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Midlife Crisis
Jump to new posts Re: we own a business - pt 9 ... its about me! by Kaffe Diem @ 05/21/13 01:59 AM

Holiday Monday? Ok, so sounds like you are Canadian and if so, would fall under Canadian labour and business law (obviously). I am not a L, but I can tell you that if your partner were to somehow suggest that you are not a business partner, then yo
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Jump to new posts Re: 11 month, still here… by Kaffe Diem @ 05/21/13 12:05 AM

BF, do you recognize a difference between the phrases "moving on" and "moving forward"?
Midlife Crisis
Jump to new posts Re: Behind Blue Eyes... by wishing, hoping @ 05/20/13 11:41 PM

Hello all Lovely day with my kiddos today. Dropped off S at soccer, picked up D and took her home for a snack and then I let her play at the park where S had practice. Afterward back home for leftover pizza and a nice day of spending time outside so
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Yes!!! ^^^^^^^^^^^^^ I agree 100%!!! Hope to make it there some day. You're story has given me so much strength. Knowing how strong you are & where you've been lets me know that it can be done & I'll be there some day. With or without WAS w
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Jump to new posts Re: Letting Go & Moving Forward 2 by littleGTO @ 05/20/13 11:30 PM

Thanks, labug, for your empathy. The past couple of nights I've reverted back to being sad at bedtime. Just sad for the whole situation. Self pity, I know. But, also sad for my family-the boys. Yesterday I called H in the middle of the day (the
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Jump to new posts Re: Letting Go & Moving Forward 2 by littleGTO @ 05/20/13 11:29 PM

Thanks, labug, for your empathy. The past couple of nights I've reverted back to being sad at bedtime. Just sad for the whole situation. Self pity, I know. But, also sad for my family-the boys. Yesterday I called H in the middle of the day (the
Midlife Crisis
Of course, you're hurt, T. Its hurtful stuff. And I hear you on the blah, blah, blah. It does get old, doesnt it? I know some days you just want to say, listen as$wipe, are you in or are you out, cuz I have a life to live here. LOL! But the thing
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Jump to new posts Re: Still...mana mana, doo doo doo doo doo! Part 3 by littleGTO @ 05/20/13 11:13 PM

Wow, wow, and wow...that's all I can think to say. Wow! It is interesting how the tide has turned...exactly like they "prep" us here. Once YOU (the LBS) let completely go, the WAS wants you back. ONly you aren't sure you want him back a
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Jump to new posts Re: Wife is having an emotional affair by Alan A. @ 05/20/13 11:01 PM

I've filled out and printed the D paperwork. My parents said they could help me pay my portion. I think the only reason she would need to pay anything is if she wants to file a "response" which is what they call it if you want to argue abou
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Jump to new posts 38 weeks pregnant & husband walked out by bab @ 05/20/13 10:59 PM

Hi there, I'm a newbie and after a week of searching came across this site which looks like it might be just the support I need right now. I'll try to be brief with my story. Hubby and I met through a church youth group at 17. We were together for
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cbt, AS and SA, thanks for the replys. I briefly asked W yesterday what she planned on taking and she didnt really say much. We didnt have much time though. I do hope to nail down what she is taking fairly soon. I think that I have made up my mi
Surviving the Big D
Jump to new posts Re: What are you getting/looking for in dates? by heartbrokeinsd @ 05/20/13 10:58 PM

lmao at whatisis!!!! thats funny stuff. yes, women seem to like the daily contact. however, if you text a woman "good morning"or whatever and dont get a response, leave it.. blowing up their phone is very clingy. its kind of like when you w
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Jump to new posts Re: Is this cake eating 13 by BklynMom @ 05/20/13 10:56 PM

You will get there. Remember all that you have to be grateful for.
Midlife Crisis
Jump to new posts Re: we own a business - pt 9 ... its about me! by PowerOfNow @ 05/20/13 10:50 PM

You are doing fine . Sometimes when you distance they get cold and ugly because your disrupting there pattern or fix for pursuit. Read solo partner chapters 8 and 9. Goes well with DB
Piecing Our Marriage Back Together Again
Jump to new posts Re: Continuing The Positive Changes by PowerOfNow @ 05/20/13 10:46 PM

Yes you had but my head is much clearer now. I'm glad you posted this. My W is not a talker at all. She has a boatload of other crap in her sandbox that frankly needs fixing but I gave up in that months ago. I was just thinking how I could start to
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Jump to new posts Re: Unlearning conflict avoidance 4 by StubbornDyke @ 05/20/13 10:45 PM

LOL. Yes, a cool accent, but not a strong one.
Midlife Crisis
Jump to new posts Re: "Two strangers learn to fall in love again" by ForeverYoung @ 05/20/13 10:45 PM

Originally Posted By: RaineI thought you were showing rH just how far she needed to dig to find patience. Thankfully uR never told me I had to dig that deep. I'm afraid there would've been one awfully lonely patience shovel at the bottom of th
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Jump to new posts Re: Change is upon us by hopefulinga @ 05/20/13 10:42 PM

Thanks, 2chiquitos. I am attending AlAnon. I wasn't able to go today because of work. I have to say the serenity prayer quite a bit some days. I don't have a sponsor, but would like to look into getting one. I called the mediator today and asked
Midlife Crisis
Jump to new posts Re: Crazy little thing called MLC by Takevowsserious @ 05/20/13 10:42 PM

Hi Raine ~ Just wanted to say hello and let you know that I get where you're coming from, understand what you're feeling. Wish I had some great words of wisdom or something, but it's not happening tonight... Thinking of you and hoping for some clar
Midlife Crisis
Jump to new posts Re: Affair forecast:stormy with a chance of a break-up by Takevowsserious @ 05/20/13 10:39 PM

Thanks kml, I will look into the info you gave me. rH ~ I think eventually they have to face what they have done, or they stay stuck. Now, don't get me wrong, I'm not expecting an apology anytime soon! But if we are to R in the future, I am going to
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Jump to new posts Re: Unlearning conflict avoidance 4 by gabbysmom23 @ 05/20/13 10:35 PM

I've got to ask..... Does he have a cool accent?
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Jump to new posts Re: Me 7 months on by stilllookingup @ 05/20/13 10:29 PM

Oh I am so sorry you are feeling defeated today. You have to remember though you are not. I think I had a day like you are having today yesterday. Today I'm feeling little better, but who knows when ill have a day like yesterday. Sometimes I just w
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Jump to new posts Re: Me 7 months on by GALbaby @ 05/20/13 10:24 PM

It sure does svck when life throws these curve balls at you. Not a nice thing for your flatmate to do. Ordinarily, it would most likely be something that didn't bother you too much, but you are dealing with one of life's most stressful events and a
Midlife Crisis
Jump to new posts Re: I still like blue, what else? by ForeverYoung @ 05/20/13 10:23 PM

Hi Dawn! Originally Posted By: DmarieI keep saying to myself, we teach people how they can treat us, so demand respect! He spinning again, he wants company in that, I'm not playing! ^^^I like. Continue to follow this and you can't go wrong. Orig
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Jump to new posts Re: New to this ... by steveh27 @ 05/20/13 10:11 PM

Hws - thanks for the support. I feel I tipped off the fence. Never in a millions years did I think I would have those feelings for her. But its not her anymore to me - she is gone.
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