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Came home from work yesterday. W met me in kitchen and calmly said "I have paperwork for you". Petition for D. Also a temporary restraining order forbidding me from moving / selling / hiding any marital assets or our money. W found listenin
I think you should prepare for these interactions ahead of time (ie seeing her on the street and a random text). They will happen so know how you will handle it. I was in your same situation more or less, they happen and it will happen again. In r
You're scared and you want to run, but you like him and you want to stay. It's that approach-avoidance thing. I had similar issues and my doctor recommended a lobotomy, but the insurance company wouldn't pay for it. My recommendation is to take t
(((Cherry))) I haven't posted lately, but I have been here reading, and please know that I am silently sitting in your corner. My words to you remain the same. You WILL get through this. You are beautiful, you are rising above the obstacles he kee
d@mn - I wish we had an edit button and now I'm clocking up the post count again. Before anyone asks, before W I did indeed have a handful girlfriends and had some success in meeting women. They came in 2 categories though. Ones who after 1 date s
Originally Posted By: darknesFor you to be able to grow stronger, the key is for you to take her out of the center of your world. So its better not to be discussing all of the inner details of your marriage. I think it's fine to portray yourself as
Originally Posted By: JRuss Yes, in this moment, things would be "easier" as it got swept under the rug, but you'd always know it was under there. NO SWEEPING under the rug. TRUST but VERIFY. You need complete transparency. I agree w
I just read crw's thread regarding relationship while divorcing and couldn't help comparing. So My husband left me and we have been physically separated for over a year. But the divorce proceedings are only just starting. I started dating someo
great advice guys, as always, I appreciate it. fwiw, I was able to check out her phone and didn't see any A activity. I also checked her mail and other app, and didn't see anything. I was sure I'd fid something. I know, snooping bad, but I did it
darknes / job - thanks as well for the visit. I was going to ask how I can become her Plan A but I've thought a bit and I think I know what you would say and it jives with some advice that Cat gave a while ago too. It's tough for me to accept and e
Do you ever question if things would be better if you were free to find someone else. Not that I want someone else. But i wonder in this one life, shouldn't we have the courage to find someone who loves us and supports us fully? I love my husband,
Originally Posted By: AndrewPOriginally Posted By: darknesOriginally Posted By: AndrewP from lostasf's threadFor the rest of the world I feel that I have to put on a bit of an act which is tough when you are hurting inside so badly. Saw this as well
I don't know that anyone is going to be able to tell you what you should do. You have to figure out what you want. And that might change. You might get down the road a ways and realize you can't full reconcile, because you don't have closure, trus
Vapo...as for the EA, she never admitted anything, nor did he, but this guy was someone that we welcomed into our home as a family friend. He didn't have too many friends, so we opened our home in a Christian way to him. I won't go too much into his
Ephesians 6:10-18 New American Standard Bible (NASB) The Armor of God 10 Finally, be strong in the Lord and in the strength of His might. 11 Put on the full armor of God, so that you will be able to stand firm against the schemes of the devil. 12 Fo
Ciluzen - sorry you had a rough trip down memory lane. We all know that feeling. Yes, none of us are without fault when it comes to our marriages. But once depression is in the mix, perception is completely skewed. You can't really "work&quo
Rose888 / Ginger1 - You are bang on. I do have to work harder on the STFU stuff which fortunately is generally easy because I have practically no interaction with my vanisher MLCer. If there are no words at all it's harder for me to say something s
Originally Posted By: nuttsOh man, I feel like I'm in full paranoia mode. She hasn't done anything really to make me think she's doing anything underhanded, but, if I think about her, and what she might be doing, my mind goes to bad places. I guess
Ok so W and I have talked around the A without talking about. I said I just need to share that if any communication occurs with anyone that will be a problem. I let her know I did not trust her. She let me know that there will be. I further contact
Andrew, Please, please stop telling your wife that she can come back home into your arms at any time. She already knows that you love her and want her back. The more you say this, the more determined she's going to be to pull away. You do not wan
Welcome to the MLC Forum. I'm sorry you are here, but we've got a lot of wonderful people posting here who will be happy to come by and visit w/you, i.e., support you, give advice and/or opinions, as well as just to talk about life in general. So, I'