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Hi Maddy - my H ran all around town for months. His ETA back home was about 2AM. So I know your pain. He is looking at you as an authority figure to whom he does not want to answer. How can you detach from this and remove yourself as his author
EyeTie, I feel very similar about my W even though I'm still praying for her to figure out who she is and work through her problems. I see some things that show me shd might be on the right path back to finding herself but still alot to do. I also
Hi AJ, Thanks for the response. I'm confused about something you said, the part about taking the keeping peace and everything else off the plate and letting chips fall where they may changing the dynamic. Could you elaborate on that a bit for me?
Is there ANY chance your first husband would take you back. Be honest, he wasn't really abusive (no offense, but wayward spouses always justify and rationalize their infidelity by recharacterizing their former imperfect but OK marriages as "ab
Well, I asked W if she wanted to go eat with the boys and me ad a kinda late bday lunch. She said no, and then told me that the lawyer had drawn up the divorce papers and she will give them to me tomorrow. Said she had heard lots of rumors. I to
Hi Cherry, good to hear from you and sorry to hear things aren't going well. I agree with everyone else in this thread and youe other about MC. He's here and wants the M to work but you both seem to be trying to wing it back on your own without any
Hi AJ - thanks for taking the time to help me through this bump. I agree, that MLCers hit hard at our most vulnerable points. My H definitely does this. I know I need to forgive. I do understand it is the right thing to do and that it will bene
Hi Cherry, I'm sorry to hear that. Did you guys ever go to MC when you were trying to piece after his A? If you didn't - might that be an option now to try and get things back on track? I can understand your fear and your tiredness, but also it does
STBXH's selfishness hasn't ceased to amaze me lately. I believe my eyes are truly open now and I am learning how to be stronger when dealing with him. I just dropped off S4 at his parent's house (where he is living) exactly at the time I said I wou
When my twin and I were going to get infinity symbols with each other's birth time I learned a trick. Draw what you want with a sharpie marker/pen and spray it with hairspray. It will stay for weeks. I decided I really liked the tattoo and the placem
Julie - I just wanted to offer my support again. You are doing the right thing by you and your children. You are an amazing mother for putting them first. I agree with Rouky, H is not like the new confident, strong, woman you are becoming but we do
Not too harsh Raliced. I can take it. Just to clarify something.... He is not living with the OW. She is still living with her boyfriend/baby daddy of child #2. No one knows that my H is most likely her baby daddy #3 except for her mother. The situa
Thank you PigPen. There are days when I do feel bad for her. I know she is struggling to find her place and is unsure of her future. I know that the life she has is not the one she visioned when she left. I know that she regrets her decision (alt
Sandi, Just to clarify - the OM is in Chicago, so she's hours away. They met up once in Chicago. My wife let me know that my contact of OM, leaving a message, and talking with his STBXW made a change in their D, which I was glad to see, as OM seem
I also need to mention... as life settles... I'm more able to see where I need to get my own shid together. -I begged him to stop drinking/using drugs. -He begged me to stop being irresponsible with money (earning, managing, spending). Stalemate...
Nevermind. I'm good. Had a cup of coffee. Reached out. Journalled. I'm good. Just Matt doing his Matt Thang. It's the holidays after all! What would the holidays be without Matt telling me he missed hearing my voice!! Maybe I should do some voice
So almost 12 months to the last time he did this. I think I'm on route to bring back here. Dh has been miserable about maybe the past month.. He's working real hard to try and get a promotion and his employer is making him jump through hoops... He'
Things were peaceful mostly because I stopped paying attention to where he was going, what he was doing even though he would stay out past midnight. Unfortunately I slipped and asked him a few questions,i asked him if he was going into the office on
Rouky your words mean alot. My IC has mentioned it takes 2 and that I should be looking out for myself at this point because there is nothing to do towards WW. They must figure it out by themselves. I can put that in to my mind easily but I still fee