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Infidelity/Extramarital Affairs/Jealousy
Jump to new posts Re: New thread started--old one was exposure backf by LanceSijan @ Today at 04:45 AM

To make a link go to the first page of this thread. Go to the top of the page where it says http:/www.divorcebustin.... Highlight that text and copy (ctrl + C) Go to the page that you want to insert it. Click on that spot and paste (ctrl + v) You can
Midlife Crisis
Welcome to this board. Sorry you are here but you will meet some wonderful people here and get some great advice. I have read a good deal of books on the subject and can give you some suggestions when you are ready. Although I am not on the board t
Surviving the Big D
Jump to new posts Re: A groundhogs tale.... by kml @ Today at 02:03 AM

Wow, Jackie, you dug this up out of the basement! Floyd in his thong - I'll never forget that image, lol! And all the hamster dances too! Ellie
Surviving the Big D
Jump to new posts Re: Alternate universe? by BobbiJo @ Today at 01:58 AM

Ugh....1 a.m. and I just finished playing catch-up!!! I missed night class last week, had to read two chapters, then watch the 3 hour online class...answer 12 questions on a 'viewing guide' to make sure I ACTUALLY watched the class ;), then had to wr
Surviving the Big D
I read just the last page. Looks like you have to *establish very firm and permanent boundaries* with this sort of self-centered woman who constantly generates conflict. Mine was (still is)like this so I think I know what you must be going thru'. For
Infidelity/Extramarital Affairs/Jealousy
Jump to new posts Re: Close enconter with the OM by dgtal @ Today at 01:52 AM

I don't believe in witchcraft, but witches fly man that's for sure and they use wooden brooms... I will take it easy for a while. I don't want to push my W into any humiliating situation again. I will turn the page and move forward as she once sugges
Midlife Crisis
Re: INTERESTED IN MLC FOR LBS by Bobby O @ Today at 01:24 AM

My middle daughter who is very close to my wife called and asked if she could use the internet at my house as it was not set up at my wifes place. I told her she could and offered her dinner but she declined. She went upstairs to do her schoolwork a
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: Blindsided, Just served with papers! by dsh4320 @ Today at 01:19 AM

thanks LSG, it really is another spot on revalation from a WAW.
Infidelity/Extramarital Affairs/Jealousy
Allen, you read that? Exposure DOES work, but it should be done carefully, like a brain surgery. I believe by exposing the OMW and OM relatives is good enough, that worked in my sitch. I even lie to my wife at the beginning and told her that I had al
We're separated--What Now?
Jump to new posts Re: WAH and LBW separated and dark by Forrest Gump @ Today at 12:59 AM

"10 things i am grateful for: 6 healthy and happy nieces & nephews 4 siblings 2 parents hmm .. that's 12. oops." But from an outside perspective.. you only listed one thing. Family. You have some catching up to do. Oops.
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: Ominus Bonus by steady @ Today at 12:55 AM

And to quote the signature of one of the many people I have deep respect for on these boards - Coach "Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your curr
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: Blindsided, Just served with papers! by LSG @ Today at 12:53 AM

dsh, Sounds like you had a great evening. It is great advice that you gave from what she told you. It is spot on. I wish you luck with the hearing!
For Newcomers
Today I think I found the right place for me and kids. It will allow a cat, and the price is reasonable for me. I am so excited about this opportunity. I hope I will find out tomorrow on it. I will start posting more to everyone here more often
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: Blindsided, Just served with papers! by dsh4320 @ Today at 12:48 AM

Ok all, had the previous girfriend over for dinner and a movie. Made flat irn steak on the grill, grilled portabella caps marinated in olive oil and balsamic vinegar. a mixed salad with pine nuts and a mixed balsamic ranch dressing. Garlic bread sti
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: Relocated the family and he dropped the bomb by steady @ Today at 12:48 AM

MM, what do you want to do for just yourself and your daughters? Leave him, her, the sitch out of it. What would you do if you were single and he was not at the house? Leave the possibility of any reaction/effect of your actions out of it - ie: If
For Newcomers
Hope147, Your posts to me help me to keep positive and help me to be happy with the direction I have taken in my life. You are so right that the best time is with the kids, and I am glad that you are enjoying spending time with your S. He is enjoy
Infidelity/Extramarital Affairs/Jealousy
Jump to new posts Re: Moved here from Piecing... by Hope4Luv @ Today at 12:44 AM

BTW I admitted right away that I had an addiction to fantasy and romance as a means of escaping the pain of a M in which we weren't facing the problems. I got into therapy, joined a 12 step group for "love addiction" and loooked at myself i
For Newcomers
CG, Thank you so much for the best wishes on my job. It is going great, and the people are very nice. I will do great at it. I have learned so much so far. I am going to going have firmer boundaries. I called the cell phone that I gave to my D
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: Ominus Bonus by steady @ Today at 12:40 AM

I keep telling myself the puzzle will fit together and all of this will make sense. It's what I've always believed and what I've always experienced. It's just hard sometimes to find comfort in it when I'm right in the dead middle of it.
For Newcomers
PH, The past couple of days have been better for me. I know it will take along time to fully move past the last year and what I have experienced. I continue to move forward and on. Occassionally I do regress, but it is not as far as in past times
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: Ominus Bonus by steady @ Today at 12:38 AM

OM confirmed. Found an email with legal advice. First line, "You don't know how badly I wanted to text you but I figured this would be safer". Third line in - "I love you so much that watching you go through this is hurtful." (u
Infidelity/Extramarital Affairs/Jealousy
Jump to new posts Re: I kicked him out - now what? by bluestar @ Today at 12:36 AM

LH, I have to agree with BND on this one. Further exposure now will not have a positive effect for you. I think it will just continue to harden his heart and make his case for him that you are the problem (which we all know is so NOT the case). Fo
Infidelity/Extramarital Affairs/Jealousy
Jump to new posts Re: New thread started--old one was exposure backf by AntoniaB @ Today at 12:33 AM

I dont know how to do the link but I reposted a short version of the whole sitch from start to now.
Midlife Crisis
Posting my sitch here, also on infidelity forum by AntoniaB @ Today at 12:31 AM

I don't know how to repost a thread but my sitch is this number, #2042225 and is over on the Infidelity forum. My thread has "exposure backfired" in the title. A lot of people, including my counselor and psychiatrist, have said my H is in
Piecing Our Marriage Back Together Again
"And I am slow." Ah, but very steady; so take the time it needs.
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