Mr Bond...thanks for the input. I agree that it can be done but that it is harder when she is here. Then again, if she were not here, it would be easy to detach but that would not be good for our R/M either. This morning, my W mentioned that she is
Quote:I don't believe that you ARE that way. I feel that you ALLOW yourself to be that way... Saying that you just "are" , allows you to use that excuse anytime you don't want to face yourself.... I agree, I for sure don't want to face m
So I meet Clark at football practice last night and guess what? HE IS WEARING HIS WEDDING RING! He hasn't had it on since April. Someone is serious about making this work. I am quite nervous. What are we discussing this weekend? Is it stuff I want
Hey, Ahoy, I'm just checking in so you know I was here, because you're always so generous about responding to me. I don't have any wisdom to impart, except to note that your situation is still really new, and there's a lot of processing left to go. H
Just checking in, not too much new with my sitch. Not a whole lot of communication with H. I could really use some advice regarding this. I feel like the lack of communication is not a good thing but following DB rules I know I shouldn't initiat
Yes, feelings are feelings and it's best not to dwell on them but, that said, when the same feelings keep coming up they are telling us something. It's a fine line between letting them go and ignoring them.
I need advice. H and I overall have been doing well. He complied with my requests and was showing me with actions that he was committed to me and our M. In spite of that, I had a rough weekend and he got pretty angry with me. He is going through some
Hi mirage, LT and Mighty, Thanks everyone. I realize that you are all right on the mark. It has just been a very stressing few days and this was just the "cherry on top" as they say. I got ANOTHER notice from the IRS that contradicts a perv
I really don't want to celebrate it, I'd prefer if my mind would let it go completely. I was almost there this year dang it! I hear you kat. Yes, my feelings are valid but they are just that, feelings. That doesn't mean there has to be any act
Originally Posted By: ShiningI'm starting to feel it more around female friends, too. Disconnected, I don't fit in...exactly what GB said. I feel myself acting as though I'm "not one of them", and I pull back. I wonder if it comes off th
Stealth, It takes time to get responses. I agree with shakspr, go visit other posts and chime in occasionally. Once you are off moderation your posts will be seen faster and you will start to see more information flow your way. I visit people who
Thanks twinmom and gg, it's just all so twisted and yes I agree one hundred percent, only interactions will be about the kids. do wah often say things like I'll always love you but there's no chance we're getting back together? that's the bit I don't
Do you want to celebrate it? Do it. Get a card, make a special dinner. It is still an anniversary. You can't continue to push down these feeling and say it doesn't matter when it has been obvious for years that it does. Create the life you want.
i bought Roses and put a card on it . Thank you for the 27 years together and our two beautiful sons . love Dawgy . I put it on the kitchen counter last night after she went to bed and I left extra early this morning before she got up . I will see wh
Just venting........ Tomorrow is that day again. It would have been our 21st anniversary. UGH. I have done better this year though. I haven't been dwelling on it for a week or more beforehand. It's only this morning that it hit me like a ton of
Good morning. Journaling this morning, H was out last night, got home late. The girls and I had a fine evening, picked out a paint color for the bathroom. H says it's too dark. In the past I would have quickly and totally caved in to the color he
I blew it this morning So I sent a text to my W thanking her for her advice in how to handle my resignation. I resigned from my job this morning. She replied that she's always been my biggest supporter and is proud of me. She asked if it felt good.