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Re: WAW / ILUBINILWY / CONFUSED! (Thread III) by Fartiltre @ 06/13/13 11:53 AM

MORE TO ADD ON W CHANGING I have talked to W on the phone twice today and she is talking a lot - still only about children's, job and day-to-day stuff. She sounds upbeat and happy as usual but with a twist. She seems more sincere in some odd way. I

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Re: still trying to save (..not broken, just bent..)p2 by labug @ 06/13/13 11:51 AM

"1. I don’t think that she is being completely forthcoming about why the adoption needs to be resolved now and the new sense of urgency 2. when she asks about it, what I hear (which may or may not be what she intends) is her blaming and being fr

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Re: Not sure what to do by Kaffe Diem @ 06/13/13 11:48 AM

For some reason, I didn't realize your H also worked in the restaurant / hospitality industry, as well. One can talk all they want about open communication and transparency and HAVE all that, yet still feel distrusting. Without going too much into

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Re: On and On...she just keeps on trying by kate's_place @ 06/13/13 11:43 AM

I know that not responding to texts will be seen as hostile, but I will not be initiating or replying with more than I need to. Also will be busy.. A lot.

Midlife Crisis

Re: Still Struggling and need help #4 by TSquared2 @ 06/13/13 11:33 AM

Hi CB, I am glad the vacation went okay, and they do vacillate, my W has seemed pre-/post- BD so many times I gave up counting, so just accept it as it is and deal with how she is at the moment, while keeping your over-all game plan firmly in mind.

Midlife Crisis

Re: Let my love open the door... by wishing, hoping @ 06/13/13 11:30 AM

I can't believe they sat together in front of your entire company. Weird. Doesn't that make him feel uncomfortable? I would think he would want to fall through the floor. You go girl. Good hair days for all LBS and the OW's can all go fly a kite! H

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Re: My WAW story by woundedfool @ 06/13/13 11:30 AM

Originally Posted By: JRGI've been seeing a counselor but I decided to stop because I don't believe this particular counselor was a good one for me. I haven't decided if I'm going to search out another one. I would encourage you not to give up.

Surviving the Big D

Re: What are you getting/looking for in dates - Part 2 by Underdog @ 06/13/13 11:28 AM

BA, Personally, if she's seeing someone she should hide her profile. I did when I started seeing Mr. Sweet Stuff. I just don't want to answer men when I'm honestly shutting it down for the time being. I don't know how I'd answer her back. I'd proba

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Re: Husband has one foot out the door! by labug @ 06/13/13 11:26 AM

I've been reading your thread off and on and just want to say, you're doing a lot of mind-reading and fortune telling. Operate on facts, your H is still in the house. He is currently living with you. You have no idea what will happen in the fall, yo

Midlife Crisis

Re: Won't be fooled again!!! by wishing, hoping @ 06/13/13 11:25 AM

Morning folks - Another day in DB land. The sun is shining and it's absolutely beautiful outside. I don't know why, but I am feeling good today. Really good. Like I said, I don't know why, but I am going with it. : ) I was asking D about her day at

Midlife Crisis

Re: Still Struggling and need help #4 by reachingHigher @ 06/13/13 11:21 AM

CB, I'm glad to hear what's been going on, even tho it's still a struggle. It's so good you had a good vacation. I know the felt need to know what is going on. It seems so unfair to be in the dark all of the time. Coming back from vacation alwa

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Re: On and On...she just keeps on trying by labug @ 06/13/13 11:14 AM

When I read your response to Subguy about the children, I thought you'd been reading my journal. I posted on my thread a few weeks ago that when left to their own devices, people often become just more of who they are when freed of controlling force

Divorced, But Not Done

Re: Divorce FINAL, Where to go from here! by jaytee35 @ 06/13/13 11:12 AM

She already re blocked me

THE SEX-STARVED MARRIAGE

Re: Success stories of SSM by ssmguy @ 06/13/13 11:12 AM

Yes, but she found the therapy experience very stressful and quit about halfway through. You have to want to go to therapy and you have "to want to want" to have sex. I know a lot of people would tell me that I need to put my foot down and blah bla

Divorced, But Not Done

Re: Divorce FINAL, Where to go from here! by jaytee35 @ 06/13/13 11:11 AM

Well looks like I was thinking to far into it. Turns out verizon just keeps numbers blocked for 3 months and then you have to go in and re block it.

Midlife Crisis

Re: Not confused...looking inward by TSquared2 @ 06/13/13 11:02 AM

Hi B, It does take time, so please be kind to yourself. I never would have thought I would/could make it this long, but here I am. This touched me: Quote:Something I will always cherish as I will forever have a part of him in my life through them.

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Re: Husband has one foot out the door! by Highway61 @ 06/13/13 10:56 AM

Originally Posted By: mizjjd You're doing good HWY. But, I sense you have an attitude of "waiting", and that can be dangerous. Sort of like you're holding your breath, or walking on eggshells, hoping this will make him stay. That's ok in

Divorced, But Not Done

Re: Divorce FINAL, Where to go from here! by Kaffe Diem @ 06/13/13 10:50 AM

Yeah, that was a backslide to text her. Just respond with, "no, nothing." and let it go. Your intention as you stated it, was to see if she still had you blocked. You got your answer that you are not blocked. Just keep moving forward wi

Surviving the Big D

Re: What are you getting/looking for in dates - Part 2 by whatisis @ 06/13/13 10:50 AM

Pass! hey, but at least she's upfront.

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Re: Husband has one foot out the door! by Highway61 @ 06/13/13 10:47 AM

You are right mizjjd.. either way I am going to be hurt. Right now I am hurting, and if he leaves I will be hurting. I kind of have the feeling that if he leaves, I will hurt and then at least be able to move on with my life. In my situation, where

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Re: Dont know what to do... by Kaffe Diem @ 06/13/13 10:44 AM

Sounds good with your plans, Cianna. Your GAL and 180s sounds great. Also, this is certainly a time to read and follow Sandi2's list of "rules". While you are best to remain pleasant as possible with any interaction with your H and do yo

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Re: (NA) Re: My Story -- Heart Hurting by Hurt But Hopeful @ 06/13/13 10:35 AM

Have looked into doing some volunteer work in our area ... it would be a 180 for me as one of my main problems (and she's brought this up a couple of times but never really nagged about it) is putting others before myself. It's not in an arrogant fas

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How do save my 30 year marriage.....HELP by lost70 @ 06/13/13 10:35 AM

I don’t know where to start, never thought I could feel so bad. I am certain my wife of 30 years is having a relationship with a friend from her youth. I can only check phone records which show me she calls him often and sometimes several time in o

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Re: On and On...she just keeps on trying by kate's_place @ 06/13/13 10:16 AM

That's exactly it Linda...the expectations do creep in. The expectation of " if I feel like this, then you should too". And me, the biggest proponent of" you can only control self...lol" I constantly seem to be on his schedule th

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Re: plainly confused by paulmav2013 @ 06/13/13 10:10 AM

it's been a while since I posted. I know there is the OM as I have been snooping and it's been a while. When she is home she acts normal. She has found new employement and will be leaving in August her current position where the OM works. She als

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