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Infidelity/Extramarital Affairs/Jealousy
Jump to new posts Re: she is not OW - just my BFF - NOT! by scooby @ 04/20/14 12:31 AM

Do you have all the kids? I cannot believe your H is such a jerk. I thought my H was bad. He shut down from me 6 months ago and said he is done trying. Ummmm. I did not know our marriage was in trouble. Apparently he had been trying for 10 years
Infidelity/Extramarital Affairs/Jealousy
So I've had a great few days with my kids, and my W is now coming to get them in the AM. She will be taking them away for the night. I'm pretty nervous about it as I'm worried about them with her. This will be the first night in almost four month
Midlife Crisis
Jump to new posts Re: 5 months of heck...ugh by scooby @ 04/20/14 12:18 AM

I actually have made it this far in the day without crying! WOW! This is something new. I will probably make up for it tomorrow. H is being more monster lately. I have been working on detaching from his R with OW and GAL. Now that sometimes we
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Jump to new posts Re: new here. is DB even worth it? by LuckyLuke @ 04/19/14 11:58 PM

Claire - oh, at some point that will certainly be appropriate - Look at it this way, if you (like my W) are not nice, not friendly, not understanding, and/or not caring, does that attract or repel him? Sure there is an element of luck here, but you
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Jump to new posts Re: snap back to reality..... by twinmom @ 04/19/14 11:58 PM

So I was talking to a close friend today and she brought up the first time I introduced H to her. It was her birthday and a large group of friends (including husbands) went to a nice restaurant at a casino boat. She said a few of my friends wanted to
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Jump to new posts Re: she is not OW - just my BFF - NOT! by twinmom @ 04/19/14 11:51 PM

Thanks scooby, I hate pregnancy. Or rather my body does, I always have very difficult pregnancies and now not having the physical help of a husband is HORRIBLE. I wouldn't tell work about the affair if you need his $$.... sorry I can't be of more h
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Jump to new posts Re: snap back to reality..... by twinmom @ 04/19/14 11:42 PM

Ok so today I ignored a pic of his niece he sent, a text asking if I knew of any deals on white t shirts..... I had previously told him we would be coloring eggs at 6:30 tonight and this is the first year the twins will be participating. I said if
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Jump to new posts Re: Got OFF limbo after 3 yrs by planet @ 04/19/14 11:04 PM

Nice to hear from you Newman. I'm sorry it had to end like this but I assure you the days are going to get better.
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Jump to new posts Re: Have I travelled too far... Part 2 by pkp1852 @ 04/19/14 11:04 PM

There won't be another session, at least not anytime in the foreseeable future. What was originally scheduled to last 1.5 hours went for over 2.5 hours. The MC opened up by saying that we should start by laying all of our issues on the table (gestu
Midlife Crisis
Jump to new posts Re: 5 months of heck...ugh by scooby @ 04/19/14 11:02 PM

I actually have made it this far in the day without crying! WOW! This is something new. I will probably make up for it tomorrow. H is being more monster lately. I have been working on detaching from his R with OW and GAL. Now that sometimes we
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Jump to new posts Re: hope456, part 2 by hope456 @ 04/19/14 11:02 PM

I'm struggling a bit tonight. Easter will be the first holiday we've spent apart. For me, it is a religious holiday as well as the bunny/eggs stuff. It will be the first Easter in which I play Easter bunny (filling D7's basket with goodies) by mys
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Jump to new posts Re: Is this cake eating 16 by melissag @ 04/19/14 10:57 PM

I was in a similar situation back in November. It was a few weeks after my H moved out, and my in-laws said they were going to be in town, and wanted to go to breakfast with me. I started off doing the same thing you did - I was dreading it, I was
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Jump to new posts Re: new here. is DB even worth it? by hope456 @ 04/19/14 10:52 PM

I have the same thoughts: If I'm strong and confident and act as if this doesn't bother me, then it will just confirm to H that he's made the right decision. He'll think he was right: we just aren't compatible. And the fact that I was able to adju
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Jump to new posts Re: she is not OW - just my BFF - NOT! by scooby @ 04/19/14 10:48 PM

TWINMOM- I am sorry that you are here. You must be very busy with your kids. I hope that you are feeling well with your pregnancy. It is odd for me to be angry or mad, it is not a behavior that usually do. I am a very easy going person. When I
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Jump to new posts Re: KGirl con't #3 by hope456 @ 04/19/14 10:44 PM

I'm glad you had a good day. Originally Posted By: KGirl I'm kind of excited about aspects of moving. I'm picking out new bedding, a TV stand, stools for the kitchen island.. there are some positives! And I can pick out whatever I want and don't h
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Now this may seem just weird... I'm damned proud of my W. She broke off with OM because it wasn't in line with her career. That's my girl, dammit! That's a solid choice. The kind of thing that you'd high five. (?!) And if we ever R, that makes t
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Jump to new posts Re: Funeral for a husband, love lies bleeding by JennD @ 04/19/14 10:39 PM

Sounds like you are doing well! Great GAL'ing! And very good interactions with H... Keep the good working going!
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Jump to new posts Re: She's returning home for in house separation! by Oxford1 @ 04/19/14 10:35 PM

I am reading DR I think imam in a bad place because I have also been on Tam And MA and they are making me feel like an idiot becuase I want to be with my wife And because I enjoy her company I am not going to read her tests anymore because it hurts
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Jump to new posts Re: 2 Months In And Feeling So Broken by JennD @ 04/19/14 10:34 PM

I'm not sure what's changed but I'm finding it easier to be detatched. I'm still unhappy that my M is where it is, but I feel able to handle it. Like I said, not sure whats changed in me. H is here today and will be overnight (in spare room) to d
Midlife Crisis
Jump to new posts Re: Points to ponder... by wishing, hoping @ 04/19/14 10:31 PM

Thanks everyone. I hope I am not being hopeful for nothing. D had her first soccer game of the season today. Freezing cold. And I felt like crap. But I stayed outside and watched her team play. They won, but D kept getting knocked down and she was g
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Jump to new posts Re: she is not OW - just my BFF - NOT! by twinmom @ 04/19/14 10:29 PM

I go through a rollercoaster of anger and sadness. One minute I am like "I deserve so much better than this #$&@#! And the next I ask myself why is she worth his effort/love but I am not" It would be so much easier if I could just stic
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Jump to new posts Re: Have I travelled too far... Part 2 by zew @ 04/19/14 10:29 PM

pkp, how did mc go?
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Jump to new posts Re: my wife left, but still lives with me #3/continued by tough spot @ 04/19/14 10:20 PM

Today was my eldest daughters college graduation ceremony. Went pretty well, everyone got along, had fun. Well, until after the ceremony when I was outside with my 6 year old. He decided to run down the sidewalk through the row of graduates coming
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Jump to new posts Re: Funeral for a husband, love lies bleeding by cczamo @ 04/19/14 10:19 PM

STB XH came over today to pack up some of his stuff (big move is on 5/2/14). Our last interaction was rather cold and distant (my choice due to just discovering his OW). Today I was as positive and nice -- no R talk. I offered to help him &
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Jump to new posts Re: Is this cake eating 16 by wishing, hoping @ 04/19/14 10:12 PM

(((NLW))) We are all thinking of you! Take care of yourself and the kid's. Be true to your soul! WH
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