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Chatted with wife on Facebook today. She says she been in bed all day crying, I "listen". she tells me she just heard a song by brad paisley "she's everything" says that it is something I would say, Starts crying again, states s
Feel like the wife is getting mad at me, I was out working in the yard last weekend and I guess she tried to call a couple of times and then texted a message that asked if I was going to answer, like I was suppose to be waiting by the phone. Her mom
Newbie, Your story brought me back to about 4 years ago. Take care of yourself. The trip your husband is taking will be tough on you unless you can detach from it. Do it for your kids. The affect on kids can be very traumatizing. You need to be the
Well... I am sick. Blah. Nasty cold. So I try to keep that in mind when I am evaluating my emotions, anxiety level and fears. Funny how physical illness doesn't bring out the la-di-da, peace love, and happiness feelings. Nope! Instead we get a m
I don't know that I have ever seen my W not stressed about something. If she wanted to discuss it with me she would have texed me right? I did not miss it, its just always the case. I'm just having a hard time dealing with the fact two weeks ago ever
Hi sweet NGrace! I'm glad you are back. I just got back myself... from a hiatus of sorts. I really like what Betsey said: Originally Posted By: UnderDog I think you're really smart to prioritize what you need over what she wants. Honor that co
Okay. (Deep breath). You guys have inspired me to say something that is really scary for me. It's kind of my secret. Some say if you tell others your secrets and you no longer have anything to hide it can help in the healing. I pull my hair out
No communication = no food? This is not a punishment for him not behaving how you would like. You admitted you backslid, just pick up and carry on. You are also in the "I will hurt first so I don't get hurt again" vicious cycle. Your H
Let me know about the tests...you know I'm only a five coffee drive away Sorry to hear about the stress with the D, but if you apply some of the DB again you won't spend your life in jail after you've smacked him with the whack-a-spouse Love you!!
I would see this as absolutely amazing as well. Here is your precious baby, asking for lego. See, to me? Everything is still pretty cool in his world if all he wants is lego. You must be doing an awesome job
TL Was the posting to his computer to help you? Maybe you could post here instead. We would love to give you a whack a spouse hammer But seriously? The message to your H is what? I see you giving more weight to OW and H's situation than necessa
ccZ28 I went through this so I know how you feel. I was pretty much all messed up emotionally when I found out about the emails between my XW and her OM. Since you've already confronted W, I see no point going there. However, exposing and confrontin
It has been a frantic week. I have packed and moved 300 miles in two days. Moved in to a house I had never seen before. Have no phone or internet. Now live in a town not a beautiful rural area. BUT... Its early days. Still I feel that this is
Hey GRRRl, Okay, if you have the information that the other woman is jealous...LUCKY YOU! Now, the more you discuss her with your H. the more power she has. TAKE IT BACK! Use this tid bit of info. and bust on! By constantly bringing her up
I can understand where you are coming from with this It's a mental battle between your concious and common sense. We can't help but look at the "what ifs", but this is mind reading and my IC tells me that we shouldn't do this. I agree with
That night hike sounds really cool, I would have been so scared in the dark outdoors lol That's nice you met someone with a similair situation as well. I hope your W responds positively to your email. I don't know if I will ever start a new thread.
This detaching is hard I am scared I will do it so well that he won't fit in mylife anymore.. I feel sorry for him.. he is working hard it sems to reject me.. I wonder should I work equally hard rejecting him I keep reminding myself he is NOT me
So my lawyer called me today to tell me she had a long (read expensive) phone call with H's lawyer. He told her that since H's been paying the visas, which I would owe half of, this is what my child support money is going to. I said bu!![censored]
Hi Melissa don't beat yourself up.. your attitude has been amazing and dragged me along on my bad days... It is selfish.. these WAS and it is unfair .and it is OK to be mad and sad.. I think.. just not all the time. I lay in front of my front do