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W You still owe 175$ for child support this month. Is that taken out of your check or do you send it in? Me It comes out of my check. I'm actually about 600 ahead. W When did it start coming out? Image Attachment Image Attachment Tablet time befo
So another week goes by and things are no better ...I would say things are no worse...I am starting to wonder just how long I can do this,for. I watch my W becoming more and more distant and feel there is nothing I can do to stop this from running i
So I didn't text her all day yesterday. In the early evening she texts me something about child support that she had to know the answer to. And then sends me a bunch of pictures of the kids. I just answered he question shortly, and then said th
Originally Posted By: darknes What does this mean to you? Right now it means that if I 'act as if', appear happy and content and by some miracle she comes back... THEN WHAT? We are both the same people we used to be. Originally Posted By: darknes
Hi Nygal I am so so happy to hear that things are heading in such a positive direction. There will be a lot of feelings coming up for both of you as you start to spend time together. They will be uncomfortable for sure... Fear, hurt, guilt
Don't be available the first evening she suggests or have something cone up and push it an hour or to the next evening. You have been patient and waited a long time for this. Don't come across as being too eager to meet.You have a good busy life goi
Really, really struggled this weekend and today. I don't understand why I keep flu using on him! I haven't seen him physically for a week but spoke to him through the door! Why am I giving him so much I importance. Why I thinking back about all the t
I echo Wonka. She's got a great response. And biy is she right, that it's time for you to speak up for yourself. Back in the day of vet DB'ers, it wasn't always STFU all the time. A big part of DBing is to say what you got to say when it's appropria
Tim, great to hear. No surprises at all. I'm delighted that you've been able to move on personally so quickly. Just think of where you were not 3 months ago. Wow. It's fantastic that you've gotten what you've wanted and S13 is doing so well. He's bl
JB I actually got that from a DB coach and a IC. I used to be of the school where i didnt know if i believed it, but after the interactions W and I have been having I firmly believe it. When we first got togehter it was based first on physical attr
Originally Posted By: otw I also do not intend to stay in that friend zone, but it is a very integral part of rebuilding a relationship. Hmm... I think I needed to hear that today... Thanks I'm not to that point yet, but down the road.
My retreat was AMAZING!!! I have never felt soo good after anything as much as with this. I prayed. I cried. I laughed and i was loved. It was so liberating to say here is my H ...he is your responsibility now god. Noe mine. I cannot save him only y
Yes! As part of my growing I never want my old marriage back. I see the things she did not like, i see things i did not like. It is almost crazy how clear things are now to me. As far as the friend zone I do get that, but i also feel you have to
OTW I appreciate your update. I have read through your sitch and see many similarities to mine. The spending, my behaviors towards my W, etc. It is a difficult pill to swallow as I take on a lot of the guilt for bringing my MR to where it is toda
Wow, good stuff. Reading your interactions confirms to me that my marriage as I knew it truly is dead. Now that doesn't mean we can't start a new relationship, or even a better one. I'm just concerned about falling into the friend zone. Not that I do
Anyone have good resources links on how to tell kids about a D? Maybe even pertaining to when both parents don't want the D. I'm starting to write down what I can about telling them so I'm not blindsided but this is tough. I can use any help possib
Originally Posted By: ShatterI am not going to DB this... I have faced reality. What does this mean to you? Originally Posted By: ShatterI loved her for what she is, flaws and all. She loved me as an image of the man that she could mold me into, a m
Hiya, HW. I follow your thread for I love your sense of humor and how you've handled the sitch magnificently. Regarding H's recent comments, I would have responded: "I'm sorry that you feel this way. This is your choice to set up your own do