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Jump to new posts Re: Detachment we can do it! (Smothy 4) by Smothy @ Yesterday at 07:55 AM

Originally Posted By: PyriteOriginally Posted By: SmothyThis combined with my emotional abuse, his conflict avoidance tactics made our relationship very unhealthy. :-( We both played a part in the demise. I have owned my part, but he refuses to see
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Hi 25 Ok, so I accept my WW's reduced offer, lose out on £1000's, lose all that I've spent my adult life building towards? Live in a much less enjoyable environment because she had an A? Yes, good life lesson for S9. As much as I appreciate your po
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Jump to new posts Re: Anxiously waiting for it to fall apart by beatrice @ Yesterday at 07:11 AM

DJ - I was thinking about your sitch when I read your last two posts. Do you still love your husband? Or has he exhausted your supplies of compassion and understanding with his self absorbed behaviors. I think there are many many reasons to save m
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Jump to new posts Re: In the UK -need help (pt3) by Huddy @ Yesterday at 06:55 AM

Morning all I know I shouldn't try to mindread, but you really can see she is desperate to find out what I'm doing. She was quite calm about asking last night, almost like W used to be. S had an autism fit last night and threw his tablet computer
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Jump to new posts Re: Anxiously waiting for it to fall apart by dejavu2 @ Yesterday at 06:46 AM

LT, Beatrice & Lou - thank you for your kind words and support. I have found a lot of answers in this group. We each have a different story as our S each have a different journey. I spent the past 3 years killing my self-esteem b/c I thought I
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Jump to new posts Re: Detachment we can do it! (Smothy 4) by Pyrite @ Yesterday at 06:22 AM

besides hanging out at Smothy's
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Jump to new posts Re: Detachment we can do it! (Smothy 4) by Pyrite @ Yesterday at 06:15 AM

Originally Posted By: SmothyPyrite, do you have a new thread? not yet. i dont have anyhing to say really. sort of in the doldrums. sort of the opposite really. seeing L tomorrow for the 1st time. may be slapping the W an ultimatum. We are not movi
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Jump to new posts Re: WAW Filed for D the Next Day Part 6 (Bob) by Toots @ Yesterday at 06:09 AM

"You're welcome, I hope you're back on your feet quickly. I am taking the meds and going to counselling; It does help me feel better. I miss you too W. Take care, Bob" Hi Bob - of course Wonka is the pro here. But these are my thoughts...
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Jump to new posts Re: Detachment we can do it! (Smothy 4) by Pyrite @ Yesterday at 06:08 AM

Originally Posted By: SmothyThis combined with my emotional abuse, his conflict avoidance tactics made our relationship very unhealthy. :-( We both played a part in the demise. I have owned my part, but he refuses to see how damaging his EA was and
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Jump to new posts Re: Detachment we can do it! (Smothy 4) by Pyrite @ Yesterday at 06:06 AM

Originally Posted By: SmothyPyrite, my IC and I talked about 'core beliefs' at the beginning of our sessions and we are beginning to work through these. The main ones are 'I believe I am unloveable'. A lot of my behaviours anger/ control has stemme
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Jump to new posts Re: My WAW story part IV by Roid76 @ Yesterday at 05:49 AM

On a side note I did go catch a movie this weekend. And I was sorely disappointed. I caught the Avengers sequel, and it just was not as good as the first and overall just not as entertaining. Hopefully they can come up with some better ideas and f
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Jump to new posts Re: Detachment we can do it! (Smothy 4) by Smothy @ Yesterday at 05:34 AM

Pyrite, do you have a new thread?
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Jump to new posts Re: Detachment we can do it! (Smothy 4) by Smothy @ Yesterday at 05:34 AM

Writing this, has made me see how broken we both are.
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Jump to new posts Re: Detachment we can do it! (Smothy 4) by Smothy @ Yesterday at 05:33 AM

This combined with my emotional abuse, his conflict avoidance tactics made our relationship very unhealthy. :-( We both played a part in the demise. I have owned my part, but he refuses to see how damaging his EA was and said it was nothing like my
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Jump to new posts Re: Detachment we can do it! (Smothy 4) by Smothy @ Yesterday at 05:30 AM

Pyrite, my IC and I talked about 'core beliefs' at the beginning of our sessions and we are beginning to work through these. The main ones are 'I believe I am unloveable'. A lot of my behaviours anger/ control has stemmed from this one belief. Th
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Jump to new posts Re: Detachment we can do it! (Smothy 4) by Pyrite @ Yesterday at 05:29 AM

Originally Posted By: SmothyI am feeling much better thIs morning. When I turned my iPod on this morning the first song was Walk away - M people and the second was Smile -U2 then Lights - Ellie Goulding. Weird. A message is being sent to me :-)
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Jump to new posts Re: Detachment we can do it! (Smothy 4) by Bob723 @ Yesterday at 05:16 AM

Originally Posted By: SmothyPyrite, Bob, Huddy, thank you. All your support on this fiorum means so much to me. Hugs and prayers to you all. Hello Smothy, You're welcome - that's why we are here. Thank you for the hugs and prayers. What a won
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Jump to new posts Re: new member please help!!! by depress @ Yesterday at 05:15 AM

I don't know what to do anymore. I'm completely lost... Please start a new thread http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...148#Post2572148
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Jump to new posts Re: new member please help!!! by depress @ Yesterday at 05:15 AM

Hi hun thanks for stopping by. It's been about 3 months for us. He's still with the ow but says he wants to work on our m and that things are complicated with the ow and that's why he can't brake things off with her. I'm in such a mess. I don't know
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Jump to new posts Re: Detachment we can do it! (Smothy 4) by Smothy @ Yesterday at 05:15 AM

I am feeling much better thIs morning. When I turned my iPod on this morning the first song was Walk away - M people and the second was Smile -U2 then Lights - Ellie Goulding. Weird. A message is being sent to me :-)
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Jump to new posts Re: Detachment we can do it! (Smothy 4) by Smothy @ Yesterday at 05:11 AM

Pyrite, Bob, Huddy, thank you. All your support on this fiorum means so much to me. Hugs and prayers to you all.
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Jump to new posts Re: WAW Filed for D the Next Day Part 6 (Bob) by Bob723 @ Yesterday at 05:02 AM

Wonka & All, Just journaling. Our first date was 15 years ago today. I updated my signature. Bob
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Jump to new posts Re: if it's too late why is he still here? by depress @ Yesterday at 05:01 AM

Hang in there too. This is some really hard situation we are going thru. I just want it to end already. You had a busy weekend at least it kept you busy. For us it was boring nothing exciting.
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Jump to new posts Re: Where I focus on Matt777 improvements (5) by Bob723 @ Yesterday at 04:56 AM

Originally Posted By: Matt777I trust this process. I believe that it is the only chance that I have to resuscitate the relationship that I had with my W. But man, this is hard.Hello Matt, You're welcome, I love to help! Yes, this is hard, I underst
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Jump to new posts WW Conversation by thriver @ Yesterday at 04:41 AM

First Thread http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2569248&page=1 Feeling a little down today. Last week, I texted and emailed my WW a few times in regards to some financial issues and the court proceedings
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