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Comment on Defending Marriage by Jon Jones

Jon Jones — Sat, 28 Jan 2012 17:00:00 +0000

Great blog. Really like what you’re doing in your aim to help people. Keep up the good work!

Comment on New Year’s Resolutions For A Rocky Marriage by Joel Daugherty

Joel Daugherty — Mon, 02 Jan 2012 15:52:00 +0000

Wow! Great post! I’m currently going through a very tough time in my marriage right now and this is just the advice I needed! Thanks so much, Michele!

Comment on The Sex Starved Wife: Husband Not Interested in Sex? by wiggens

wiggens — Sat, 24 Dec 2011 17:18:00 +0000

My husband is not only no interested in sex but is not interested in me any more. We have been married 40 plus years and I’d say about 35 of those years have been sexless, no intimacy or affection. He says were just friends and not married. I don’t know for sure but I would bet he doesn’t even love me. We hadn’t slept together since or wedding night, in fact he built a apartment type thing in our lower level where he moved all his things. We never talk oru00a0 even see each other for daysu00a0. I know this isn’t my fault but I feel so ugly, and unwanted. I also thought all men were suppose to be animals when it came to sex. I don’t know what happen to my husband, but he wasn’t interested in any thing from get go. I should have left him but I have no kids and all of our relatives have passed on. I’ve acceptedu00a0 how my life will be even if I’am miserable. Just need a strong shoulder to cry on.u00a0

Comment on Ten Things You Need to Know About Affairs by Elenor Snow

Elenor Snow — Sun, 11 Dec 2011 21:29:00 +0000

Michele W-D saved my sanity and then my marriage.u00a0 Six or so years ago, my husband “fell in love elsewhere” (obsession really, not love). u00a0 I SO believed him when he said he *had* to divorce me so he could marry her that I was actually trying to help him win her!! {eye roll}u00a0 (And I’m one who always said if my husband cheated, I d’ be gone in a second!)u00a0 But HE was in such agony — bonded to this woman whom even he admitted could NOT suit him — that my heart bled nearly as much for his pain as my own! (I discovered I was capable of a depth of love I had never even imagined!)u00a0 nnMichele’s book(s) and then forum helped me realize that *I* wasn’t crazy, and that there was most assuredly a chance to win him back. By following her wisdom, I was able to wait him out while the chemical storm faded, and he ‘came back to his senses’ — was it easy? No no no!u00a0 Agonizing. nnWas it worthwhile? Oh yes!u00a0 Will I always carry the scars? Oh yes. But we had come so far in healing our marriage; we had repaired so much that we had not been willing to address before.u00a0u00a0 It was SO worth the pain of biting my tongue, of waiting him out as a *friend* and not as the scared, tormented, furious, hurt wife I ALSO was.u00a0 It took a long time and a lot of work to build a new marriage on the ashes of the destroyed one. nnI’m sorry, tbright1965, that yours was not a saveable marriage. I consider myself lucky that mine was.u00a0 I do think it’s worth trying, even if it hurts, even if it doesn’t work in the end.u00a0 nnMy husband died suddenly this past July — I cannot imagine how much worse I would be feeling if we had exited the marriage we both valued in fury and hurt, instead of managing to build a new one that was moving forward toward a happy and loving old age together.u00a0 I will love and miss Michael Ray forever, whether I marry again or not, and I thank Michele W-D from the bottom of my heart for giving my those precious last few years with a loving husband who had turned back toward our marriage because in large part of her work!

Comment on 11 Tips for the Spouse With a Lower Sex Drive by Vj

Vj — Thu, 24 Nov 2011 09:16:00 +0000

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Comment on Why You Haven’t Seen Change in Your Marriage (and What You Can Do to Fix It) pt. 2 by Why You Haven't Seen Change in Your Marriage (and What You Can Do to Fix It) pt. 3 | Divorce Busting

Mon, 21 Nov 2011 18:31:00 +0000

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Comment on Ten Things You Need to Know About Affairs by Anonymous

Anonymous — Mon, 10 Oct 2011 14:46:00 +0000

Having tried to win an unfaithful wife back before, there is no way I’d try it again.u00a0 It’s simply not worth it.u00a0 nnIf your spouse doesn’t value you enough to be honest and put boundaries in place to keep from having affairs, then she’s not a quality wife.nnIt’s great that folks can accomplish this.u00a0 It almost killed me when I tried it before.u00a0 So I speak from the experience of been there, done that, when I say I’d NEVER do it again.

Comment on Why You Haven’t Seen Change in Your Marriage (and What You Can Do to Fix It) pt. 2 by Anonymous

Anonymous — Mon, 10 Oct 2011 14:27:00 +0000

Or perhaps your spouse is still having her affair.nnIf she won’t end the affair, then she won’t even give credit even for the largest most consistent of changes.

Comment on The Mommy Madness Mistake by Anonymous

Anonymous — Mon, 03 Oct 2011 06:10:00 +0000

Another stunt I love is where the wife shows up at work with the kiddies in tow, whining and causing u00a0a commotion, where she thinksu00a0everybodyu00a0is going to SWOON over the little screamers racing the halls while the workers are trying talk to clients. u00a0Way to score points with the coworkers, and appear as a work-shirker, and again, it shows she doesn’t want to truly be alone with him BUT appear like she “does”.nnA better move for the wife…show up at END of shift looking foxy, with something fun arranged and DITCH the kiddies in babysitting swap.

Comment on How to Make Your Spouse Want to Change by Jeremy Jay Lee Austin-Skidmore

Jeremy Jay Lee Austin-Skidmore — Fri, 30 Sep 2011 18:21:00 +0000

Iu2019ve ASKED her what she needs to make the ONE BIG change (back) needed for our marriage. She said u201cI donu2019t know.u201d u00bfWhat do I do now?