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Hey eric, OK, a lot here...... Yeah, I may not be totally used to it but I get that the "betrayal" thing is likely to keep happening. As far as feeling compassion, it's hard, as when I do I find it hard to do what I think is best for me. It
You read the books right? My position hasn't flip flopped. You're just not getting it. This goes along the lines of validation. You owned up to what you did was wrong which was fine. You're supposed to give support to your W. Fine. BUT that support
Im vague on some of the details as my memory is very different to how my W seems to recall it. Or in the case of what I said on the day her dad died I genuinely have no idea. I know I was in a bad mood (and i know there is not an adequate excuse) and
I'm not really at a place where i can take a trip without feeling like everything I see and do I'd want to share with H and D. For some reason I am NOT in a good place today. I was fine this morning. I came home and took a 10 minute nap and woke
Originally Posted By: WetMy question this morning is, when we turn our walk away wives over to the Lord, what should we be praying for them? It seems controlling to me to ask God to keep the WAW away from sin, infidelity, the other man, and other &q
Mrbond - I'm a little confused as to your stance in my situation. I think back to the very first time I posted here 3 months ago and you jumped all over me for only thinking about myself, and not the pain my W went through to get to this point. You
Originally Posted By: jim0987So the complaints I've managed to ascertain (In no particular order) - I put the kids and my work before her - I wouldn't 'let' her be a SAHM - I didn't help enough with the nursery drop offs and pick ups - I was never t
Funny thing is, that week I was looking on the dating sites, I exchanged a few emails with a couple of women, but after about 10 emails back & forth I clued in that they were both lying to me, faking who they were and where they lived - fake phot
First off ... sorry you are here Read the books for one. I am no vet .. but I would start looking inward at what you have done to not fill her needs ... another good book I would suggest is The 5 Love Languages. Your sitch is not good, but so many o
Thank you all-it's a very confusing one. Sandi-your input is very thorough!! read DB & DR arrived today. I have also read some other useful resources. I have 3 sessions with a DB coach and but at the moment I am very conflicted. My steps so far
Originally Posted By: jim0987Thanks nitty. I'm going to keep trying to be positive around her its just difficult as it feels like a continuation of how we got here. She was always in a bad mood and so I tried to compensate by being really positive f
Ok, so I broke the rules, I came home from being gone over the weekend and went to the garage to sit, (it was h b-day). I really didn't have anything much for him but I did cook him breakfast that morning and told him "happy birthday".
I think the memory thing is a side effect of the MLC crazy .... my W can not get our schedule with the S down yet .. 10 months later, I have him the exact same 3 nights a week, she also seems to be having $$ issues ... had me transfer some over as sh
Well Kat, I actually wasn't going to contact her because I assumed she was a caregiver. These ladies can live very difficult lives...I know first hand. But, when I saw a lady not want to go further with my best friend 'cuz he did "physical labou
Several years ago, I was in an SSM and came very close to divorce. I read books such as Michele's SSM book. I figured out that I needed to do a pretty strong 180 and told my wife that I would not have sex with her until she learned how to touch me.
Hi Eric, Per the agreement we have shared custody with the kids staying with me for 5 nights and 2 with her. Should the kids call because of a crisis I have the right to go in and get them. She has the right to participate in decisions, but I have f
hi Ganb8te and Maybell! Thanks for the advice and checking in! I agree Maybell that we are in a weird pattern. You are so right. However I am wondering if I am causing some of the weirdness in the pattern, as I am always very hesitant to meet up wit
I think I have already violated most of the 37 rules. I did everything wrong. So I need to know if I should continue what I've been doing or get started on the 37 rules. Here's my situation: 7 weeks ago I discovered my wife was cheating. 1200+ texts