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Another update in the soap opera that is my life it seems these days: Had a funeral for a young child, my cousin's three year old who battled cancer. It was a big wake up call for myself when he passed, as I realized what was important. My W was a
Ugh...As I was typing that last post, I received a frustrating text from my H. He told D7 that he would come to her school for lunch last Friday, but he forgot. When I mentioned their lunch plans in a phone conversation, he seemed really frustrated
Thanks for that, Starsky. Nothing new to report here. Things are (strangely) quite calm and - dare I say? - boring here. H and his parents picked up the kids yesterday morning. It was H's birthday, so before they left (but after he had been her
Thank you Cadet. Your advise is perfect! I am a CPA and tax deadline day is tomorrow, so I wont have much time to dwell on my sitch until then. I'll learn how to add the signature info at the bottom of my posts, then too. Crappy time of year for m
Originally Posted By: gogofoThe "I'm ready to come home" I am confident meant that she is ready to be back in her home, not move back in with me. What I find interesting is in the past spending 4 days in Chicago would not have been enough.
Had a great weekend, enjoying a Cubs game in St. Louis. Too bad my Cubs lost. Hopefully we are turning the corner. On Saturday night went out with some friends and felt like I was a divorce busting coach. Unfortunately some friends have been go
Sorry folks for the hijack as I feel compelled to address Ye's post to me as it is riddled with faulty assumptions. You misread or misinterpreted my post completely. I would say, "W, is there anything you need to tell me?" while you sh
I've been rereading DR more slowly and studying it carefully. I think the first time I read it, I was so distraught and looking for something to work--quickly--that I didn't slow down and follow all the steps. Last night, I actually wrote out my go
Originally Posted By: KGirlYes, I hear that. I'm definitely afraid of the unknown, especially an unknown that I have ZERO effect on. So, what do I do with that? Do I challenge myself to sit in the uncertainty and live with it on a daily basis? Or d
Thanks Forever. To hear her say she read something I wrote but then describe me saying things I've never even thought, let alone would write and instead of saying something to me just got angry and stayed that way for months really upset me. Here I
Thank you for your response. I will keep posts more brief. (Also "GAL"?) Update on current concerns. Had 1st counseling session last week.(H insisted upon picking it for "us"... picked a more $$$ therapist bc she does hypnotherapy
Thanks Melissa, You seem to be the voice of reality! I know what you are saying is true, just not quite sure how to do some of it. I guess it comes with time. I'm trying to accept where H is now, I just don't want to accept this is where he'll st
I echo adinva. Please don't compare yourself to OW. You are you who are and she is who she is. Everyone is a different size, shape, have had different adventures. You guys might be different , but she is no better than you. Ask anyone, confidenc
We have a house to run and kids to take care of. The sooner you start to think that there is no "we" at this moment, the sooner you will recover and maybe one day be able to talk to her about this issues. Making those things harder by not
I just returned from a spell with my H's family, and I chafe against these situations where I'm expected to act like nothing's happened, everyone acts like nothing's happened. I say, recognize that it's tough on you, get through it, and then take ext
Yes, I have been stuck in NY for too long, its time for myself, I believe many of the changes I experienced but I could not put them together due to always being havig the fear of not having enough money...this os my moment, time for a bike trip to n
My wife says that I always put my needs before hers. She felt as if she was always "2nd". She has built up resentment for years, and it was all unbeknownst to me. I was also drinking more than she wanted me to, but have since quite entire
As I said, let her go. If she moves back to the house, hopefully there's a separate entrance to the basement. And while this might be best for your family financially, your family's emotional health isn't the concern of your "team." How
"When I first came to the board, there was a lot of talk about the nice guy syndrome, but it is not quite correct. I suppose epends on what you describe as a nice guy. Sometimes, that guy just doesn't stand up for himself or speak out when he sh
Just an observation.... Originally Posted By: mmThe stuff I want to talk/share about are the behaviours of my past and how they have affected who I am today and my reasonings. You say that you want to talk/share about YOUR past and YOUR behaviors...