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Hi dxw, So sorry you are here. At Tiger said, read Cadet's information - it will help. And get DR. You will find a lot of support from the people here. We know how you're feeling right now - we've all been there. We know that with the knowledge
WR, I would add that it is time for you to use what I call "Spock-talk" with your H in those negotiations. Just the state the facts and stick with them. Normally it's best to avoid using "I" since H is one of those Jekyll/Hyde
Quote:It did really strike me as odd, how at BD and in the first week or so afterwards he wanted to tell me EVERYTHING. I know WAY more about the OW than is reasonable or sane. Why do they do this? I know way more about her than I bet she does about
Well I feel like I am drifting around in the horse latitudes. There has been a whole lot of nothing going on. I am a little confused about where to go from here on this forum. Since neither one of us has officially left our house we are just going on
Originally Posted By: 3boyzmomI agree with 2TH that your list is not sad. It truly is the little things that matter. After BD, I have found that it is the little things that I miss about my H. The tiny things that I took for granted with H. So I
help... not sure what to do. exW and I were talking on the phone about something her attorney screwed up.... she starts breaking down and crying. I had our child call her later to perk her up, and it helped. she sent me a text this morning, t
Within the first few weeks of our break up while still in the stage where I was begging & pleading I had suggested to my wife that we went out together with our son & she said quite sternly "We are not going on any family days out".
She didn't answer. I'm tired of phone tag. Tempted to go NC. And really do it this time. If there is OM and it's a confession and to tell me it's over then well... She already said she wanted a divorce.
Thanks sandi. Great post sm34. Your right I don't want the w I have right now, I kind of want the one I had 6 months ago. We had problems but I was content, the way I feel right now, content would be welcomed. I'm still cycling through my emotions,
Originally Posted By: suckerpunch I feel I have made some really good gains in my personal growth, and I will continue to work on myself. Life is seemingly moving forward, but it still feels somewhat empty on the inside. I laugh. I enjoy time with fr
I know, my Mom was always terrible for that too. Everyone else has to walk her talk, but not her. And today here I am doing it. At least I realize I am doing it! My H is at home today, so it's not so easy. Mostly he has given me the opportunity to
WR, Your response was okay until you said "if you can be fair". That will set off his hot button. He thinks he's being fair and to him it sounds like you don't trust him (I know you don't). Let's see how he responds. Of course that hot
No Rosa, my job decision I'm contemplating will bring much less stress and much more time with my boys. That's the only reason it's weighing so heavily on me. I know it's the right thing for my family, but it will cost me over 6k a year and put more
I had the same issue Rosa had... is it the NEW opportunity that would take you away from the family more? If so, perhaps now isn't the best time. Maybe the old JFun would have thought the money and the opportunity was a big priority. But I think th
So - I read his email as saying "I agreed to a price on the house, but you haven't refinanced and gotten me my money yet, when is that going to happen and can't we save money by keeping the court out of it?" I suppose your answer depends o
2Times, I am glad your H managed to realize for himself that the communication issue was HIS problem to resolve, not yours. I do think staying dim will continue to help you. Let him initiate most of the contact (I am doing terrible at this myself
Nicole, Thank you for your post. You have no Idea how this has helped me today! Originally Posted By: NeedingMoreYour posts gave me strength knowing that I am not alone, but also that there are men out there like you!!!! Keep going! Don't give up
Originally Posted By: Groovshadow Need advise on DB'ing now. She wants divorce, she was prepared in her thinking of the finances and such. I don't want this divorce! What do I do here? Only one spouse is needed for D. You can't stop it. You can m