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Walk-Away-Spouse
Jump to new posts Re: Walk away Wife having affair by AJM @ 12/16/14 05:58 PM

Time and effort if you ask me. I took time and made the effort for the boundaries. To let the anger go. To let the creepiness go. You need to accept that what is - is. It's not what you wanted, nor necessarily expected. But now that it's what is
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: Card29 VII by Mozza @ 12/16/14 05:58 PM

I'm very impressed with this exchange. It's like your W finally feels safe to open up, knowing you will be separated anyway. Don't waste this opportunity by suggesting between the lines that if she accepts your confession, you should be back together
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: My story of WAH by Cadet @ 12/16/14 05:57 PM

Originally Posted By: seaspinThanks! Good point Cadet, why do I feel the need to respond? If I'm really honest, I think it's to show him how wrong he could be from making an assumption. He didn't ask for any details, just jumped to a conclusion. (Jus
THE DIVORCE REMEDY
Originally Posted By: Bert35Above all else I just want her to see that I am a different person than I have been and I am embracing it. I just need the time to prove it Dont worry about whether she sees it or not. Live YOUR life - be a good role m
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: Busting this Divorce - 90 Days NC #1 by Mozza @ 12/16/14 05:52 PM

Originally Posted By: HPoirotI can't see my W being that strong. Especially as her fantasy world is only an hour's drive away. I would have to do a lot this year to be a man only a fool would leave in her eyes. To make it a natural choice for he
Midlife Crisis
Jump to new posts Re: Learning to Walk Again by AJM @ 12/16/14 05:52 PM

Indifferent or just more detached, Cali? I would say the latter, but that's me. Nice to score a gig on Christmas this late in the year. Good to have some extra cash right? AJ
Surviving the Big D
Jump to new posts Re: #44 Here Comes the Sun by kat727 @ 12/16/14 05:46 PM

The original due date was January 21st, but at yesterday's appointment they finally agreed with her that she is due around January 9th. They checked her and she is at 3cm but I forgot to ask what the baby's station was at. I think it will be sooner
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: New thread, new me? by Vanilla @ 12/16/14 05:38 PM

Dawn We will be here to read and listen tomorrow. Keep busy and take extra care, it's one day, you can get through one day. (((((Hugs)))))) Vanilla
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: Card29 VII by Card29 @ 12/16/14 05:32 PM

Her response: Quote:You chose porn over me for ten years. I begged you not to sleep on the couch. You made a decision not to give this up. Which led to our lack of talking and connection and then our sexual issues. Simply the lie and deceit prob co
Midlife Crisis
Jump to new posts Re: The Awakening of ME by mleigh4 @ 12/16/14 05:29 PM

I feel myself getting pulled into that pit of anger and resentment towards H and I'm really trying to pull myself out of it. I think he has been great, being really into the holidays and taking care of home, spending a lot of time at home, but I won
Surviving the Big D
Jump to new posts Re: #44 Here Comes the Sun by mishka422 @ 12/16/14 05:27 PM

WHOA! It seems like you JUST found out about it!!! Already?
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: RPP: Blindsided and on my own (11) by bdub @ 12/16/14 05:24 PM

I completely understand what you are saying. I sincerely hope they can mend fences and get that relationship back on track.
Midlife Crisis
Jump to new posts Re: Learning to Walk Again by CaliGuy @ 12/16/14 05:15 PM

So ... little update .. nothing seems to be moving as far as I can see, but who knows what is going on under the surface. Yesterday I picked up S, we went to the mall, just window shopped and I took notes on what he was checking out .. ya know .. f
For Newcomers
Had good IC session today. Talked about the changes I've been making and that my IC has been seeing. An interesting thing came up. After my SS and I had our blowup in early August, he stayed with his father for two weeks. During that time he brou
Midlife Crisis
Jump to new posts Re: H's MLC#6- Now its about ME! by mleigh4 @ 12/16/14 05:08 PM

2BHappy - I understand how you feel oh so well. I also think, if someone looked into our home, they would have no idea any of this was going on. I also have seen a big change in my H since Thanksgiving and I too wonder if it is just an act for the
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: RPP: Blindsided and on my own (11) by rppfl @ 12/16/14 05:06 PM

Originally Posted By: bdub I know as a father, I would be pretty concerned if one of my children didn't / wouldn't visit. Yes, bdub, I would be concerned, too. But I'm not the father she won't visit. I'm the mom who refuses to get in the middle.
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: Busting this Divorce - 90 Days NC #1 by HPoirot @ 12/16/14 05:02 PM

Journaling... My emotions are catching up with me again. The happiness and even satisfaction I felt just a couple days ago seems far away. I cried again today and the shakes are back. I haven't cried in days. This is awful. Yes Vapo it seems no
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: Plain Vanilla #3 by Vanilla @ 12/16/14 05:00 PM

I need advice. H came bouncing into the office. The middle of the day. Exchange H: Are you going to E tonight? Me: sorry I don't know where that is, or why I should be going there. H: there is a dance on. I received a notification. Me: baffled no
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: Card29 VII by Card29 @ 12/16/14 05:00 PM

She just texted: Quote:I feel like this invalidates our entire marriage. I feel like it was very destructive but I don't believe it invalidates the entire thing. There were lots of good times, there was some intimacy, just not enough. I didn't sa
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: RPP: Blindsided and on my own (11) by bdub @ 12/16/14 04:55 PM

I think instead of worrying about an extra day with D12 I might look into working with D16. I know as a father, I would be pretty concerned if one of my children didn't / wouldn't visit.
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: My story of WAH by seaspin @ 12/16/14 04:54 PM

Thanks! Good point Cadet, why do I feel the need to respond? If I'm really honest, I think it's to show him how wrong he could be from making an assumption. He didn't ask for any details, just jumped to a conclusion. (Just like what he did with our m
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: RPP: Blindsided and on my own (11) by rppfl @ 12/16/14 04:53 PM

Originally Posted By: labugWhy are you offering? For the sole purpose of playing nice and moving a little closer towards 50/50. No other reason. H originally suggested 50/50 in the form of one week mom, one week dad. I said no, and countered wit
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: Life 2.0 Part 2 by Dawn70 @ 12/16/14 04:52 PM

Sounds like things are going your way Rzr! Way to go and keep up the great work. I hope you can move to piecing.
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Blindsided by irony08 @ 12/16/14 04:49 PM

Well I am new here and I have read so many stories that sound like mine. My H and I have been married almost 9 years and together 13. Things appeared to be fine and then in late Jan. I noticed a significant amount of time my H was texting someone. He
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: RPP: Blindsided and on my own (11) by bdub @ 12/16/14 04:49 PM

Don't make it too complicated. D12's head will be spinning.
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