The general tones of her emails are either: "I wish you could understand how much damage your actions (referring to June) have caused," "I hate your family and think you do whatever they say," or "you need to move out."
Originally Posted By: shodanWe both work and have shared bank acct and one shared Amex card. Never been an issue until now. We make an equal amount of money. However she is now squandering marital (family) assets on her affair. Girls' weekend, c
Thank you all. You are all exactly right. Sorry for the meltdowns. Labug, I've been reading your old threads. Because it makes me laugh, I'm going to take one of your lines as one of my mantras: Generalissimo Francisco Franco is still dead! And r
Thanks KML and Wonka. I don't know what my problem is. Too much guilt. I think it has a lot to do with my anxiety issues. Since D will be with her daddy tonight and I have a doctor appointment, I dropped the dog off at J's house this morning. OW ans
Thanks Mish! This will be no mansion for sure. The Lily Pad is only 440 sq feet! The other 2 are 638 yet the Lily Pad bathroom is quite large. I believe it used to be a bedroom & used oly as a sleeping cabin. Yesterday Ashley noticed the attic op
Journaling: Woke up panicked and sad today, as per usual, but sat with it for a bit and it did start to dissipate. I asked myself some questions about what I want from life and who I want to be with, which helped to clarify some things. I also remi
Thank you MLC . We coincide once again . I too use my truck to have my breakdowns . But Im ok with it because it is a safe place and alone . I will even have full on conversations with myself trying to counsel me . Strange ? maybe , but it seems to h
sooo W wants to move in with her parents because she cant afford the house, wants to get her stuff and either I take the rest or she will throw it all away, seems like she wants to erase the last 15 years. She wants to rent the house out because its
I agree with all of what you say labug. Now I have to somehow be strong enough to make that happen. A lawyer did tell me don't move out. I'm getting better at not fighting back. I realize now that there are no points to make when she's mad. As far
We both work and have shared bank acct and one shared Amex card. Never been an issue until now. We make an equal amount of money. Another question.... I bet she comes home this weekend and asks for a separation. She won't admit to the A but will sa
Oh and the boss did the same exact thing to his first wife. He cheated and left her and his 2 young daughters, I actually believe they were the boys ages, for a 20 year old he met at a strip club lol. He is now married to her. So in this family this
Ken, Quote: his words are said to extract himself while trying not to hurt your feelings, and to throw you a bone because after 2 years you're obviously still hurt and desperate, and try to get you to move on already <-- all typical guy behavior.
It's OK, no judgment. Take a moment or more, to realize what's happening, then reset. Am I right in thinking that once you have a goal, you're laser-focused on reaching it? If so, was that a problem in the marriage? Take time to experience what'
It's OK no judgment. Take a moment or more, to realize what's happening, then reset. Am I right in thinking that once you have a goal, you're laser-focused on reaching it? If so, was that a problem in the marriage? Take time to experience what's
Maybell - you've gotten excited (which is totally normal and natural) and I suspect you're trying to lock in the changes that you've seen and maybe try to move them along faster. Consider how long you've been at this and how frustrating it's been
I don't want to tolerate the way he talks to me when he texts me. I have posted our conversations here lately. So maybe I should just say something along the lines of H we can have this discussion when you are in a better frame of mind' I don't kn
Originally Posted By: Joe1981Great points! I've been trying to down that road too. 300 to 260 since May. I like your point of just always remaining calm. Anyone have advice on how to deal w/ constant attacking emails. I try to be understanding and
Thank you Matt. :-) That was really a lovely post of encouragement. I'm not allowing the wallow bug to get me today! Not happening. I'm feeling hope and I'm choosing to remain in that feeling. God stirs things up so we reach our potential, our pur