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I have read many of your posts, but never looked at your signature... I would have guessed many years had passed for you since your D, and this is how you collected so much wisdom. I realized today how recent it was when I read this: Originally Poste
Originally Posted By: cbtdad My situation is all about time It's about showing real changes so I'm just being patient I'm not sure my W is to the point of "looking for changes", she's still in the roller coaster realm and barely reaching
ok SH - thanks for checking. one thing after another as it looks like we may need to sell the house as it may be too much of a burden for me to take on. one more thing to deal with! I've been reading your thread and it gives me hope to see how posi
Hey Pinn, Thank for the support. I was down all day today, not great when you need the energy to get things done to move. I could hardly move. My friend last night said dont let her mess with me like that. That is what she did, was trying to man
I understand your feelings. There's a lot Of issues that your W needs to deal with...you can'take do it for her. I respect your decision to focus on your kids and you. They will need the stability. Are you seeing an IC? Although you seem to be doing
betterm, I understand; it's the rock and hard place thingy. Thus, the name of my thread "conundrum." I wish I could offer up some good advice, but right now I'm caught up in boxes and mustaches (i.e. I'm useless). I hope you can get som
thank you sandi. yesterday was 3 weeks NC for them. she has been very open emotionally with me the last several days. she says that all the hurt and anger is gone. and she has said several times that she thinks im a good person, that there is nothing
James, If that's the case, she probably knows that you think it's silliness (my words - sorry) so she'd know that you're trying to placate her. If you're ever out and about and you see that perfect thing, maybe a chocolate chip cookie, then get it
She's knows that I want to start talking to her face-to-face against, but she's afraid of doing so (words of coaches) because she's so fearful of everything repeating itself. The opposite of what I'd do to get what "I" want, would be to not
Well the K graduation was fun. S6 always has a smile when he sees mom. I question when I see things like this if I am doing the right thing. He is not as happy as often with me. Not going to read into it though. STBX wanted to exchange cars half
Had a great day today, went to Innsbruck, Austria and spent the day walking around the city. It was such a beautiful day too, the surrounded by the Alps. It was so cool, just walking where ever I felt like. Now, I'm just sitting at home, a thunderst
betterm, I'm trying to think like a DB coach (notice, no mention of boxes). I think a DB coach would ask, "What kind of response would she normally expect from you?" Then do the opposite. Or maybe get some boxes and a permanent marker
My approach was always brutal honesty. Maybe too brutal, I didn't filter enough what I said. I didn't use the "I feel...." approach, I used the "you have to..." approach too often. Examples: You have to stop spending so much. When
Quote:What I do know, is that all the advice I'm getting is confusing me. Give her freedom, drop her, watch her cheat, focus on yourself. Putting my foot down is the only thing that has had any effect. You continue to adjust what you are doing based
You both have to like the MC or it won't work So that's a good move I know in my current situation I've taken the approach of just being friends with the W. I haven't pushed for "time together" or instigated sex I'm just working on myself