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Can I just repeat my thanks for you keeping checking in on me. The advice is gratefully received. Strangely I'm OK empathising with my kids. I was talking to my mate about the empathy thing and his description was 'you do have empathy, your just rub
Okay, just don't do what I did -- I saw The Best of Me at the movies tonight. Drove home SOBBING. LOL Oh my god, it was right in the feels. I don't know why I was so stupid as to go see a romantic, sappy movie in the midst of my sitch, but I'm such
Thanks Sandi, I knew thats what you where saying. It's still disappointing as a co-parent. Like tonight I got a text from the wife saying how she hates having a empty house and really misses the kids and the noise. And to tell them that she love
It was a warm October night. The last of the summer crickets were singing their final notes before the long winter silence. In the orange of the Halloween porch lanterns she sits, laptop aglow, a glass of wine nearby, thoughts coming and going, conte
An amazing post from Sandi2 that gives great insights into the mind of a WAS: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2501272#Post2501272 Rethinking friendly strategy now.
Hey Card, feel better! Yuck! I say don't worry too much about the dating question at this point. Just go mysterious and if it ever comes up again use Maybell's line, that is perfect. It is basically what I said to my WAH when he asked if I was datin
Well she admitted she introduced a third person into the marriage and she's sorry. First of all you have you forgive her and tell that you do. You can also admit that you were a bad husband but you need to back that up with examples and then follow
Dawgy, you have to cut her loose from your life. I know it's hard to do and seems so counterintuitive. But believe me, it will give you a different perspective. You have to stop focusing on her. Focus on yourself. Work on improving yourself. Like Sta
She also has outwardly encouraged me to date on a couple of occasions. I wonder if she is trying to remove some of the blame of the S from herself and put it on me? At BD, she asked "do you want me to move out?" A few days later she told me
Quote:Sandi I don't think your telling me to explode on her are you? Heavens no. When I said turn it loose, I wasn't referring to your temper. I just meant to let go of how you can't do anything about her poor parenting, and let go of the agri
Mighty, You're gonna have one he!! of a book after all this! I know I'd read it :-) I'm glad you are getting a weekend away. I hope it's relaxing and rejuvenating and everything you and the kids need. It's obvious to me that you are going to be ju
Awesome post Sandi, and I wish I'd seen it about an hour ago. So the nausea I felt this morning that I thought was anxiety about WAS? Food poisoning. Been in bed since noon. WAW graciously brought a great anti-nausea pill over about 1/2 hour ago. I d
Ok, so a couple of things, I realize I cannot trust him financially. I *may* end up getting less by fighting him because I will, for sure, have to use up some of my savings to fight it. I do have a lawyer in PA and have hesitated to hire one in CA
I can name one incident. He has been increasingly unhappy over the past three years. His parents have recently gotten very ill. The prostate cancer was the tipping point. I found this quote on his iPad So many people live within unhappy circumst
I guess I should clarify that I'm not really trying to "reel her in" on household/family tasks. That's on her, and I've done really well at having no expectations of her and thus little resentment in that area. It's more the cake eating asp