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Jump to new posts Re: New couple, Same old story by Ralph88 @ 02/06/16 06:36 AM

There maybe someone else , I do not know. She has continued to tell me she wants nothing but a divorce and that she is not "in" the marriage. She has said she has become lost in this marriage, and needs to find herself and become a happy
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Jump to new posts Re: Hope is not a Strategy- It looks done by rich4j @ 02/06/16 06:32 AM

Originally Posted By: rich4j I bet it closer to disappointment, betrayal, hurt. It's like us guys are bred to show the deeper feelings as anger. We're taught by our male society that when something hurts (betrays, stresses, frustrates, etc) us,
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Jump to new posts Re: Day by Day..Hour by Hour 4 by Rain75 @ 02/06/16 06:32 AM

Originally Posted By: RednailI dont believe him..I think it was because you were alittle sassy(not in a bad way) when you said the video app was for both of your new friends. I think it made him really wonder what you have it for and it got to him.
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I know I wouldnt express concerns because I could see that turning into a- you dont trust me, you never will trust me, blah blah etc etc fight. You could mention to her brother she is going to see gpa today but I wouldnt push him too much into goin
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Jump to new posts Re: Day by Day..Hour by Hour 4 by Rednail @ 02/06/16 06:22 AM

I dont believe him..I think it was because you were alittle sassy(not in a bad way) when you said the video app was for both of your new friends. I think it made him really wonder what you have it for and it got to him. I think your response to ign
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Jump to new posts Re: Here again after 9 years and struggling 4 by Rain75 @ 02/06/16 06:20 AM

Inpain, I hope you're okay.
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MB if you do then I will be forced to as well. We are apparently the only people in the world without one. My dilemma has always been twofold. One, I don't want to get cyber stalked by ow and his family (NYGals advice to use a different name and th
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Jump to new posts Re: Rednail 2.0 by Rednail @ 02/06/16 06:16 AM

Squiggy- yes yesterday made me feel good making a plan and talking to the L and planning. I feel more prepared for either plan A or plan B. Pink- I dont think he would get angry to a violent level with me. Hes never been violent with me besides ye
Midlife Crisis
Jump to new posts Re: What the heck is this? by job @ 02/06/16 06:12 AM

Sounds like last night went very well. You did a great job in listening and staying calm. Your h is still finding his way and it's going to be a while...but you need to allow things to slowly unfold. The slower, the better. Now, it's time to si
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Ok... So I have a question. Again. I'm supposed to be detaching. Things having been going pretty good with my W. It was 4 weeks ago that she said she ended things with OM. I have no reason to believe she is lying but really no reason to trust h
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Jump to new posts Re: Day by Day..Hour by Hour 4 by Rain75 @ 02/06/16 06:09 AM

I can't believe this..I was so happy last night when I saw that all of us were online at the same time and what do I do? I fall a-freakin-sleep! Ugh Shame on me. Thanks guys. Maybe it isn't true. I have no idea. With XF you never know and that's ju
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Jump to new posts Re: Husband has left me for a younger woman by Rouky @ 02/06/16 06:07 AM

Hi Bex, just a tought I had if H says sorry it means that he was wrong in what he did/ still does. I'm nearly a year into it and still no real sorry. If they were to say sorry it'd mean that they'd have to face what they have done, it'd mean for them
Midlife Crisis
Jump to new posts Re: Time for a new direction by job @ 02/06/16 06:07 AM

I think you are doing great! Now, about your son's hair, I would advise both FIL and MIL that you will decide when your son needs his haircut and that you have a wonderful lady in town that does his hair. State that you have appreciated their assis
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Jump to new posts Re: Wife wants to leave but still at home. by Si_07 @ 02/06/16 05:51 AM

I have this from an email newsletter series I have been receiving: Last time you heard Kurt’s story about how he overcame his wife’s affair and managed to get his marriage back over the course of a year. If you haven’t read it yet, I highly recomme
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Jump to new posts Re: ..and another one. by Rednail @ 02/06/16 05:45 AM

Quote: I started thinking about what I want in a man, and got creeped about the idea of ML to someone else. I'm trying not to mind-read but I'm sure he's excited to. It's killing me, all of it. GAL GAL GAL 180 180 180. I feel like the work I have ahe
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Jump to new posts Re: Cheers to a new beginning 2 by Rouky @ 02/06/16 05:32 AM

Rain and cold today but I woke up happy. Don't ask me why, how but I was happy. I think my work with IC yesterday shook me a lot, and on the other hand I have to stop to feel sorry for myself! Not being attractive at all. Haven't seen physically ST
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Jump to new posts Re: ..and another one. by roar @ 02/06/16 05:31 AM

Couldn't sleep last night wondering when I would wake up from this dream. This life doesn't feel like mine and none of this feels right. Last night H messaged a thank you for talking with him and that he was sorry for everything. I wonder if he rea
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Jump to new posts Re: My 180 proposal WAW by JimKao @ 02/06/16 05:28 AM

Jelly, Thank you for the kind words. Yes I have seen a therapist and they have stated that I should stay where I am with the boys since I am the stable one in the R. I have also considered that when a move happens for my job that the boys stay wit
Midlife Crisis
Jump to new posts Re: Time for a new direction by Butterc @ 02/06/16 05:18 AM

Mleigh you are freaking awesome. I devour everything you say and am able to learn so much from the way you handle your ups and downs with grace to your PMA with hiccups in the road. You sound very grounded and strong. What a great example you are!
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Hi, I know it's hard because you are leaving under the same roof, please take it as a blessing. From what I read in your post going dark, your H is curious of what you do. I don't want to raise your hope but I see it as baby step from his side. Ha
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Jump to new posts Re: Wife has filed for divorce by excile101 @ 02/06/16 04:38 AM

My wife and I have been more amicable towards each other over the last 2 days. She talks to me about the marriage more and feels that I wouldn't listen to her, preferring to withdraw and go into my own world and watch porn and become defensive rather
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Jump to new posts Re: Ghostbusting Round 5 Detaching my feelings by Ginger1 @ 02/06/16 04:35 AM

On only did she use her privillege ( you do realize sleeping with her boy boyfriend as an undersigned teen in your home is a privilege, not a right , I hope) she spoke to you with the utmost disrespect about your sex life to you and in front of her b
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Jump to new posts Re: Husband has left me for a younger woman by Bex @ 02/06/16 04:22 AM

Originally Posted By: isittoolateBex - You have to take your focus off OW and H and put it on yourself. Dont look at her photos again, dont think about her, if it wasnt her it would probably be another woman. Whenever a wave of emotion comes crashi
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Jump to new posts Re: My 180 proposal WAW by JulieH @ 02/06/16 04:20 AM

There is no more edit button. I left this site open and my 5 year old, just wrote above message. (Our names are out there now) Sorry!
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Jump to new posts Re: My 180 proposal WAW by JulieH @ 02/06/16 04:15 AM

To Jim from james I love you
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