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This may sound odd but you need to be priority one because if you don't take care of you, you can't be there for D. Don't worry about eating, you're a healthy male, you won't starve yourself to death You'll get hungry and eat when you're ready. Ac
Oh I can hear you on that Will. My H used to be such a logical and analytical person, fairly self disciplined in a lot of ways. To see him make some of the decisions he is making now is difficult to reconcile with the "old" him. I wouldn't
Originally Posted By: tough spotToday we spent all day together, ran errands, seemed to have fun. I did step up the first two times we have had these type discussions. But I suspect if I asked her if she changed her mind she would say no. You a
Keep working at that TL. I've noticed W leaving her phone around away from her lately. This was unheard of after BD when I was snooping. Then I started noticing where it was at all times. Now I don't care. Things that concern finances, I just handle.
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Thanks NG. You are right. So is Bug. It's about letting her transform at her own pace... if she's going to at all. It's been a weird couple of days. Those two convo's took place on two separate days. Yesterday she curled up in her chair unde
Did myself proud just now. I called H to see if he was joining me for lunch, he clicked the call over to voicemail. I didn't let my mind run about why. I just let it be, plenty of possible reasons, but no point in me worrying. He came home late fo
No the possibility of someone else is not even a thought nor was it ever. So why Now? Because as soon as I said Im moving back, she was pissed and immediately filled for divorce. Because Im being severed the divorce papers any day now, because it
Definitely open to suggestion, but what i'm doing so far is: My bank where i have savings, checking, credit and check card automatically categorizes transactions into budget accounts. Its hard to see month to month variations or make adjustments so,
So it's been a few days. Been busy. Life has been okay. Tomorrow back to court again. H is trying to get me thrown out of the house. I am worried. I don't know why, but I am really freaking out here. I want to leave when things are progressing. I a
Originally Posted By: littleGTO AS- True detachment...hmmm....sometimes I wonder if I'll ever really get there. It seems that stbxh is really stressing me out every time we interact...he keeps pressing and pressing about the child custody situation.
Something small came up today. Had a text saying that the garden I worked on yesterday looked great, which it does. I thanked him. He then texted me this: Boo: I needed a shirt Boo: then I saw you needed an extra drawer. He then texted an insid
no doubt , h was confused. he apologized for his yoyo behavior. told h affairs are like addictions we still remain amicable. I rarely text. he texts everyday(on my phone) to d15. h has no contact whatsoever with anyone, old friends, family... ow
Had a good weekend with the Kids, Picked up a christmas tree and set it up, went to a kids workshop and did some woodworking, decorated the home, went to the move Frozen finished off by going to the Salt Lake City Temple square and looked and at t
Originally Posted By: ATSure, you lay there and read the newspaper while I do my business. It just came off like you're an animal and can't control yourself so I'll spread my legs and let you do whatever you need to do. I know exactly what you mean
Wow, what you describe about the illegal activities your W has been involved with along with her family, well that is pretty staggering! And you got sucked into it as well. Good for you that you're trying so hard to pull yourself out of that, but I'v
H and I started spending more time with each other and staying the night together and talking ALOT, about everything and he was so sweet and everything had been progressing well until two days ago. All of a sudden, H is withdrawing. I ask what's wr
Good question Melissa Am I consistent?? I think I am getting better at it.. Well today I noticed that I am working on being a more emphatic listener with everyone.. telling myself to STFU and listen, listen and not be thinking about what to say nex
wonka, i have been looking for your thread to catch up with you… it is closed. how are you??? yes, complete minefield… i have learned that match.com in my area is a hotbed of incestuous lesbian Rs.. ugh. live and learn. lesson of the day: stay
Wow, I'm sure a lot of you have been hit with this winter storm but it sure has been a doozy! On Thursday they were predicting nasty icy roads for Friday, so our office stayed closed Friday. Good thing too, because the roads were terrible. I slept in
RT, wow, incredible job at holding your tongue… how in the world did you do it? i have been searching for invisible duct tape for a long time…how you held your tongue on the adult statement is beyond belief. i am so impressed. your dialogue remi
Thank you Job. I agree, I must just follow his lead. Just for clarification, he was the one to state he would be staying at the house. I just looked happy and said OK. A part of me is still expecting him to not stay at the house. I agree, he st