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Zelda, I've thought about this a lot. You wonder if her change of heart was precipitated by OM jilting her. Of course it is. The ONLY way we EVER stood a chance is for the affair to end. That could only happen if he jilts her or she has an epiphany
Someone, tell me what this looks like to you, please: I'm getting reports that STBX is now a gym rat, and driving around like it is his job. As if it wasn't just two months ago, he claimed he had no ability to do these kinds of things due to the acc
Originally Posted By: jedi79Originally Posted By: ricgomeshe said D bomb 7/2014 Hello ricgome, Is this date accurate? If so, what's happened over the last 10 months? I'm in the same boat as you, W moving to her own apartment this weekend and it's
Thanks you guys, well I have always been the caretaker in our Marriage, I have done most of the cooking, the taking care of the kids, and I would always be angry at her since I felt I would do everything, eventually she got tired of it and decided it
Kramer, I just worry if it hadn't been for the jilting from OM...IDK, this seems like a reactionary thing. I truly, truly hope for the best, and that your W doesn't want to go to dinner bc your emotional comfort and even keel is salve for her own s
Update... W told me yesterday she would be going out of town for a friends event which happen to also be the home of the OM. I didn't react and simply said ok. A complete 180 for me... When I woke up this morning she made me a shake for breakfast
Originally Posted By: Georgia Bulldogs 2. I don't think you should ask her what her plans are. It's weak to let her dictate the plan. IF you are going to spend time together (and why not take more of her time with your children) then come up wit
Originally Posted By: T0324Defacto- You really have come a long way but I think you're still 'stuck' and I really believe your W know she still has you on the rope. Now that you know she is in contact with OM what are you going to do? What's your
Mighty. Thats some event .... I might be looking at this whole thing through a different set of glasses .... no .. no 2x4 from me but following your story and giving this some thought I thought I would share my viewpoint. Recall that we all come
Mozza, I wouldn't worry about W seeing your tears, you're only human after all and kids shows are emotional for anybody never mind with everything else going on. I think you did the right thing deciding to sit together and put on a united front for
Hi sweet "E", *Hugs* Sounds like a good idea you have--good for you! I hope you have fun!! And thanks for the kind wish. Since I'm in the midst of seeing my W for the 1st time in 7 months, I feel like I'm being selfish...not much t
Had an ok day so far today. All the advice is spot on. I think that I have to accept that what she believes is her reality. That she is telling me the "truth" as she sees it. I think trying to analyze it or trying to figure out if she i
Hi mate You miss my point. She's not interested in R night now. Perhaps may never be. But if you look at Kramers thread his W has bottomed out and started playing games with him. Hopefully it will work out for him and his W. In my sitch. If I were
Maybe let me explain where we are. She saw a lawyer Weds. She wants to start drawing up financial settlement papers through mediation. I would rather do this than have her file first. So she's asking where I am with respect to finding a lawyer for
Wishing you and your blended family much happiness. Sounds like you've planned a lot & are prepared for some of the challenges you may encounter. Remember to keep your sense of humor and have fun! Barb
Ellie- Well... at the time, she was not thrilled. By the time we got home she kind of got a kick out of it. Then she told me she told her close friends... who also got a kick out of it. I'm so embarrassed. But honestly, it's reality. It's life. A
Originally Posted By: DefactoHeavy D, Thanks for the feedback. I totally agree we need a structured parenting plan. Right now, because my STBX works overnight and I work during the day, I watch the kids when she works and she has them when she's off
Mighty, They are feeding off of each other's drama. It's a thrill to them to keep the drama going. The more she can say that you are stalking her, the more he'll come to her defense and get on your case about it....it doesn't matter that you aren't
See???? I called it. It's about every three months for a year and a half that SOMETHING crazy happens. Actually... it's been like that for almost three years! But specifically in this sitch for 1.5 that I could concisely state at this point. Ugh