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I must say I really need to be thankful. I spent some time today ready a few other people's posts today and I realize how lucky I have it. I read many stories of people who are struggling with affairs, long distances, interfering relatives, blood thi
Melo & Rose8888. Thanks for your post. I must say I really need to be thankful. I spent some time today ready a few other people's posts today and I realize how lucky I have it. I read many stories of people who are struggling with affairs, long
Ralph, That's true. My H did and said some ridiculous cr-p when he was in the fog. It's almost laughable now! And he easily got a rise out of me! But with practice and preparation, comes improvement! It is also a part of detachment, to take back the
Okay, maybe i got the meaning of detaching wrong. I thought detach meant to detach my emotions from her. So i'd be less needy, reactive and always thinking of her. I have been doing things for myself and she has just recently mentioned that she has
Detaching is not about giving up on her. It is focusing on you and making yourself better and more attractive. Go back and read the threads on detaching. Make improvements for yourself and in turn if your W sees those improvements then you may hav
This afternoon I get home from work. My night again with the boys. Went to pick up prescriptions for S7. Texted STBXW that pharmacy lost the script. STBXW gets all upset because I dropped it off yesterday when she said she would take care of it.
You cannot break her side of the pattern, because you have no control over how she will react or what she will do. Read about codependency, because this is an example of that. The good news is that you CAN control everything that you say and do. You
thats the thing, i have pulled the rug out from under her. i havent been nice lately. i have been very distanced. she uses every oportunity, to talk to me. and every time, she says its over.....and i say ok, do what you gotta do. and then i get a t
DBnoob, Man, that's a rough story. Listen to Lim and the advice you have received. KEEP POSTING, it is therapeutic and good to get as much advise as possible. SEE A LAWYER ASAP!! You can probably get a consultation for free or fairly cheap. You
Natus, Temp checking is her taking action to see if it pushes any buttons to get you to react negatively so she has more excuses to spew all over you and justify why the M will not work. Hope some of the vets can explain/define more appropriately.
Can someone help me out, What are the signs of W temp checking? or the like. Im a little confused at my wifes behaviour, light cheery and jovial (with me) during the day then ice queen at night. I know i shouldnt be reading into it much and focus on
Quote:I think part of this process will be healing from H and also exploring the unresolved feelings for exbf at some point before I can move on. Ummm....last time I looked, exBF wasn't beating down your door. Let's face it - if he really was the
Posting an update. Had a realization yesterday. I was very out of sorts, couldn't figure out why.. Felt very down and negative. Talking on phone to my brother from another mother helped clarify things. I was so down because I'm heartbroken when my
Phoebe and Blu, thanks so much for the good thoughts! Honestly, in the past, H has put more effort into this area. I've been selfish and clueless. It's a bad combination. I have had my "come to Jesus" moment and have seen my failures in th
Originally Posted By: ImAwake If the end goal is to have a better relationship and be supportive of my wife and get the same support back...at what point should I start giving the good things back to her? The affection and love that I have for her no
Hi Phoebe, Thank you for checking in on me. It was a challenging day, but it is going to end on a great note. I have both of my girls here and we are excited to have some fun together. I will journal this evening some of my challenges, but now