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H told me yesterday he would never go back to our cabin until my mom dies. Real nice. There is the fact that my mom is very critical and was of anything H did when working on the cabin. So he said he won't go back until s3he is going because he g
Hi pimouse - I want to help you with your goal setting. I haven't read your whole thread, just this post - and I will help you refine your goals. I will repost your post, and then follow up with goal setting breakdown. After you refine your go
Today we went as a "family" to a school event. It was hard. I tried to be upbeat but I don't think I succeded. W brought her friend to act as a buffer, to make it more comfortable for her. So family time wasn't really family time. We
I would continue to post your GAL stuff. I wouldn't ask W this weekend ... If I were her I would think 'wow I just served him with D papers and he's offering to come by and bring stuff for me' I think it makes you look weak/she can walk all over you.
You can't balance it. He wants space & time but wants you to attend to his wants so that he doesn't feel neglected. He wants to have casual sex or affairs and have you on the side, all the while living at home and you taking care of him. Start
Well if you don't use the LRT now, when would you use it? I know you are scared right now, but do not allow your fear to take over. She is the one who needs to be wondering what she needs to do and say. My advice is to not initiate any talk at thi
Gan, Mozza...you'd be proud of me! I mentioned on my thread my I was offended by something my dad had said the other day at lunch about how stupid it was to have a life goal of "growing old with someone". Then he did something else that w
Guess who has a coffee date on Sunday? You guessed it, ME lol. I haven't approached any women lately but his one contacted me. D18 says "It's good that she contacted you...considering the wackos you've been contacting lately!" Uh thanks, I
Thank you Toots and Caliguy. I appreciate your support. OK, one more funny story from s13's baseball game yesterday. When I arrived at the game s13's team was batting and s13 was on 1st base. S13 ended up scoring, and I asked W (after she was off h
Will attempt to call her tomorrow but if no answer, would appreciate your thoughts on this email. Thank you guys. ------------------- W, We have been apart for over 10months now, and as you know I truly want this marriage to work and would love if
Originally Posted By: Matt777D6 just said to me "it's nice to be back home...where I belong" as I was tucking her into bed. I wish so much that I could protect her from what's coming. You are doing a whole lot on that front. She wouldn'
What do I say? What do I do? I don't think I'll see her tonight. I don't know if she'll go home - I doubt back to our hotel room. Do I go home? Do I stay at the hotel? The funny thing is - nothing is much different than where we were before. Ju
He may not know that you know the whole interaction w/ friend, he may just be looking for some way to engage w/ you over son, he may be trying to provoke a reaction, he may have hopes w/ friend and testing the waters to see if you have any concerns t
Another busy week at work, I am shattered. Next week my new schedule starts, more work in the same amount of time - these schedules have clearly been made up by someone who has never done my job!! My supervisor told me I am the best cleaner she has
Nice GAL lately Defacto, keep up the great work. I'm not sure about trying to meetup with W and her friends on beach either, seems like too much pursuit. I would say keep doing what your doing and see how W's actions progress. Keep up with the g
Originally Posted By: HaWhoHe has said he wants time and space but if he also feels neglected how do I balance this? Give him the SPACE and Time that he wants. I have merged your two threads - stick to one until 100 posts please.
You've hung in there this long and been through the ringer. I can't imagine that you would be gain closure by walking away before you've made the effort. And, it's not like you are going to jump into a new R where you get those needs met. Maybe th
Originally Posted By: BW05Thanks for sharing, Bob. Always so thoughtful! I hope you are doing well! ------------------------------------------------------ I read somewhere that someone going through a sitch like this on here, put a rubberband on th
Previous Thread: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2575451#Post2575451 Time for a new thread. Not much update for me. I'm still looking for a job, resumes being put in all the time, I'm taking calls from