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As you've read the book, that's a great start and let's get you into problem solving mode. The first part of that is to determine what your goals are. Have you done that bit? Do they comply with the guidelines MWD sets out? I'm not prying and asking
Thanks AJM. I think I have been quiet because I am rounding the corner to my 1 year BD anniversary. I cannot believe it. Mostly I cannot believe I survived all that. Mleigh-no sadly he has never had IC. I do listen but a lot of these issues are
Roiste and EM thanks for the support. In this stage of my evolution I just got tired of waiting for her to change her behavior. Sure I get sad, feel lonely but I am a multi function tool. I can feel those emotions and go on with my life. If I can h
Today I wasnt so positive. Instead I feel like husband and I are just becoming more of strangers. He had told me his goal when leaving was reconciliation. But he has made no real effort at reconciliation. He sees things so differently from me and
Stay calm. Your L is correct. You should try and postpone since you have not received the requested information. I will say it does seem a little early to postpone. If you receive it in tbe next couple of weeks I am not sure postponing will be ne
Thanks Cali and Sandi for your words of support. They mean a lot. Although I don't know how much of the train OM could see living 600 miles away. I try to leave those thoughts about OM alone for my own sanity. Thanks Emmess for your support and sugg
Hi cole, The beginning of your story parallels mine. Me being over anxious after birth of my children (later learned 1/5 mothers suffer from this). My husbands weight gain and snoring. My perceived notion that husband neglected childcare responsib
Hey Cali. You do realize that these things didn't happen overnight and won't be fixed/healed overnight, right? I mean, by now you know that. In many ways, it really and truly is a new relationship you two are building. One based on truth and tr
Guys, I got a letter in the mail today for a judge heading on November 9, we do not have anything signed yet. I'm freaking out! I'm so not ready for that! I haven't even seen his financial affidavit. His party has had mine since July. I'm hoping this
Thanks, I really stepped in it today. Should have told her last week about a contractor I had contacted about some repairs but didnt get a chance. She then contacted a different person at the place and scheduled them to come out. Well tje other pe
Hi HW. Glad to see you posting. Sounds like the listening and detachment is really helpful to you. Sounds also like you are coming out of the initial shock and depression. I'm very happy to hear that. AJ
My kids have been mentioning the S lately. D7 aked me out of the blue while I left her mom. I replied that I did not, that her mom left me. She paused and ask why she did. I said I didn't know. That's all I could come up with on the spot and it's hal
Originally Posted By: mahhhtyI haven't been posting all that much lately. I've been really withdrawn from the DB community, offering very little advice or support to people in the forums. I'm sorry for that. I've been trying to do more of the things
Vanilla: Haha! Always the right word. mahhhty! Long time no see. Thanks for stopping by. I guess one of the things that keep me from writing that letter is that it won't ever get through to her. Yet, today I had another inner monologue for her. I se
Originally Posted By: Cole_Is there any way for me to edit the post or could a moderator/admin delete the post so I can repost something a little more efficient and digestible? My suggestion is to stick with this thread and make another post with qu
You will do better tomorrow and better the day after. You are a product of your experiences. As long as you keep evolving you'll do fine. At this point in my life I feel wishes are for kids. If I want to have a different behavior I work at changing
Originally Posted By: MaybellBTW, Sunny, I went looking for your thread but couldn't find it. How are you? My thread has slipped a lot of pages back, I don't post much and not many people go looking for it. It's nice you did . I will try to update to
There are pretty easy ways to find out. Phone records, credit card statements, find my iPhone to see where she is going. If you do snoop it is important to keep it to yourself. She will see it as a betrayal even if she is having an A. That is how