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Jump to new posts Re: My 180 proposal WAW by JimKao @ Yesterday at 10:31 PM

Squiggy, Thank you for the input. That is my worst fear is her moving on with OM. I know she has "friends" I would hate to put my boys through that. She says she would not but I don't trust anything she says at this time because she is
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Jump to new posts Re: NYGal: time to GAL by - MB - @ Yesterday at 10:21 PM

NYGal, it sounds like you answered yourself! If you're not completely ready to move on from your W and start fresh somewhere new, then it doesn't sound like something that you REALLY want to do. Would be easier on you to just stay put for now. I
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You can set up an account with a different name if you want. You can deactivate it anytime you want. And you can then see the divorce busting posts and join our little chat! There are all sorts of privacy settings. I never post anything or get notifi
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Jump to new posts Re: REALLY trying to detach...but GALing regardless!#3 by Tyler12 @ Yesterday at 10:16 PM

MB. See what others say first maybe, I'm in the do it camp tho. Why not get back in touch with old friends. Get closer with family. I don't talk a lot to friends on fb, i do however love seeing pictures of people, where they are, how their fami
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Jump to new posts Re: My 180 proposal WAW by Squiggy @ Yesterday at 10:15 PM

I'm not going to speak much beyond about the boys, but I will say that you need to stop waffling between being a doormat and being a father/man. You need some stiff boundaries and to stop arguing with her. It's only making it worse. And don't send
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Jump to new posts Re: WW, My Addiction, Patience, and Hope - III by trumpet @ Yesterday at 10:14 PM

I got hit with a 2 X 4 in my counseling session today. I just so happened to be on Matthew 18 today as well. The Parable of the Unmerciful Servant. I am the servant. I have been given a new life - without porn. It changed the way I see the world,
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Jump to new posts Re: Need help. Threading water, must learn to swim. by Tyler12 @ Yesterday at 10:09 PM

Hey G8R. Just stopping in to catch up and see how things are going. W may be getting upset because reality is setting in a bit, just remember actions before words. Sounds like you are dealing with a lot and standing your ground. It''s not easy to
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Jump to new posts Re: REALLY trying to detach...but GALing regardless!#3 by - MB - @ Yesterday at 10:09 PM

Originally Posted By: Tyler12So here is my take. If you want to go onto FB because YOU want to do it! It's your life. Don't live in fear of what H thinks or says. However if it is something you are doing because of H or to get a reaction from him
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Jump to new posts Re: NYGal: time to GAL by NYGal @ Yesterday at 10:06 PM

How did you know, Painter? I applied for the job right around the holidays which were so incredibly stressful while she was away trying to decide between us. Did I ever say on here that at one point she said she could flip a coin and decide that way?
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Jump to new posts Re: Time for a new direction by mleigh4 @ Yesterday at 09:57 PM

Thanks Job. I always love your feedback. My son and fur babies are my world Don't worry, my expectations from H are very low. I am just getting tired of accepting that, as I know I deserve much better, MLC or not.... Very busy busy!! And still go
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Jump to new posts Re: Day by Day..Hour by Hour 4 by NYGal @ Yesterday at 09:56 PM

He definitely hasn't met anyone. He's trying to make you jealous, that's all. Don't give it a second thought. He needs some serious counseling to get off this train wreck.
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Jump to new posts Re: REALLY trying to detach...but GALing regardless!#3 by Tyler12 @ Yesterday at 09:55 PM

Fb to me is a double edged sword. On one hand it is awesome to keep I touch with people you can't always see and little things like pictures of friends and their kids etc. on the other hand W gave me a large hatred of fb. Not because A started in
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Jump to new posts Re: New night(s) by trumpet @ Yesterday at 09:54 PM

Kyrie, If the cards didn't get dealt in the way they were, I might still be using porn. It was a crutch for me; I used it as a stress reliever, a way to combat the sexless marriage, a way to feel good about myself (which it did - for a few minutes,
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Jump to new posts Re: The Start of my Happiness 2 by - MB - @ Yesterday at 09:47 PM

Originally Posted By: Tyler12Some days I feel I am doing good detaching. Others not so much. That's completely normal. You're forcing yourself to do something that doesn't feel natural and that you don't want. You're going to have good days and bad
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Jump to new posts Re: The Start of my Happiness 2 by Tyler12 @ Yesterday at 09:45 PM

Wanted to add. W had a bag of little crafts and finger paintings from daycare S3 had done when I picked them up. She said that I could have them and take them home. I said ok, your place getting full of them already? Haha. She said no, these are t
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Jump to new posts Re: New couple, Same old story by TxHubby @ Yesterday at 09:44 PM

Originally Posted By: Ralph88Just to clarify, I'm here to rant and vent. I don't want to move out, but W said she needed space, and to tell you the truth, I did too. She tells you ILYBNILWY and now needs space? There's someone else. You can't wo
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Jump to new posts Re: Ghostbusting Round 5 Detaching my feelings by otw @ Yesterday at 09:41 PM

In sorry to say this but i am shocked. I know for each there own. But no way in he?! On my watch. some things are a little clearer now.
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Jump to new posts Re: When the goal is positivity by Painter @ Yesterday at 09:40 PM

In order to keep things improving with H, I have tried to really detach from any behavior I find hurtful or frustrating. I know that I have a tendency to think that H's behavior be about me, when most of the time it isn't personal at all. What seem
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Jump to new posts Re: New couple, Same old story by sandi2 @ Yesterday at 09:38 PM

Don't take this the wrong way........I think you are making it too hard on yourself by believing you should be "nice" to your WW. Perhaps i should have asked your definition, before I started this post. It just seemed you were expecting a
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Jump to new posts Re: Rednail 2.0 by Squiggy @ Yesterday at 09:32 PM

First an L and now a career plan? Feels better having a plan, huh? I work with an APRN and my son's godmother is a retired RN. So many doors open for you as you climb up. Get all sexy for it and enjoy the attention. You're 24 and have a full lif
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Jump to new posts Re: When the goal is positivity by Fo.2 @ Yesterday at 09:29 PM

Julie, I just wanted to let you know that I experienced a few waves of rage today and I thought of you! I also realized that rage feels a lot better than depression or rejection. Could be a method of self protection. So, the goal is posi
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Jump to new posts Re: Moving Forward while stuck in the snow by Feyth @ Yesterday at 09:27 PM

Fo- I'm so glad to hear that you are doing well! Keep up that forward momentum and continue to find the good in each day!
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Jump to new posts A coworker got "I need space" from hubby... by TxHubby @ Yesterday at 09:25 PM

...then, of course, found out he was cheating just a week later. When will people wise up? We're all adults, please use your brain. If your spouse or SO says "I need space" or "I need a break" or "I need time alone" w
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Jump to new posts Re: REALLY trying to detach...but GALing regardless!#3 by - MB - @ Yesterday at 09:24 PM

Not sure how the first part of my post got cut off. That's weird! It went something like this.... I do not have FB. The reason that I don't have it is because H hated FB and never wanted me on it. He always said that it was because FB is only for
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Jump to new posts Re: REALLY trying to detach...but GALing regardless!#3 by - MB - @ Yesterday at 09:19 PM

if he found out. My attitude may be changing a bit now. I mean, he's having a freaking A and certainly didn't stop to think about my opinion or feelings on the matter! So, why am I so scared to get FB? Would it push him farther away? CAN you b
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