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Hi Barry, Sounds like mixed news. Great news for you, not so hot with the wife. You've done a lot of work and I would agree that your conscience is clean, you really did stand by your marriage and try to work things out. Good work, I applaud you and
Lord, I pray for Your will in me so that I may do Your will through me. Hold me up when I'm afraid. Give me words when I fail. Give me strength when I want to run. Give me courage when I want to hide. Your will, not mine. In Jesus name, AMEN.
Originally Posted By: NittyI wanted to add: I've spent some time studying Mark 10: 4-11 (natch, considering my sitch). Every time I read it I get the same thing out of it. Some of us humans have such hard hearts that they see D as a permissible way
Ignore it, do not respond at all. I feel your pain with halloween, I'm absolutely dreading what I may see come monday. Best I can offer is block your W off social media (i recently learned this can be done discreetly) enjoy the weekend with your ki
"My W is also very interested in what I say to others. I have taken the same approach to be open and honest about it. Since I know she will find out everything eventually, I am careful to only build her up when discussing her actions and our R w
Originally Posted By: NittyDamn, that's tough, Caliguy. First, on the Catholic issue. Talk to a priest. Talk to a couple of priests! Get a number of opinions. Change is afoot in the Church. Here's a news article about possible changes the Pope may
Hi RD Sorry...but did she choose to move out originally? How was that decision made? How did the kids take it...were they resentful towards her or you? What did you tell them was the cause? This is of great interest to me as it may happen with u
Congratulations on what you've done so far. It's extremely difficult to participate to the dismantlement of our R. Getting to a point where we can do it is already a tremendous progress. I admire that you did it and you should be proud of yourself.
A month ago my wife comes to me and pleads for marriage counseling because she's having "crazy thoughts." She does not know if she can trust me to "save her." I do not try to understand anything she says. We are right in the
Originally Posted By: suckerpunchThank you, Rick and JS. I am slowly building my confidence, but it is not to the point where it needs to be. Perhaps it has never been as strong as it should, but in certain aspects of my life I feel almost cocky. I
Thanks, Maybell. You have so much inside you that's loving and giving and pure, it's a d@mn shame we allow others to decide what we let out because we're afraid. We had the talk with S21 and the sky didn't fall, he didn't walk out, he listened. We'
(posting here because I can't say it otherwise) Dear H, I miss you and I love you. I miss that I can't say that to you - and haven't in 5 months. Lately I've been doing well in your absence but tonight - while attending a fundraiser ball in an atte
I am so sorry CaliGuy- my H only had an EA but that was devastating enough, I can't even imagine how you are feeling. Sending ((hugs))! I agree with Georgiabelle though- don't make any rash decisions based on your emotional response in the moment. F
I wanted to add: I've spent some time studying Mark 10: 4-11 (natch, considering my sitch). Every time I read it I get the same thing out of it. Some of us humans have such hard hearts that they see D as a permissible way to escape their marriage (y
I need to get better at knowing when I've strayed out of mine. But it has really weirded me out, that I haven't had a conversation with him in a month, and in a way that's ok, and that I don't know who he is. Like, he's this guy I share my kids with,
One other thing, really think about how much power you give him over how you see you. Be the person you want to be, work on your stuff, walk your path. He's either decide he's like to walk beside you or not. If he's not a man who can walk beside