Should X's GF attend all childrens events? - 03/21/07 09:23 PM
Hey!
My X and I have been legally seperated for 4 yrs. but not divorced. My X has had a GF for alittle over a year now. I think they live together but X denies it since we had agreed to not live with anyone before M because of our 6 and 8 yr. old children.
Here's the problem: The GF feels "left out" if she isn't with my X 24/7. She wants to be everywhere my X is when he has the kids which is 2-3x/week. She wanted to be at the kids b-day parties, etc.. I obviously have a problem with that. It makes me very uncomfortable to be around her. My X and I have a good rapport but having her around me makes me hate my X and makes it difficult to be nice to him. So where do you draw the line or do you just suck it up? Their not engaged or married.
Thanks!
Nikatnight
My X and I have been legally seperated for 4 yrs. but not divorced. My X has had a GF for alittle over a year now. I think they live together but X denies it since we had agreed to not live with anyone before M because of our 6 and 8 yr. old children.
Here's the problem: The GF feels "left out" if she isn't with my X 24/7. She wants to be everywhere my X is when he has the kids which is 2-3x/week. She wanted to be at the kids b-day parties, etc.. I obviously have a problem with that. It makes me very uncomfortable to be around her. My X and I have a good rapport but having her around me makes me hate my X and makes it difficult to be nice to him. So where do you draw the line or do you just suck it up? Their not engaged or married.
Thanks!
Nikatnight