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I am glad your birthday turned out nice and he made the effort to make it about YOU. I know you just want to nudge him toward the emotional reconnection and more physical stuff... but he may just still be in that state where he doesn't think he de
Also, what computer are you using to talk to us? Is he able to read what you are writing? I think it was Job who made a good point...is he reading your posts here and that's how he came up with the drunk idea? If this is the case, the FIRST thing is
My D17 has her final school speech night tonight. She has been at the school since she was 4 years old and will have all the valedictory stuff tonight. There is a celebratory supper for the final year girls and their parents afterwards. I am startin
Let's break it down: What's first? The rental deposit? How much do you have? Have much do you need? How about the stuff in the house. Maybe make a list of what you plan on taking. It gives you a starting point. I think you need to see what you ha
Am I misreading this? Could you explain what you wrote a little more. Does this mean you are moving? Not keeping the door open? What does that mean? Cadet, my apologies. Yes, it has been misunderstood. What I meant to say, quite poorly, is I cann
Love is a funny thing... it keeps us going when we want to or should stop in our tracks. The hurt, the pain, the insults, the abandonment all fail in comparison to love. Why do we keep going when the other has seemingly quit? HOPE... hope for a fut
Originally Posted By: tough spotHow do i detach when i still live with my wife? I have a pretty good grasp of the GAL, i think. How long do i wait to discuss our relationship, or do i just never discuss it unless she brings it up? Im wondering the
Wow, just found this thread and decided to post because I am also struggling, like you dingo, and was inspired by ccZ28's words on another thread: in fact, I sent a stupid email to my WAS a short time ago, longing to make a connection - still feelin
Originally Posted By: kmlDo you have a friend you could live with for a month or two while you save up deposits for a rental? Could you start an online business that you could do nights and weekends? Is there anything you make/ bake/ have specialize
Well, let's brainstorm. Do you have a friend you could live with for a month or two while you save up deposits for a rental? Could you start an online business that you could do nights and weekends? Is there anything you make/ bake/ have specialize
For me the biggest thing is love. In the same way my "H" feels compelled by his emotion to run off and be with someone else, my heart tells me I really do love him unconditionally. To slam the door and walk away would be contrary to the fee
I don't know. That's it. I always like to plan for the worst case scenario and now I have no idea. I guess I would have to get a better job but that is not a guarantee. Or get a second job. I'm still trying to brainstorm. I will cope no matter what.
Glad to hear your son enjoyed the market . Kids movies are great. I've got a load in our DVD collection and I'll sit and watch them with my son - something my H wouldn't do. Doesn't it make you feel good to have someone flirt with you .
I just received my copy of Mr. Nice guy as well. Are you doing the exercises as you go? Have you checked out the forum? As many others say.....He wrote the book for me! This is my 100% new area of focus. I need to be a strong MAN P.S.- My X and I
Backing up a little. I know you hung out on the DB website for awhile, but have you actually read the books? Why do you still fight with him? When he starts arguing about the things he's going through, do you argue back or do you patiently listen? H
How he makes it work is his problem. But you keep envisioning the worst possible disaster, but I haven't seen you come up with a single plan for how you will cope if that happens. I think if you made a plan for how you would survive the worst cas
Oh I'm not worried, I enjoy them The decorator came round tonight, he'd left his decorating pole here and he wants me to sort out putting an advert in the local Church parish magazine. I kept him at arms length tonight, no hugs lol. He asked me what
Hey Job, I can picture the frost on the pastures in Maryland... I used to play at the Tennis Barn and loved the drive. I have been job hunting this morning, followed up on the interviews, and am in contact with someone presently for a cosmetic coun
Originally Posted By: ScottCatPatientMan Some of those were my goals, other where just accomplishments. I've been telling myself for a long time now that I need to quit dipping, and Im glad I did. The Drinking thing was at first for my Wife, but no
I think H will have a sharp reality check when he finds out what he will need to pay me. I don't know how he is going to make this work unless he is sitting on a nest egg. He will fight me on support. He won't want to pay me a dime. WH
Hi BG. I was thinking about you today as well. I am sorry to hear your developments. I am sure that folks who are better at this than me will chime in but here are my thoughts. I don't know anything about retro but retreats are an artificial enviro