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My W talked to me last night and she communicated some stuff about how she was upset and confused that I never recognized her feelings and I dismissed her feelings for so long. I just validated what she said and then she would say she did a really go
Just to clarify, I didn't mean to sound like I was saying to take him to his doctor without her knowledge of it. Don't do it as if you are going behind her back or sneaking him out to see the doctor. I just meant to take charge of it, without imply
I'll make it clear tonight that I want to be back in the bed. I'm guessing the response will be "it's MY house". The difference here too is that she HAS been paying the mortgage while I paid down my debt. Her preference was I focus on th
Hey Tulo, gotcha KILL the FB. And the other shoe drops .... Surely sound s like an EA to me as Zeus said. i wouldn't be equating hoping for the R with being the best Tulo you can be. Zeus and I have had many manny discussions about this. My last
Yes! He said more than once "I don't know if this is the right or wrong thing to do, but I've got to do it" Just recently said " I don't know if it's the right or wrong thing to do but something has to change." I thought that was
Hi HeavyD... is your plan working to save your relationship, or is it more of a healing process for you as you move beyond the marriage? It sure is hard not to react to her... I've done a terrible job with this, even though I know better. It's very
Wonderful message to wake up to, thank you so much. 1. What happened in March of 2012 was an evaluation at work that was less than adequate. He had taken a leap of faith and took a job in Seattle away from family and friends ( he and I were commutin
Hi Tulo I don't think the text conversation was a bad idea as long as you didn't put kisses on or said you missed him etc. He made contact. That's good, but remember not to get excited or jump back in. You need more from him.
Quote:Lilly turns one in less than a month Seems like yesterday. Makes me realize how long we've been here. But certainly not for naught. We've watched you become a momma bear who is now very sure of what you need.
Hi Everyone, I need to check in. Last week, the company sent out a mass email. They let go of 5 employees because of financial difficulties. One of the employees is someone I consider a friend. She is a valuable employee and has been with the compa
Wonka, thank you. I will take that to heart, not speaking about the OW. Today is such a dark, rainy day here. I'm allowing myself to stay in bed and be depressed, because I just can't seem to find any motivation to do anything, and I don't want to go
Originally Posted By: Cadet You dont want to be in a relationship with her while she is in a relationship with someone else. That is when saying the above might mean something. Should I say this to her? Should I tell her I don't want to be in a r
Need some advice from the group. The Retrouvaille weekend is approaching but I haven't asked. I was going to discuss it at MC today, but something came up and she's pretty busy all day. I want to ask when she will be receptive, but I don't want to
Journaling: STBX called this morning, we said our hellos, and she began asking about last night. She was calm and asked about the missed FaceTime call with kids and all the calls she made. I told her that I had a discussion group and then went out wi
thanks guys. this happened several weeks back now. I didn't even mention because I thought I was just being pathetic and then i just got used to it. my threshold went way up at BD The 2nd round of custody mediation, i mentioned there were a few tens
Originally Posted By: Archer1I guess the whole thing right now is that she thinks she's getting away with it. That I still think it was some random guy in a NY bar and that it's over. A part of me just wants to say I KNOW WHAT YOU'RE DOING AND WHO Y
I guess the whole thing right now is that she thinks she's getting away with it. That I still think it was some random guy in a NY bar and that it's over. A part of me just wants to say I KNOW WHAT YOU'RE DOING AND WHO YOU'RE DOING IT WITH! YOU'RE N
The life of an LBS - It's my birthday today, and I have to spend it waking up at a friend's house, going to an IC and calling a collaborative lawyer. At least I get the girls back and I get to sleep in my own bed tonight.
Also, I wouldn't pay too much attention to whether she filed or not. I worry that by bringing it up over and over, it will come across as trying to control the situation and her. Even if she files, there's a long time to go until the actual divorce.
I guess my point was that if you think you can forgive her in the future for a PA, then it doesn't really matter RIGHT NOW if she is actually having a PA or not. All you will do is drive yourself crazy looking for it and thinking about it, and there
Another thing that has to be a point in a somewhat positive direction is that when she told me that she hasn't filed I did say that I assumed that meant she was still thinking about things. She said that she had told me she would think about it (giv