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Originally Posted By: ForGumpOriginally Posted By: Lex23i'm sure she could do it. I guess I didn't make my question clear. I was asking whether your W is mature enough and has the life skills to be an independent adult and a parent. It sounds like s
Originally Posted By: HaWhoOkay, first of all 2 (TWO) gym memberships on each coast?!? Umm, didn't he realize there are national gyms out there like 24 Hour Fitness? Sheesh . . . still recovering from THAT brilliant decision. yeah... that was
Originally Posted By: kml You do sound like you have issues with sugar, and don't forget that food sensitivities to things like gluten and dairy can really bloat you up. Also - your ex had an eating disorder. Seriously- a man that tall starving hi
Thank for the reply Bman. I will be following your sitch from now on. Yesterday while W was at work she called me and asked if I wanted to go with her and the boys for breakfast with Santa. We do this every year but I had totally forgot about it.
thanks Cali .. your support means a lot. Good perspective! Oddly, or maybe not so oddly, he's done spewing. Why spew when you're getting everything you want? It's the echoes of the spews that reverberate the loudest. Make sense? Time to turn of
yes, i completely relate. we are nearing the 20 month mark and it is easier. my son needs to spend time with both of us. i had to change my way of looking at it from losing my son to sharing him. (i'm an only child; i do not share well with oth
HI 2Tours, I know that this is puzzling. I know that you want an answer. I'm not sure your wife even knows the answer. I read recently that the best thing we can do for our own peace of mind is stop trying to get inside their heads. Someone e
Firstly that has to be one of the longest "nothing to report" that I have ever read!!! You repeatedly mentioned "slow and steady". For you these are good synonyms for PATIENCE and CONSISTENCY. So for you yes to slow and steady
Sara, Look SH and Blu have really created food for thought here. you add to this too. However this Quote:I've been doing it all wrong. Is utter Bullsh!t. You have not been doing to wrong. You have been trying to get it right. That involves being
You guys are right, I've been doing it all wrong. I've gone counter to DBing practices and have actually done some huge mistakes. I'e been pursuing, pressuring, setting expectations. I've completely lost my way. This has had the predictable outcomes
So nothing to report really. Just working, GAL, pretty detached. Still get the odd pang of missing W but I'm okay with it. It passes. I see her pretty much every day on the kids drop. Interactions are generally good. Today a little jokey. Sometimes j
FTaking a few minutes to mention two things today. I am just after dropping my sons to school and I met a mother we know. We chatted. I asked how her son and husband are. She is moving out this weekend!! That is the SIXTH couple we know in this smal
Hi Billy, I am sorry to be reading your story on here - it sounds very similar to mine. I am also awaiting the W to move out and the fear of telling our sons is horrible. I agree about being able to handle the pain within ourselves but putting the k
SBJ, I noticed you use a lot of TRYs in your posts. Just do it (said the good people at NIKE) and DO or ON NOT, there is no TRY (said Yoda). Please be aware that the neighbor approach is IMO the best way to go, it is a long term approach, so do not
Yes! It does go in positives and negatives. We had our first counseling the session the other day and feel mostly hopeful. The counselor near the close of the session had us rate our commitment to the marriage on a scale of 1 to 5, 1 being least c
Job, It has been 11 months since H stopped pushing/forcing me for divorce, he never mentioned that after this Jan. but he isn't coming home. I don't think the relationship between the OW and him is going on. He texted back and pay the internet serv
Originally Posted By: CoconutThis old spouse, lmfao, doodler you are too much... It really is ridiculous that my state doesn't have legal separations, so for me to remove my legal attachment to her and any debt she accrues I have to pay the fees a
(((Cheesy))) I'm so sorry. It's so hard to lose someone on top of all that you are going through. It can strip us of our own sense of security and leave us vulnerable to the world. The pain is indescribable. When I found out that my H was having an
I honestly believe 99% of WAS go to MC for the single reason of saying they really tried, and they use a "professional" as yet another excuse to add to their repertoire of blame, spinning, and obfuscation. So, personally, I would give VERY
SH, I agree with what you say. I admit there are times I hold back from posting things because I don't want to rub people the wrong way. I have noticed that Sara, Cherry, Surfer, and JksD have developed an awesome circle of support. Perhaps others do