to move out and not be a part of a family. As for the dog, I don't blame you and it's not like the dog is a child that needs to go back
Midlife Crisis
Jump to new posts Re: The Five Balls by job @ 05/25/15 11:09 AM

FY, She's still baking up and nicely too. Slowly but surely is the way to go. At least she's settling down and has been honest about how she feels right now at the attraction to you. She's still suffering from some depression and hopefully once th
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: It ain't over till the fat lady sings by EMO1234 @ 05/25/15 11:05 AM

Ok need advice on how to deal with financial stuff. H emailed me to say that he saw the astronomical mobile bill I had the month he told me he wanted to separate. So his exact words were "I have noted the astronomical mobile bill that you have
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Jump to new posts Re: In the UK -need help (pt3) by Joe46 @ 05/25/15 10:59 AM

I remember the look on my WW face when I stood up to her about a couple things after coming here. I did not yell or get mean. I calmly, but sternly told her I will not stand for this anymore and walked away. Was I worried about her taking off, yes. B
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: Card29 XI - Journey by Card29 @ 05/25/15 10:53 AM

Unsurprisingly, STBX is still being strung along by OM. Seems like the guys sleeps with whichever woman he feels like in a given week (his W or mine). I'm not hurt by the A, but my heart really is broken for STBX. Just sad that she has let herself fa
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: Vanilla Fudged 16 by Joe46 @ 05/25/15 10:46 AM

We are all here for you V! I could not sleep and was thinking about you and here you are. I know some of what you are feeling about finding out things about S that they hid from you. WW hid things from me also. It is not a good feeling. I have dealt
Midlife Crisis
Jump to new posts Re: Anxiously waiting for it to fall apart by Lifes Twists @ 05/25/15 10:22 AM

Dejavu, I don't think it matters what board on this forum you post to as long as you find one that you connect to and can grow from the interaction. From my own personal perspective I believe that people who immerse themselves in work or hobbies or
Midlife Crisis
Jump to new posts Re: Anxiously waiting for it to fall apart by 25yearsmlc @ 05/25/15 10:19 AM

Originally Posted By: dejavu2accidentally hit submit and then took too long to edit post.... 25yearsmlc - I am not sure if your quibbling is to make me think or trying to get me off the MLC board, but have found a connection to many of the journeys
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: Detachment we can do it! (Smothy 4) by Pyrite @ 05/25/15 09:41 AM

This has been going on for a long time yeah (2011?) - so i think maybe this has become ingrained into you more than you realise. you need to 180 Smothy. Get out of this rut. This may be controversial but it may help you - get angry!! When I was youn
Midlife Crisis
Jump to new posts Re: Anxiously waiting for it to fall apart by LouR @ 05/25/15 09:37 AM

dejavu 2 - don't let anyone make you feel like you should not be here. We are all in the same boat - our s have left us and we are looking for support, advice and answers. I dont think it matters which forum you are on, as long as you are getting tho
Midlife Crisis
Jump to new posts Re: Day Two by dejavu2 @ 05/25/15 09:32 AM

LT - enjoy the day and try to live in the moment. It is so hard to be patient, but you are doing well.
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Jump to new posts Re: How long should you go dark? by Cadet @ 05/25/15 09:26 AM

Originally Posted By: gr8ful3 I'm interested in your statement, he is what I call a vanisher. Can you expand on that? In your opinion, what makes someone a vanisher? Just trying to understand. I think I read a post that was all about trying to get an
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: So scared, but ready... by NDY @ 05/25/15 09:25 AM

Originally Posted By: ralphyShe just came home, sweet as pie. Offered to make dinner. I declined. (I ate earlier without her). She offered me a cupcake. I declined. Went up to fold laundry and she comes up and starts folding my shirts. Unbelie
Midlife Crisis
Jump to new posts Re: Anxiously waiting for it to fall apart by beatrice @ 05/25/15 09:25 AM

Hi, I am not a therapist either, but even if there is a pre-existing pattern in a marriage, we are the experts in whether something has radically changed . I think what you are saying makes perfect sense - there was a pattern of being apart more tha
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: new member please help!!! by DifRent @ 05/25/15 09:23 AM

Hey depress... I'm new here, only three weeks since the bomb drop. There's been a pit in my stomach every morning, and a few days I just had to lay there in bed for a few hours because I didn't have the strength or the will to do anything at all. I s
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: We are over, now what? by Pyrite @ 05/25/15 09:22 AM

Originally Posted By: TuloBut I could be totally wrong and this is just him being "friends".. you could be, but hey - its nice to see someone happy on these boards - so DB or not, be happy congratulations on the race Tulo
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: Detachment we can do it! (Smothy 4) by Smothy @ 05/25/15 09:20 AM

Hi Pyrite, I do want to as I know I need to for my own sanity. He has moved on, so must I. I am the only one hurting here. And staying attached is hurting me. You words are so true. I need to have the courage to jump off the rollercoaster.
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: Crazy wife driving me mad by Cadet @ 05/25/15 09:16 AM

Wow that is a story. What do you think you need to work on?
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: In the UK -need help (pt3) by NDY @ 05/25/15 09:16 AM

Erm. Ok I do stand up for myself. I don't allow my WW to speak to me like I'm something she stepped on. Has it made a difference? Idk. Should I 'up the anti' as Sandi has described? Aye, if I want the police at my door. And guess who's being escorte
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: We are over, now what? by Tulo @ 05/25/15 09:15 AM

Hey guys!! I can hardly believe it, but I did it! And it went so much better than I thought. The track had 4 major hurdles in it, 1 pretty long and steep hill, 2 massive bridges and one looooong avenue with a steady climb and I just went trough th
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