Moving on with life. - 08/27/06 08:29 PM
Hi all, I don't know if anyone will remember me or not. I have been on these boards for a long time and still come here though I am not DBing anymore. My D will be final Sept. 18th after 3 long years of being seperated. I did try to save my M, and learned alot about saving myself in the process.
I am almost done with college (grad. in 2 weeks), I have made a good life for myself, and I have forgiven my STBX for his incapability of being M. He is astounded at the changes I have made in my life and seems really jealous/envious of them.
I have been involved with a couple of guys but I think relationships are overrated. Everyone puts on a facade, and when you get to know the "real" them, it's a disappointment to say the least. I sometimes wonder if true love and committment really exist. I would love to have that fairytale dream of a life partner, but not at this point in my life. Too cynical! LOL.
I guess I am here to hopefully gain some insight on how to move on after the big D. I think I am doing a fairly good job of it but every little bit helps. I would love to hear from ppl who have found new loves that really are making it work. I need all the hope I can get.
Love to hear from those who might remember me. I have various threads here so feel free to look them up. God bless!
Debi
I am almost done with college (grad. in 2 weeks), I have made a good life for myself, and I have forgiven my STBX for his incapability of being M. He is astounded at the changes I have made in my life and seems really jealous/envious of them.
I have been involved with a couple of guys but I think relationships are overrated. Everyone puts on a facade, and when you get to know the "real" them, it's a disappointment to say the least. I sometimes wonder if true love and committment really exist. I would love to have that fairytale dream of a life partner, but not at this point in my life. Too cynical! LOL.
I guess I am here to hopefully gain some insight on how to move on after the big D. I think I am doing a fairly good job of it but every little bit helps. I would love to hear from ppl who have found new loves that really are making it work. I need all the hope I can get.
Love to hear from those who might remember me. I have various threads here so feel free to look them up. God bless!
Debi