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2T2M, Yes,it sure does seem we are in the same club! My H had stopped talking to his EA for a month or so, but just got back into contact with her 2 days ago. Because he found out I was seeing someone else. I think?? My H likes to play the fight, n
Just catching up on your sitch, MH. Sorry you find yourself here. Looks like you've been getting some good advice, though. A couple of things jumped out at me. First, whether to tell the kids. Is it possible for you to talk to a child psycholog
You'll get there. Appreciate the good days because the bad ones can take over you sometimes. You'll bounce back faster and faster over time. Feel the feelings so you don't find yourself with your head in the sand. You're the prize. Work on you.
Job, yes, the book definitely describes so many situations here. I spent so much time trying to understand my xh that I delayed really grasping what happened to me. Thank you for asking about my dad. He's doing great. He has planned trips to London
I just find it so hard not finding it humiliating. These are friends of ours. Friends of my family etc. How could he not warn me? How could he have no respect for the mother of his children, for his children??? Ok I'm getting myself mad now......
Oh ya. I heard all the same too..basically our 15 yr marriage has been 80 % bad 20 good. H wasn't resentful for the affair but felt sorry for me.wth! It is so strange how they all seem to say the same things. I think maybe women do too? Since this
CC, I'm sorry about what your h has been doing. Yeah, he's sick alright and his ow can take care of him if he's ill. You are the prize and don't let anyone tell you differently. You've been doing great and I wouldn't allow this little bit of news
I'm sorry we're all going through this similar situation. I guess i'm lucky in a way that mine got the papers so fast. He BD on Jan 6th and had the papers soon after. I saw he had them, he was afraid to give them to me or something. I saw them sittin
Looks like the affair is heating up nicely. They've been to a friends party together or at least they've been pictured together. With a lot of our mutual friends there. I don't know what people know and don't know but it hurt. Stung. I'm trying not
So, I have been continuing to work on myself and to grow the relationship with my daughters. My interactions with my daughters has greatly improved over the last few weeks. Yesterday I had dinner with all three daughters and my oldest opened up to me
Hey Gang! Here's the update on what happened to my grandmother. One day, she and her younger sister went out for dinner together. As they finished up dinner and were walking toward the SUV, my grandmother was carrying a doggie bag in her left hand
Originally Posted By: trying very hardI struggled for the remainder of this week post meeting with W. Seeing her brought back some of the feelings that had faded over the last month. We spoke on Thursday about weekend plans with the kids and she adde
tonight I emailed again to ask for my car key and the check for the utilities he owes me. he responded that he was looking for a remote to his cd player. I found it and responded asking him when he wanted to make the exchange. he said tomorrow (monda
BG. I've cried during the middle of the night the past 3 nights. The anger and hurt that came out needed to. I woke up happy. while in tears I pictured my pain bubbling up out of me like the heated vents at Yellowstone might do....Not the Geysers
Georgiabelle, I can relate, I was doing fine all week (he moved out last Saturday) and today I cried for no reason at all. Well I have reason but have been trying to keep busy and stay positive. Then it just hits you. I felt the same way - we had a
It's okay. No 2x4's from me. You are going to have ups and downs for quite some time. Feel the pain, allow it to wash over you and then release it. None of us thought we would be here, but you have to remember...your marriage isn't the problem.
Originally Posted By: melissagIt's interesting, because up until the point where I filed for S, I wasn't done at all. It's his behavior, now that things aren't going his way, that makes me realize he is not what I want in a partner. And maybe the
MH you still have your W in the house with you and so, you have time and opportunity to "show" what you are about and what you are interested in. Show her who you are and further more, becomes someone you enjoy being. and...don't do it be
I hate being in a funk. I thought I was doing well but I started crying at the airport. I know. Crack out the 2x4s but my mind is racing with how will I feel this Christmas? Last year it was right after BD. Oh and my birthday is in December. I know
Quote:He does not want to provide a financial disclosure. Huge red flag here. It's a standard part of divorce - you disclose all your assets, he discloses all of his - otherwise how can you come up with a fair division? The only reason I can thin
Hi Pud. Like you my sitch was stagnant for some time, but like you it seems I am now on my way to Dville. Came across H's facebook page which he finally did something with after years of nothing and there she was ... the OW he said he had ended it
I have been spending some time reviewing old threads. It seems as though each of you have your own opinion. Not ONE Same group opinion as implied. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Advice from Job: What he is saying and doing right now is mass confusion and yo
Yesterday we had S11 birthday party for his classmates and it went great I left early with the children and at Ws house we changed to her car. She got the new one when we split and it's better for 5 people. Smalltalk on the way there, on the way h